Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Atlrocafella]

yep
1. stop holding onto a chick who has let go of you

2. don't chase after something that doesn't want to be chased

3. you never have to chase what wants to stay

Yup, cancel that bish like Nino. That ether really hurts when you still run into them and ignore them in their face. I saw a girl last week I cut off in the gym with her friend, her friend waved at me, I guess ol girl thought I was going to acknowledge her to, but nope , I know she tight about that shyt, but fukk her

 

[MikelArteta]

Yup, cancel that bish like Nino. That ether really hurts when you still run into them and ignore them in their face. I saw a girl last week I cut off in the gym with her friend, her friend waved at me, I guess ol girl thought I was going to acknowledge her to, but nope , I know she tight about that shyt, but fukk her

I have a ex that lives up the street, actually the second girl I ever loved. I see her at the grocery store etc. sometimes but I've never said a word to her in nearly two years. Sometimes I see her and she's about to open her mouth to say hello or something i just look in the other direction. Earlier this summer she came by to see my mom when my parents were in the city (they live in jamaica half the year), i just looked said hi to my mom and nothing to her

I don't hate her etc. or anything but she's nothing but a stranger to me at this point. Like I said I'm the nicest person out there but once someone disrespects me or its over its over. I'm not that ex whose your friend, im not that fb acquaintance, its done its over see ya. My mom is like I hope one day you guys can be friends im like i'll never utter a word to her until the day die.

I haven't said a word to my ex fiance (First girl I ever loved) in 6 years even when her mom was sending me birthday cards throughout the years I never asked about her when I called (thats dead now though)

but I never look back, like i said my goal is to be that person when you getting cheated on, feeling unloved, unattractive, lying in bed nursing your b*stard , sick in the hospital and no one visiting you, finding out your husband got a mistress you sit at night and ponder what could have been as you search facebook and try and find me.

 

[MikelArteta]

if you send a girl to the bushes, keep her there. she texts you to see if you will respond. if you ignore her, she's the one who takes the l. also, if you missed an opportunity, take your l and move on. nothing worse than your ego telling you you messed up and you trying to rectify that mistake. that's how these bytches trap you. if a woman is feeling you, there is no such thing as missing the right opportunity, if she isn't, there is no opportunity to be missed.

yup
Being a man of your word is the best
The more chances you give a woman the more respect you lose.

I let every chick know that if she messes up its the bushes, I don't believe in second chances when there are so many women out there praying on their hands for a nukka like me.

 

[Typical Simp]

Beautiful woman on Facebook:

Black men kill me. MOST of you don't have anything to "gold dig" but complain about gold diggers. MOST of you are such blatant simps it's a turn off. TOO MANY of you think about and try to have sex too much. You know a black man isn't doing a worthwhile thing in his life when most of what he talks about and posts about is sexual. Too many of you make no damn sense and your logic is flawed. On one hand you tell single mothers they shouldn't be dating...but on the other hand you tell a single mother dedicated to her kids that her biological clock is ticking and she should "have some fun" in life....all of this is covert for "I'd love to f--- you," by the way.

Most of you have zero to few accomplishments in life but want to be respected and revered as a dominant male. You want something for nothing. What's more is you rely on sex to get dominant male status. Stop trying to circumvent the system! Women respond to power and money. I've never in my life met a chick who was behind on her bills and said "I could really go for some sex over some money right now." It doesn't happen. dikk doesn't pay the bills, black men.

Too many of you can't sustain yourselves. I know grown black males in their forties who are in their mother's basement. They cannot survive on their own without finding some idiot female to latch onto. Stand on your own two feet! It's unmanly as hell to live off of females.

Too many of you can't have a relationship with a woman without trying to have sex with her.

That being said, there are some "together" black men out there. You should be "checking" and sharing knowledge with other black males, the same way you ask females to check each other.

