Let me tell you something
Your 21 yr old "crippled" with debt can buy a house and retire before 50 easily in today's economy
A 21 yr old should be in good shape. That means it's not necessary for him to buy a 40,000 car with payments for the next 5 yrs, 200 a month for insurance, along with gas and maintenance
Drop the fukking ego
Buy a thousand dollar mountain bike. Get it tuned up every 3 months for 50 bucks. Buy no flat tubes. Every single last dollar u had to spend on the car money trap, save+invest. Utilize Amazon, insta cart, Uber one, Lyft. It's not 1998 it's 2025 a car is not a necessity everything including groceries can be delivered. Rental cars can be had for 60 bucks a day for dates
Now in 5 years instead of a paid off used vehicle that makes u look poor or u gotta buy another one, u got $50,000 as a down payment. Now u not paying rent, u paying down a mortgage
Before the age of 40 the house is yours, simply cause u rode a bike instead of driving a car to work
U all are doing to yourselves, tryna impress and outdo each other instead of focusing on aquiring assets and removing yourself from the 9 to 5 hamster wheel. The money is there, the younger generation is absolutely horrible at allocating money properly, and even further, they brag about getting finessed. When the hell did sneakers start going for over 500 dollars? Thousand dollar jeans? They wanna play rich instead of actually being rich
How many people do u know with thousand dollar phones? 600 a month car payments? That's a waste of money. That's why they can't afford a house, they spent the house money on trinkets
Stop spending, stop being free walking billboards for rich companies and learn how to to grow your money
It's thats too hard then fukk it, go live in a van down by the side of the river
Nevermind the fact if people actually focused on relationships and partnerships, not pseudo-transanctional bullshyt, it'd be much easier for young folks to save up to buy a home or make other significant investments. But everything is so fukked up now with dating