Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[kevm3]

I'm almost back to the point of going back to my monk lifestyle, I'm just realizing again how crazy and rediculous most women are and the stress and aggravation is not worth it.

Since the start of the yeat all the women I've messed with I've had to deal with

Dealt with a chick she got distant , didn't talk to her for like 4 months she popped up and tried blaming me for it, told her to get lost leave me alone kept texting kept calling til I deaded it hopefully

Posted above chick got mad at me because I didn't tip even though it was her friggon bday and I paid for her meal and months later brings it up


Chick mad at a because I said I dated a girl that looks like shakira, and she can't compare she only wants to date guys thay she knows she is the most attractive girl they've been with.

Godsons mom owed me money got back like twenty percent sick of the hassle so I said screw it forget it. Suddenly she thinks it means we are on good terms I said hell no we are not friends anymore get lost. I canceled the payment not to speak you again.

And I have more
And all these chicks are different ages, different social classes ish is crazy brehs

Exactly. That's why I don't really focus on talking about getting women or all that nonsense. It's getting to the point where most interactions with women aren't even fun to deal with and you're doing it just because that's what you're 'supposed to do' as a man. The problem is these women never got checked in their lives and their simp posse constantly gives them excuses when a man does step up and put them in their place... hence you constantly dealing with women who fade away with no warning just because or who are bringing a variety of nonsense to your life. How can a man focus if he constantly has to worry about something, especially about not treating his woman too nice lest she think he's a simp and cheat on him? I ask dudes if you take sex out the equation, what is there to make you want to deal with the particular woman you are dealing with... most times dudes can't think of anything, and yet they are putting in all of this work and doing all of these tricks for no real reason.

 

[MikelArteta]

Daps

The one thing that riles me up the most is the threats these women give me.

"I don't know if I'll ever go out to dinner with you again if you don't tip"

"What you said really bothered me, I don't know if we will talk the same"

I mean who the hell are you to throw threats my way.

And you are right take away sex, a pretty face what do most women offer?

S

Exactly. That's why I don't really focus on talking about getting women or all that nonsense. It's getting to the point where most interactions with women aren't even fun to deal with and you're doing it just because that's what you're 'supposed to do' as a man. The problem is these women never got checked in their lives and their simp posse constantly gives them excuses when a man does step up and put them in their place... hence you constantly dealing with women who fade away with no warning just because or who are bringing a variety of nonsense to your life. How can a man focus if he constantly has to worry about something, especially about not treating his woman too nice lest she think he's a simp and cheat on him? I ask dudes if you take sex out the equation, what is there to make you want to deal with the particular woman you are dealing with... most times dudes can't think of anything, and yet they are putting in all of this work and doing all of these tricks for no real reason.

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

Women have no accountability for their actions.

I've been cheated on twice and both times it was my fault

Hell just this morning for whatever reason because I'm against tipping this broad lashed out at me, how she diewnr know if she can go out with me again. So you sat there ate your food enjoyed my time, ordered your fancy drinks but because I didn't tip I'm now a cheap skate and a jerk.

Don't let the door hit you on the way out ms

BTW I went out for dinner and yeah paid :kony: As a birthday treat back in March why even bring this ish up now?

If she was a real woman she would tip, while you paid the bill. Or you could have just told her straight up, leave money for the tip.

I've checked out on relationships with women because I've found that the effort it takes to maintain relationships just hasn't been worth it. It occurs to me quite often that most women don't have anything to offer besides their p*ssy, yet they have everything to gain. I was dating a girl this summer and I took her on 7 straight dates (1st date dinner, fogo de chao, hotel, breakfast, dinner & a movie, paid for gas to drive to see her, she lived quite far) and one weekend she wanted to go out, I said I was broke (had to pay bills and get my car worked on) and she didn't offer to pay.....It was just absurd to me.

This may seem crazy but I really enjoy my time alone and women are just an added bonus. I love the companionship of a woman but it's truly work for me. A lot of times to keep a woman around and happy I have to compromise and sacrifice a lot of things I'd like to do with my personal time in order to spend time and money with her. It's just too much at times and almost feels like a 2nd job...There was a Saturday night this summer where I didn't have to DJ and would have much rather spent my time watching the GGG fight, instead I was watching Twilight bored to death......


I dunno, Ideally I just want fukk buddies that I can go to movies/shows/eat with occasionally but I don't want to deal with any of the bullshyt that comes along with a relationship.

 

[The ADD]

I'm almost back to the point of going back to my monk lifestyle, I'm just realizing again how crazy and rediculous most women are and the stress and aggravation is not worth it.

Since the start of the yeat all the women I've messed with I've had to deal with

Dealt with a chick she got distant , didn't talk to her for like 4 months she popped up and tried blaming me for it, told her to get lost leave me alone kept texting kept calling til I deaded it hopefully

Posted above chick got mad at me because I didn't tip even though it was her friggon bday and I paid for her meal and months later brings it up


Chick mad at a because I said I dated a girl that looks like shakira, and she can't compare she only wants to date guys thay she knows she is the most attractive girl they've been with.