 

[kevm3]

Sometimes you got to do them like that in order for them to actually learn how to behave decently. A lot of women have so many second and third chances that they are the equivalent of the playa who thinks they can do anything and then talk their way out of it. It's that one girl the playa meets, neglects and she doesn't give him another chance that makes him reevaluate his ways. It's the same thing with women. You give them countless chance after chance and they start to see you as disposable.

On a tangent, a woman will be where she wants to be. All of this you ran her off or she's busy stuff is utter nonsense. The coli itself attests to that. There's talk that 'mean dudes' ran such and such girl off, but in reality, that's nonsense. Dudes argue and go at women like Teedot and Kenya Doll all the time and yet they are still here. Then you got women who come in, use the coli only to never be seen again and dudes come in talking about 'we ran them off.' Nah, they didn't want to be here and got what they want and dipped. If a woman keeps coming with all of that I'm busy rhetoric and she's showing she isn't trying to be where you are, keep it pushing mane. Nobody is ever that busy that they can't take 5 seconds out of their day and send you a few texts on the phon.e

 

[FreshFromATL]

Sometimes you got to do them like that in order for them to actually learn how to behave decently. A lot of women have so many second and third chances that they are the equivalent of the playa who thinks they can do anything and then talk their way out of it. It's that one girl the playa meets, neglects and she doesn't give him another chance that makes him reevaluate his ways. It's the same thing with women. You give them countless chance after chance and they start to see you as disposable.

On a tangent, a woman will be where she wants to be. All of this you ran her off or she's busy stuff is utter nonsense. The coli itself attests to that. There's talk that 'mean dudes' ran such and such girl off, but in reality, that's nonsense. Dudes argue and go at women like Teedot and Kenya Doll all the time and yet they are still here. Then you got women who come in, use the coli only to never be seen again and dudes come in talking about 'we ran them off.' Nah, they didn't want to be here and got what they want and dipped. If a woman keeps coming with all of that I'm busy rhetoric and she's showing she isn't trying to be where you are, keep it pushing mane. Nobody is ever that busy that they can't take 5 seconds out of their day and send you a few texts on the phon.e

Gospel.

 

[Beerus]

This chick man got me weak.
I gotta make my move asap so I avoid that Friend Zone cuz I swear its going to hurt if I end up in it without doing shyt.

We went out to restaurant then played bowling. But a co worker(her friend im cool with her too) came as well
No I ain't pay for none of em cuz I ain't invite her I kinda just invited myself(told her she should pay for me when she was talking about it, then I was like I'd be down to go to ___ and shyt).

Purp its yo time to shine potna.
If not well..... I guess I could always get this other chick that kept rubbing her knee on my leg like it was nothing at work yesterday.

 

[Jahmal]

I dont usually take women on first dates but if I do it will be coffee dates. I took a chick out for coffee sunday night, chopped it up for an hour then bought her back to my condo and boned the shyt out of her. I only spent $4 for a cup of coffee for her .



If a woman is "too good" to meet up for you for coffee then she isn't really feeling you.

 

[Beerus]

I dont usually take women on first dates but if I do it will be coffee dates. I took a chick out for coffee sunday night, chopped it up for an hour then bought her back to my condo and boned the shyt out of her. I only spent $4 for a cup of coffee for her .



If a woman is "too good" to meet up for you for coffee then she isn't really feeling you.

Spoiler

Just gotta keep on working till i can get to that lvl one day ima make it

 

[Jahmal]

Just gotta keep on working till i can get to that lvl one day ima make it

It all starts in your head. Once you believe you are the shyt hoes will start believing it too.

