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I was drafted by the GMB army. 
So Yall Really not gon get Married?
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He's talking out his ass. Every point he's made has been countered. Instead of just admitting that he doesn’t think he has what it takes to have a successful marriage he decided it the boogey man that’s gonna get him and all his riches. LolYou think earning a couple thousand more a year is enough to justify alimony?
BmoreGorilla
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Yup. And for the record I can completely understand somebody never wanting to marry. But most men ain’t making so much more money that they would have to pay alimony. And child support can easily be avoided
Please you ain't escaping child support on a 6 figure income. Even if you only make chump change they taking 20% off top.
BmoreGorilla
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Not if you have joint custody and don’t make a lot more than your former spousePlease you ain't escaping child support on a 6 figure income. Even if you only make chump change they taking 20% off top.
I may not have what it takes, but you are DEFINITELY dying alone with your cats and plants.
Please you ain't escaping child support on a 6 figure income. Even if you only make chump change they taking 20% off top.
There's no point in even talking to that dude.
He has to devolve into semantical pouting, because he off top believes whatever his
Coli guuurllfraands tell him and is too gullible to do his own research.All those divorce facts and stories from average guys who've gotten killed by the courts system - it's all fairy tales. None of it ever happens. Women are always good and try to be fair and honest during the process. No woman has ever used marriage as a come up. Et cetera.
"When I said 'many' I didn't mean 'many' - I meant like two or three!" looking ass
Rocket Scientist
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Here is an example. A construction worker works long hot summer days. Recently bought a house with his wife and their 2 kids.She wants a divorce.so this guy:
Busted his ass for years rain snow sleet hail to make her happy.She flips a random switch and messes his life up forever
Loses custody of kids (See kids 6 days out of 30/31)
Goes from living in nice house to small room apartment
401K gone,retirement,overtime (yes they take overtime in divorce court)
Loses $ in divorce meaning a young construction worker will be old with back problems still working.
What benefit does a married man get?
"but but he gets someone to love"....."he gets a home cooked meal". all stuff I listed happens to everyday men. I didnt even go into scam that is child support 
Busted his ass for years rain snow sleet hail to make her happy.She flips a random switch and messes his life up forever
Loses custody of kids (See kids 6 days out of 30/31)
Goes from living in nice house to small room apartment
401K gone,retirement,overtime (yes they take overtime in divorce court)
Loses $ in divorce meaning a young construction worker will be old with back problems still working.
What benefit does a married man get?
"but but he gets someone to love"....."he gets a home cooked meal". all stuff I listed happens to everyday men. I didnt even go into scam that is child support 
Wear My Dawg's Hat
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How do we form stable, balanced families and communities for CHILDREN without marriage?
Here is an example. A construction worker works long hot summer days. Recently bought a house with his wife and their 2 kids.She wants a divorce.so this guy:
Busted his ass for years rain snow sleet hail to make her happy.She flips a random switch and messes his life up forever
Loses custody of kids (See kids 6 days out of 30/31)
Goes from living in nice house to small room apartment
401K gone,retirement,overtime (yes they take overtime in divorce court)
Loses $ in divorce meaning a young construction worker will be old with back problems still working.
What benefit does a married man get?
According to the FakePearl Empress With No Clothes, this never happens.
According to her pet gorilla, men actually come out better off financially after the divorce.
We're just making stuff up.
Man I can't even imagine being this weird and petty and generalizing of the sexes
I got married on Friday to a woman I love. We've been together 8 years. She was with me when I was broke and struggling to make rent, and she's with me now as we are a few years into our mortgage, living comfortably
Are you all this miserable in real life? Honest question. Like is this whole gender war some stuff that gets parroted because you read it online? Is that it?
The hyperbole is crazy. On both sides. It's like y'all aren't even talking to or about people. That internet anonymity hits like a motherfukker.
It's just so bizarre to me, just coming from a setting where we threw this amazing party for friends and relatives, had an incredible amount of positive feedback, on the job we did planning but also our character.
I know tons of people in here are not used to having someone have their back like that. To them showing the quality of their character over and over again. To have their family show their character, and reinforce it over and over again in positive ways. To understand that someone else can have your back, they can keep your secrets, they are willing to take that leap with you, and build, and grow. I know many of you haven't had that yet. All I want to say is this: you have to be open to that to receive it. You have to be willing to leave your safe space and put yourself out there.
Live scared and you'll die scared. That's all. I hope you find it
I got married on Friday to a woman I love. We've been together 8 years. She was with me when I was broke and struggling to make rent, and she's with me now as we are a few years into our mortgage, living comfortably
Are you all this miserable in real life? Honest question. Like is this whole gender war some stuff that gets parroted because you read it online? Is that it?
The hyperbole is crazy. On both sides. It's like y'all aren't even talking to or about people. That internet anonymity hits like a motherfukker.
It's just so bizarre to me, just coming from a setting where we threw this amazing party for friends and relatives, had an incredible amount of positive feedback, on the job we did planning but also our character.
I know tons of people in here are not used to having someone have their back like that. To them showing the quality of their character over and over again. To have their family show their character, and reinforce it over and over again in positive ways. To understand that someone else can have your back, they can keep your secrets, they are willing to take that leap with you, and build, and grow. I know many of you haven't had that yet. All I want to say is this: you have to be open to that to receive it. You have to be willing to leave your safe space and put yourself out there.
Live scared and you'll die scared. That's all. I hope you find it
BmoreGorilla
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That’s not even what I saidThere's no point in even talking to that dude.
He has to devolve into semantical pouting, because he off top believes whatever his
All those divorce facts and stories from average guys who've gotten killed by the courts system - it's all fairy tales. None of it ever happens. Women are always good and try to be fair and honest during the process. No woman has ever used marriage as a come up. Et cetera.
"When I said 'many' I didn't mean 'many' - I meant like two or three!" looking ass
I said many women especially black women are earning just as much as men if not more. Which is true. The graph you posted proved it becuz it shows the average black male is only making a couple thousand more a year than black women
BmoreGorilla
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the bossman
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And congratulations on your new union breh. May you all have a lifetime of happiness and raise healthy children that embody the essence black excellence
You gotta fix the single mother epidemic long before focusing on marriage. Can't put the cart before the horse so to speak. That alone solves the number 1 reason for men being against marriage is ending up a step father.