Godsons mom owed me money got back like twenty percent sick of the hassle so I said screw it forget it. Suddenly she thinks it means we are on good terms I said hell no we are not friends anymore get lost. I canceled the payment not to speak you again.

And I have more
And all these chicks are different ages, different social classes ish is crazy brehs

What happened to the chick from the trip?

 

[MikelArteta]

I still talk to her , she;'s actually the chick who got upset that a girl i dated 5 years ago looked like shakira.

And the girl from the trip is a legit model in magazines signed to a agency

i dont even talk to my former shakira lookalike .

I got told how I make her feel unattractive adn that she can't compare , and that every guy she has ever dated etc. she was the hottest girl they ever had and she likes it like that

What happened to the chick from the trip?

 

[The ADD]

I still talk to her , but I know realize why a chick that looks like that was single for so long

 

[MikelArteta]

If she was a real woman she would tip, while you paid the bill. Or you could have just told her straight up, leave money for the tip.

I've checked out on relationships with women because I've found that the effort it takes to maintain relationships just hasn't been worth it. It occurs to me quite often that most women don't have anything to offer besides their p*ssy, yet they have everything to gain. I was dating a girl this summer and I took her on 7 straight dates (1st date dinner, fogo de chao, hotel, breakfast, dinner & a movie, paid for gas to drive to see her, she lived quite far) and one weekend she wanted to go out, I said I was broke (had to pay bills and get my car worked on) and she didn't offer to pay.....It was just absurd to me.

This may seem crazy but I really enjoy my time alone and women are just an added bonus. I love the companionship of a woman but it's truly work for me. A lot of times to keep a woman around and happy I have to compromise and sacrifice a lot of things I'd like to do with my personal time in order to spend time and money with her. It's just too much at times and almost feels like a 2nd job...There was a Saturday night this summer where I didn't have to DJ and would have much rather spent my time watching the GGG fight, instead I was watching Twilight bored to death......


I dunno, Ideally I just want fukk buddies that I can go to movies/shows/eat with occasionally but I don't want to deal with any of the bullshyt that comes along with a relationship.

breh its crazy, its always me me me others then you with women. I never spend money on chicks but because it was her birthday im like ill take her out to her fav restaurant, she got her steak, she got her fancy alcoholic drink, the bill was almost 100, im not mr 6 figure 6 cert. Instead of being appreciative im a cheap skate and a jerk , you get more admiration and respect doing nothing for women

And yep strip away her looks and a vagina and most women offer nothing but stress, drama and nags, you do something nice its not good enough. Gotta call, text, show attention, go out and all that and for what? This past saturday i sast in front of my tv from 9am to 2am just watching football and I enjoyed every damn minute, I've said it before on here and honestly I mean it, I enjoy watching football more than I enjoy hanging out a woman , and i'm a straight red blooded hormone raging male. I love having a great girl on my side but most women out there aren't great, I see what my dad got, I see what my brother in law got, i see what a few brehs I know got and they won . I'm almost back to entering my coc00n again, i have no idea how some people talk to like 10 girls at a time and have a sidechick left right and center, just messing with one chick at a time nags at my inner core.

 

[LezJepzin]

I've had my soul crushed so many times, I'm starting to feel numb

Finally ran into that girl from my job today. Saw her sitting by herself outside so I came by to chop it up for a bit. Yeah, she's still with that nikka. Came by right when she was on the phone with ol boy, talking about how she misses him and shyt and is having "withdrawals"


I really envy you dudes who don't need to peep this thread to see "what in the fukk I'm doing wrong" I'm not going to a university right now, I'm an attractive dude with my shyt together and I get plenty of attention. Just seems like there is NOTHING available where I'm at or people think I'm "married" because I carry myself well

Just had to rant off on here before I go back to work

 

[MikelArteta]

I've had my soul crushed so many times, I'm starting to feel numb

Finally ran into that girl from my job today. Saw her sitting by herself outside so I came by to chop it up for a bit. Yeah, she's still with that nikka. Came by right when she was on the phone with ol boy, talking about how she misses him and shyt and is having "withdrawals"


I really envy you dudes who don't need to peep this thread to see "what in the fukk I'm doing wrong" I'm not going to a university right now, I'm an attractive dude with my shyt together and I get plenty of attention. Just seems like there is NOTHING available where I'm at or people think I'm "married" because I carry myself well

Just had to rant off on here before I go back to work

all i can say is stop caring.
honestly everytime i just said screw it and stopped caring is when women popped up left right and center.

I'd also recommend take a trip somewhere 1 week, download tinder and set it to that location a few weeks before and swipe everything, if im not mistaken you will eat go away for a week and have a blast.
.

