So fellas, the ladies wondering why ya'll aren't settling down for them. -Essence Mag

[The Mad Titan]

Everybody always tries to make this discussion more complicated than it really is.

If you are a woman and you are not married yet it is because you are just not wife material. Simple.

Great wife material women don't just get passed up on. That's like saying there is a basketball player in the league that is 10x better than Michael Jordan ever was, but teams just keep passing on him for absolutely no logical reason. It doesn't happen. So all these delusional women keep blaming men for this when they refuse to look at themselves. Being classy and educated doesn't automatically equate to a good woman. My older cousin, shes a top lawyer at her firm she's educated obviously, doesn't go out too much. Isn't showing ass and isn't all over the gram, but she isn't homely at all. Can't cook well and would rather hire somebody to clean. She's just not a "Hold the fort down" kind of woman. And she wonders why a man hasn't proposed yet.

Men are expected in society to be the breadwinners and be highly educated and all that other stuff. We need somebody to fill our gaps not bring the same thing we already have.
If we have built a house and a woman comes by and says "Well look at me I built a house on my own" and another woman comes buy and says "I love your house I have all this furniture." Guess who is getting the ring?

Gonna quote again so this doesn't go unnoticed

 

[Art Barr]

Haha respect. This post is hilarious I have nothing but sisters all of them married well except one. Infact 2 of my Sister's husbands are millionaires.

the one that didn't marry well, ended up getting pregnant by some nikka with different baby mom's no degree either. I asked her what she saw in him he's tall and darkskin her ex was tall
No talk of ambition, etc...That hoe is suffering now. Lol

all my sisters have masters or PhD but don't work and are stay at home mom's but she's working 12 hr pharmacist shifts.

I have mercy on her all time. Even when she disrespects me. If i should decide to tell her about her life she will cry blood.

We need to stop coddling women. She even gets angry when I talk about single moms, single ladies who have nothing but degrees. My other sisters who have happy marriages never disagree with me in that regard.

Shes bitter and mad

Sound a lot like your one sister.
listened to them wack former dope boi alimony eic Cs succubus aunties based gold diggers.
Then, tried to play I can do good by my damn self.
after taking and getting checks and failed.


Art Barr

 

[AKM-95]

I disagree 100% but I'll let y'all cook. Half these controlling ass broads will get some act immediately when a nikka with some paper roll up. Y'all must have never seen women switch up for a nikka they really want.

Theres alot of truth in this...... women will change quick for something or someone they want to do.

 

[Art Barr]

So sick of these types of topics:
Why aren't black people getting married?
Why are black men marrying outside their race?
Are black women undesirable?
All this shyt is so played and old.
I doubt other races sit around and debate shyt like this.

They have their culture intact, tho.

They all paid to have our culture removed so we would be like this.


Art Barr

 

[KinksandCoils]

It's pretty hard to find someone in the netflix and chill phase.
The talk online for a day and meet up phase.
The she can pay for her own shyt phase.
The I want to do the least as possible phase.


Should I go on?

 

[Whooty Chaser]

These women are chasing something they can't catch, no pity from me.

 

[Art Barr]

See? I think it has something to do with being raised here with these extreme ideals that's the problem.

Your brother was kind of really mean about that, though, but she will most likely figure it out. After all, if all the women in the family are married, it puts pressure on her neck to get herself together.

Why isn't she meeting anyone in her field? I'm pretty sure she can find people who make as much as her there.

In corporate America there is no more affirmative action to have other people of color or even possible interest points in your field anymore.
shyt is so racist without affirmative action,...i doubt people who hardcore career black people see anyone of color at all..as they are more prone to live out of their means..scary about the hood so they live in overpriced residential areas segregated from people of color.
Plus, more than likely white washed as all hell.
So, without affirmative action there was a shortage of just black people in corporate America..so, I know after there is no affirmative action there definitely are no people of color predominately even jn the building where she works.
The recession was real although I see, southerners act like there was no great recession.
Yet the inability to correlate race and being from down south in a corporate capacity really strikes me as odd.
There was never a large number of black people in different age groups.
To even create the possibility of dating, in the corporate world.
We were to far displaced and now after the recession and this wack sellout president it is gonna get worse.
Plus, that tax check females like to parade on us is over with too.
Especially if she got a 40k a year job and a few kids.
So, the Stunting that black women did with degrees era is over with, too.
White people in America long conned us as black people than a mothefukker.
Like we used to be a central threat to no threat at all.


Art Barr

 

[Art Barr]

It's pretty hard to find someone in the netflix and chill phase.
The talk online for a day and meet up phase.
The she can pay for her own shyt phase.
The I want to do the least as possible phase.


