Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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@Emperor_ReinScarf are you with that girl? I agree with cutting chicks off for disrespect, I get that. I just can't find myself cutting a chick off if she goes on a date with another guy because we aren't exclusive. Because unless we had the proper discussion, I'm gonna be doin me too. Now if we were an exclusive item and she did that :camby:
 

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The girl I mentioned on here a few months ago that had a boyfriend, was still talking to her ex and was trying to talk me randomly messaged me last night with "Hey, you fell off the scene so I wanted to check up on you :smile:"

It made me laugh because I thought I made it quite obvious those months ago that I wasn't gonna join the line of guys dying to talk to her so I didn't know I was a part of a scene :leon:
 

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Nah I dead it, it's not because she went on a lunch with another guy, its because she had to let me know she did. It's games and manipulation that women play, on some hurry up reinscarf, if you want me you better do so and so because i have another dude whose ready to.

As I get older reading women is easy, I wasn't born yesterday and realize chicks are still on their tinder, still replying to fb inbox, dming, still looking for the next best thing, the difference is when a chick has to let me know thats what infutriates me


@Emperor_ReinScarf are you with that girl? I agree with cutting chicks off for disrespect, I get that. I just can't find myself cutting a chick off if she goes on a date with another guy because we aren't exclusive. Because unless we had the proper discussion, I'm gonna be doin me too. Now if we were an exclusive item and she did that :camby:
 

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Stop worrying if a chick likes you or not breh


I don't want the friendzone i dont want the friendzone man.
If I don't do shyt ima get it for sure.
If I do then idk whats finna happen
WHY THE fukk AM I SCARED NOW I'VE BEEN GETTING L'S RIGHT AND LEFT AND YET I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO :snoop:

Like a nikka going on a trip for like 12 days am I doomed if I don't let her know how im feeling or nah?
 

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All these red flags

A few reasons:

1) wack head and hand job
2) too clingy and always wanted to hang out at all times
3) After we smash she always complained of headaches
4) We both had different expectations of what we wanted in a S/O
5) She told me she was a virigin before we smashed. She wasnt
6) She was already dating someone else in June but I was still smashing That fool was paying part of her rent
7) she wanted a relationship, I wanted to continue smash. She told me she would leave her new bf if I asked her
 

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So shortys sister hit me up yesterday trying to shyt on me for breaking up with her sister for "seeing a guy text her" when I have a female friend I'm cool with. I legit laughed and told her that nothing was going to come of this conversation. Part of the reason I should have left my girl way before I did was because of this shyt right here. Her COMPLETE and UTTER LACK of ability to take any responsibly for her actions. She creates a world where she can live comfortably with her bullshyt, despite everyone around her. I have no idea why I tried so hard to make it work. I knew all the rules, saw all the signs but wanted to keep giving her chances.

Gotta live to learn.
 

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A few reasons:

1) wack head and hand job
2) too clingy and always wanted to hang out at all times
3) After we smash she always complained of headaches
4) We both had different expectations of what we wanted in a S/O
5) She told me she was a virigin before we smashed. She wasnt
6) She was already dating someone else in June but I was still smashing That fool was paying part of her rent
7) she wanted a relationship, I wanted to continue smash. She told me she would leave her new bf if I asked her
:heh: and she cant fathom why yall broke up good lord.
 

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So shortys sister hit me up yesterday trying to shyt on me for breaking up with her sister for "seeing a guy text her" when I have a female friend I'm cool with. I legit laughed and told her that nothing was going to come of this conversation. Part of the reason I should have left my girl way before I did was because of this shyt right here. Her COMPLETE and UTTER LACK of ability to take any responsibly for her actions. She creates a world where she can live comfortably with her bullshyt, despite everyone around her. I have no idea why I tried so hard to make it work. I knew all the rules, saw all the signs but wanted to keep giving her chances.

Gotta live to learn.
This is all women breh.

I always tell my nikkas and girls who say "why cant we be friends?"
Why would you ever want a female as a friend?

They give poor advice because they have poor logic
Lack introspection or the ability to see something from anothers POV
Are rarely selfless
Are not reliable at all
Are not funny
Typically have hobbies that range from makeup and fashion to gossip and reality tv
And lastly, lack accountability as youve said

I mean what can they offer a man as a friend?
 

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This is all women breh.

I always tell my nikkas and girls who say "why cant we be friends?"
Why would you ever want a female as a friend?

They give poor advice because they have poor logic
Lack introspection or the ability to see something from anothers POV
Are rarely selfless
Are not reliable at all
Are not funny
Typically have hobbies that range from makeup and fashion to gossip and reality tv
And lastly, lack accountability as youve said

I mean what can they offer a man as a friend?
Even while "confessing" to me she was still lying. I told her I was done and she wailed for hours begging me to give her a second chance, yet STILL kept lying about shyt I already knew. I wasn't even mad or hurt, I was legit :ohhh:
 

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Women have no accountability for their actions.

I've been cheated on twice and both times it was my fault :mjlol:

Hell just this morning for whatever reason because I'm against tipping this broad lashed out at me, how she diewnr know if she can go out with me again. So you sat there ate your food enjoyed my time, ordered your fancy drinks but because I didn't tip I'm now a cheap skate and a jerk.

Don't let the door hit you on the way out ms

BTW I went out for dinner and yeah paid :kony: As a birthday treat back in March why even bring this ish up now?
 

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I'm almost back to the point of going back to my monk lifestyle, I'm just realizing again how crazy and rediculous most women are and the stress and aggravation is not worth it.

Since the start of the yeat all the women I've messed with I've had to deal with

Dealt with a chick she got distant , didn't talk to her for like 4 months she popped up and tried blaming me for it, told her to get lost leave me alone kept texting kept calling til I deaded it hopefully

Posted above chick got mad at me because I didn't tip even though it was her friggon bday and I paid for her meal and months later brings it up


Chick mad at a because I said I dated a girl that looks like shakira, and she can't compare she only wants to date guys thay she knows she is the most attractive girl they've been with.

Godsons mom owed me money got back like twenty percent sick of the hassle so I said screw it forget it. Suddenly she thinks it means we are on good terms I said hell no we are not friends anymore get lost. I canceled the payment not to speak you again.

And I have more
And all these chicks are different ages, different social classes ish is crazy brehs
 
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