 

[MikelArteta]

ive shared this story numerous times and im sharing it again

http://www.thestar.com/news/immigra...s_brampton_bride_brokenhearted_and_broke.html

if a woman likes you, loves you, is interested in you IT DOESN'T MATTER where you live a different country, what you look like, how much money you got in your name, how much money you spend on her, once she feels something for you, there is literally nothing you have to do

Standen says she met Gonzalez on vacation at the Club Amigo resort in Guardalavaca in April 2010, where he worked as an entertainer. The two fell in love and she travelled back and forth 10 times to be with him. She married him in January 2012 and filed for sponsorship.

“I loaded his phone with money so he could text me. I called him every day, twice a day. I sent him and his family $60 to $80 every two weeks. I got them cooking utensils, jeans and spices,” Standen says, teary.

“I stayed with him at his parents’ house. They said they loved me and he always put me on the phone with them. Before I leave, there are always tears in everyone’s eyes.”



so here we have it a woman so infatuated so in love that she flew ten times from canada to cuba which is $$$ prob like 4-500 a trip to see this breh

she loaded his phone with money, she called him every day she gave his broke ass family 80 bucks every two weeks (do you know how much that is in cuba)

this woman wasn't even in the same damn country yet took time out of her busy schedule and called her broke ass dude that she loved every day


yet these girls in your own city with top of the line smartphones, working retail, living a luxury life can't even text you back or pick up the phone and talk to you

yet these chicks won't spend a dime on dinner and won't even take the bs or drive half n hour to come see her and this broad is flying out to cuba ten times

This is why i say if a woman is into you, it doesn't matter what you do, you don't have to spend all this bread/money on her, you don't have to sacrifice over and over again, you don't even have to live in the same damn city

 

[Turbulent]

ive shared this story numerous times and im sharing it again

http://www.thestar.com/news/immigra...s_brampton_bride_brokenhearted_and_broke.html

if a woman likes you, loves you, is interested in you IT DOESN'T MATTER where you live a different country, what you look like, how much money you got in your name, how much money you spend on her, once she feels something for you, there is literally nothing you have to do

Standen says she met Gonzalez on vacation at the Club Amigo resort in Guardalavaca in April 2010, where he worked as an entertainer. The two fell in love and she travelled back and forth 10 times to be with him. She married him in January 2012 and filed for sponsorship.

“I loaded his phone with money so he could text me. I called him every day, twice a day. I sent him and his family $60 to $80 every two weeks. I got them cooking utensils, jeans and spices,” Standen says, teary.

“I stayed with him at his parents’ house. They said they loved me and he always put me on the phone with them. Before I leave, there are always tears in everyone’s eyes.”



so here we have it a woman so infatuated so in love that she flew ten times from canada to cuba which is $$$ prob like 4-500 a trip to see this breh

she loaded his phone with money, she called him every day she gave his broke ass family 80 bucks every two weeks (do you know how much that is in cuba)

this woman wasn't even in the same damn country yet took time out of her busy schedule and called her broke ass dude that she loved every day


yet these girls in your own city with top of the line smartphones, working retail, living a luxury life can't even text you back or pick up the phone and talk to you

yet these chicks won't spend a dime on dinner and won't even take the bs or drive half n hour to come see her and this broad is flying out to cuba ten times

This is why i say if a woman is into you, it doesn't matter what you do, you don't have to spend all this bread/money on her, you don't have to sacrifice over and over again, you don't even have to live in the same damn city

meanwhile dudes are trying to decipher signs. trying to interpret hairstrokes and leg-crossing

dudes need to stop looking for signs from outside and start looking for gut feelings from within.

 

[MikelArteta]

meanwhile dudes are trying to decipher signs. trying to interpret hairstrokes and leg-crossing

dudes need to stop looking for signs from outside and start looking for gut feelings from within.

all that signs etc. crap is a joke

i always say if you have to ask yourself if a girl likes you more than likely she doesn't.

if you go with your gut you'll be right most of the times.

I always know when a girl is into me and she likes me always.

the same how if a girl wants to be with you nothing will stop her, it doesn't matter if you lost your job, if your fat, skinny, hairline no hairline, live in friggin cuba working at a resort, making 6 figures, taking the bus, have a crappy 1985 ford pinto.

 

[Beerus]

Stop worrying if a chick likes you or not breh

That's the thing I'm 80% sure she does but i dont want to fukk it up

Breh








































I'M IN LOVE WITH THAT GIRL

 

[Turbulent]

That's the thing I'm 80% sure she does but i dont want to fukk it up

Breh








































I'M IN LOVE WITH THAT GIRL

why are you in love with her? what does she bring to the table?

 

[LezJepzin]

all i can say is stop caring.
honestly everytime i just said screw it and stopped caring is when women popped up left right and center.

I'd also recommend take a trip somewhere 1 week, download tinder and set it to that location a few weeks before and swipe everything, if im not mistaken you will eat go away for a week and have a blast.
.

I'm already making a trip to Portland next month for another marathon. Get my networking up before I leave