Should I go on?

That is black women's fault for subscribing to not being about the human connection in general.
It was a whole era where black women made black men have to have one night stands with them to get it to pop.
Or, you not in there like that and luckily I reaped the benefits of it.
Yet, and still when I wanted to connect with black women.
All they wanted was the strong silent type and never invested in getting to know me more than just dikk cause I was broke.
Black women lost trying to play economic based games with black men.
Plus, crack erroded the genetics and black women used crack at obscene rates just like the cluck ass nikkaz and females using coke right now in the south more than nikkaz from what I seen.
So, the genetics of the tall guy they want don't eve exist anymore.
So, the whole I can make an NBA player from a tall nikka shyt is dead from the nineties, too.
All that old school wack golddigging auntie game is dead and black women need to get the memo.

Blakc women need to be about the human connection, like pronto.

You, can't have strong and silent type spenders like white culture aspires to be to get women.
We do not have the economic pole position anymore like the black baby boomer Gen and good man who is a wage worker era did.
So, all this welfare princess with eic alimony auntie shyt all black women in general subscribed to is dead.


Black women have to reauthenicste themselves with black men and vice versa.

Art Barr

 

[Art Barr]

Black men need a teammate.
Not a bedwench mentality compromised sellout and capitalist with no virtue that most black women subscribed to.
Trying to be the ball'n eic/alimony/cs project mentality dope boi wife auntie with designer bags.


Art Barr

 

[Art Barr]

Black men need a teammate.
Not a bedwench mentality compromised sellout and capitalist with no virtue that most black women subscribed to.
Trying to be the ball'n eic/alimony/cs project mentality dope boi wife auntie with designer bags.


Art Barr

 

[Aceofspades404]

you have seasoned hag on your log in, brehette.

trying to find someone is not a bullshyt tongue in cheek sarcastic game and i know so.
all, because you on here trying to raid the braintrust.
to figure out the equation to men.
yet, continue to defy all the actual rules that are visibily present.
plus, continue to shun.


art barr

My nikka what?

 

[Art Barr]

My nikka what?

You, sarcastic as hell about the shyt, brehette.
Like when has ever being single been a game.
If you think it is a sarcastic game.
That is where you went wrong right there from jump.
Sorry but I don't treat my love life like a game or parody.
Maybe you do, but people who real about real relationships just don't .
Everything is not a joke or a game.

How is your eternal long term happiness a joke, coy sarcastic remark and how do you value yourself as a mate and you connect hag to your ideal of self.

Are we being real,...it makes no sense for a female with no outside interest to be on this forum.
Unless she is trying to figure out and raid a braintrust.
Like this shyt is about the culture of hip hop, sports fandom, etc.
Yet, you never really in no other parts of the forums, ever.
We know why females come here, brehette..
Yet, you would be better served to find a mate.
by actually getting an activity and your own world.
for a mate to want to value as well as you.
Instead of making a sarcastic coy remark that is self deprecating and attached to exactly why you come here.
Also, females trying to be friends in a male dominated forum..is indicative of the same type of behavior of a female who got to many male friends.
When, she has her attention to divided by to many males and unable to focus on her priorities.

Yet, she still smoking blunts with the fellas and basically smutting herself out.
or roster building and that shyt is undesirable to a guy.
Build and find value in yourself sista,....you should never associate yourself with a hag.
Plus I see you took to the self deprecating lames of this community as some sort of gospel..without ever really tapping into the real pulse of this community anyway.
You grasping at straws doing the same bullshyt these same nikka who not known do and then wonder why fail here.
Don't gravitate to the self deprecating everything does not matter goofies around here.
The type I table and follow me around the internet cause I expose how lame they are.
To the point I been owning nikkaz while lives on here for two decades almost.

Stop the self deprecation and really build.
All that lame self deprecating bullshyt you took to from the lame nikkaz around here is sending you off.
If you care to pay attention to the reales nikka ever on here, or not.


Art Barr

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

Is this the sort of gossip rap essence is running now?

Relationship columns about macroeconomic trends of black male dating habits?

Women kill me focusing on this shyt as if they don't have more important things to worry about

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

The article mentioned it. That a majority of all of these ladies issues... starts with them. They don't know what a good man looks like. It's not promoted in our community and rightfully so like most things in the field of war which this country is right now for us. It's meant to be that way. In a superficial world, our Black ppl are the most and it's because we understand the least about ourselves, our family and most important our history. Even during segregation, we understood ourselves and our families. Not so much anymore.

they're working bullshyt jobs/industries thinking they're "doing it" too

 

[Art Barr]

Ayo, what happened to ktd2?


Art Barr