"Women didnt start falling in love with me until I fell in love with myself" - Bobby Creekwater

 

[Mike Ock]

Women also need to be told when they fuk up. We live in a society where everything is the guy's fault. Kevm mentioned it in a few posts above, and I even have a better example. This chik i'm cool with is the biggest shyt talker ever. Has the nerve to say that the reason her and her ex broke up was because he was "mentally abusive". I know the dude and he's a pretty cool cat. I've seen her countless times just provoke the dude for no reason. After a while, dude pretty much started ignoring her and it fizzled. But in some weird female state of mind- it was his fault. I say that to say this, I had to break it down to her how her mouth easily fuked up that situation. And her response was "Well, he never said anything". I'm not saying curse her out, but a simple "Are you serious with this shyt you're tryng to pull right now?" ain't never hurt nobody. You should be confident when bringing it up too. I live by the "eye for an eye" rule. I've told my girl I value her a lot but value my self-respect more. We have little spate here and there, but overall she gets it.

If dudes don't let chiks know how they are feeling, there's only so much blame you can put on her.

 

[360dagod]

Women also need to be told when they fuk up. We live in a society where everything is the guy's fault. Kevm mentioned it in a few posts above, and I even have a better example. This chik i'm cool with is the biggest shyt talker ever. Has the nerve to say that the reason her and her ex broke up was because he was "mentally abusive". I know the dude and he's a pretty cool cat. I've seen her countless times just provoke the dude for no reason. After a while, dude pretty much started ignoring her and it fizzled. But in some weird female state of mind- it was his fault. I say that to say this, I had to break it down to her how her mouth easily fuked up that situation. And her response was "Well, he never said anything". I'm not saying curse her out, but a simple "Are you serious with this shyt you're tryng to pull right now?" ain't never hurt nobody. You should be confident when bringing it up too. I live by the "eye for an eye" rule. I've told my girl I value her a lot but value my self-respect more. We have little spate here and there, but overall she gets it.

If dudes don't let chiks know how they are feeling, there's only so much blame you can put on her.

Fam.he did the right thing by not saying nothing and making his exit...

Because you cant reason with broads like that...

You be diplomatic, they try to step on you

You be a dikk, then they amplify the shyt talking and start the shaming tactics...

I been thru this before...

Those bytches are toxic breh..

Those are the broads who get Ray Riced by the nikka who aint thinking before he acts

 

[kevm3]

One of the main reasons that things are so screwed up in the west is that people are 'career-oriented' instead of 'family-oriented.' How people sit around dedicating their lives to some corporation that will discard them whenever convenient is beyond me... and hence this is the problem with this modern feminist, aka 'independent, career-focused' woman. If you, as a man or woman, are more dedicated to your career than your family, then you are playing the game wrong. Back in the day, it was all about creating a strong family unit. Unit is singular, meaning ONE. A family was together as one unit. Nowadays, this concept is foreign, as women aren't even accepting their husband's last name. It's as if they are two people who are just living together for the moment. We're living in an age where lust and selfishness has overtaken love, and hence the disintegration of the family.

 

[kevm3]

I dont usually take women on first dates but if I do it will be coffee dates. I took a chick out for coffee sunday night, chopped it up for an hour then bought her back to my condo and boned the shyt out of her. I only spent $4 for a cup of coffee for her .



If a woman is "too good" to meet up for you for coffee then she isn't really feeling you.

Pretty much man. You can stand by a garbage dumpster and if a woman really likes you, some way she'll end up gravitating over there. Dudes end up losing because they keep messing with women that aren't really feeling them and keep doing these stunts to try to up her interest level. There was some post about some asian dude trying all of those PUA tactics and supposedly he talked to thousands of women. What he found out is the women he had success with were the ones that already liked him. If a woman likes you, all you have to text her is, 'come out and chill', and she'll be out there. If a broad isn't feeling you, these PUAs try to compensate by using 10,000 patterns, tricks and stunts.

Me, I think it's better to just move on. Why waste time giving something to someone who doesn't like or appreciate what you're offering when there's a lot of people who will? A lot of these PUA dudes, when they come across a woman that doesn't feel them, they change personalities. A smart man would simply change the woman.

 

[MikelArteta]

I'll show you how psycho women can be