So Yall Really not gon get Married?

[RTF]

And i'll add life only gets faster. You'll be 28 before you know it and you won't consider yourself old. If you've lived right, you'll still be attractive to women who are 22 now. Not worn out, jaded, second choice any of that shyt.

I've said this before and I'll say it again. While it's preferable to build with a woman. And if you're on job and socialise enough.. women will see that and want to join you if you put yourself out there. There's nothing wrong with getting your shyt up and choosing from there. It's a market. You all have things to exchange. As a man - financial resources is one of the main things you can use to attract quality women. Then you have to ask "what do you bring to the table?" Smart women, who have their own will want you. Beautiful homemaker types will want you. I'm not talking 30, I'm talking 24/25.

I guess San Diego is a quality city (only been once) and expensive. When you're 28, 30, you're unlikely to have everything sorted out anyway. Property prices too expensive. So you're still building.

At the moment you have potential and ambition to offer women. Being introverted and a homebody is a detriment to you when it comes to women. I'm going to assume you near-broke too because you're young. You said you were below average looks-wise. That's not a fault of women.

But you have a lot going for you breh. Don't beat women as a whole up about it.

 

[Apollo Creed]

And i'll add life only gets faster. You'll be 28 before you know it and you won't consider yourself old. If you've lived right, you'll still be attractive to women who are 22 now. Not worn out, jaded, second choice any of that shyt.

I've said this before and I'll say it again. While it's preferable to build with a woman. And if you're on job and socialise enough.. women will see that and want to join you if you put yourself out there. There's nothing wrong with getting your shyt up and choosing from there. It's a market. You all have things to exchange. As a man - financial resources is one of the main things you can use to attract quality women. Then you have to ask "what do you bring to the table?" Smart women, who have their own will want you. Beautiful homemaker types will want you. I'm not talking 30, I'm talking 24/25.

I guess San Diego is a quality city (only been once) and expensive. When you're 28, 30, you're unlikely to have everything sorted out anyway. Property prices too expensive. So you're still building.

At the moment you have potential and ambition to offer women. Being introverted and a homebody is a detriment to you when it comes to women. I'm going to assume you near-broke too because you're young. You said you were below average looks-wise. That's not a fault of women.

But you have a lot going for you breh. Don't beat women as a whole up about it.

the homemaker type doesn't exist anymore

 

[sosayeth]

Thats fcked up breh..

Being that I socialize a lot with both sexes, I ignore "stats" concerning things such as dating.. My generation didn't live/die by stats, so forgive my ignorance..

With all due respect to the elders, the world is much different than when you were a young man forty years ago.

 

[Wildhundreds]

With all due respect to the elders, the world is much different than when you were a young man forty years ago.

I agree.. People have become more vain and materialistic.. Among other things..

 

[sosayeth]

People aren't getting married out of boredom. Most marriages end because of finances.

Do you eat shyt every morning and this is where you come to dump it out? Eight out of ten women end eight out of ten marriages because of "irreconcilable differences" i.e., after the hard part to do alone - the kids are older - is over, women, being the perpetual teenage children they are, start to wish back for the days when they were twenty-two instead of growing up and accepting they're not anymore.

 

[Lord Vile]

 

[Wildhundreds]

Do you eat shyt every morning and this is where you come to dump it out? Eight out of ten women end eight out of ten marriages because of "irreconcilable differences" i.e., after the hard part to do alone - the kids are older - is over, women, being the perpetual teenage children they are, start to wish back for the days when they were twenty-two instead of growing up and accepting they're not anymore.

How about they got married when they were young and grew apart during the marriage..

Like I said, you'd be a fool to get married in your twenties and early thirties.. But keep interpreting it as "boredom"..

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

10 Most Common Reasons for Divorce

1. Infidelity
2. Finances
3. Lack of communication
4. Constant arguing
5. Weight gain
6. Unrealistic expectations
7. Lack of intimacy
8. Lack of equality
9. Not being prepared for marriage
10. Physical and emotional abuse

 

[sosayeth]

10 Most Common Reasons for Divorce

1. Infidelity
2. Finances
3. Lack of communication
4. Constant arguing
5. Weight gain
6. Unrealistic expectations
7. Lack of intimacy
8. Lack of equality
9. Not being prepared for marriage
10. Physical and emotional abuse

When people talk about how retarded Americans are and how the school system is setting up people to not even have basic teenage-level reading comprehension, you can always count on someone to storm into a discussion and prove it.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

10 Most Common Reasons for Divorce

1. Infidelity
2. Finances
3. Lack of communication
4. Constant arguing
5. Weight gain
6. Unrealistic expectations
7. Lack of intimacy
8. Lack of equality
9. Not being prepared for marriage
10. Physical and emotional abuse

Watch him come in and slot all this under boredom

...oh wait...too late lol

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

How about they got married when they were young and grew apart during the marriage..

Like I said, you'd be a fool to get married in your twenties and early thirties.. But keep interpreting it as "boredom"..

I really agree with this but so many echo the opposite. I always thought marriage in. The mid to late 30s makes so much sense especially if you cab make it that far with baggage. It really filters out who’s who.

 

[sosayeth]

Watch him come in and slot all this under boredom

...oh wait...too late lol

I don't need to.

"Common reasons" is an unordered list.
When you're a retard and have the reading ability of a middle schooler, though, you take it as an ordered one, though.

I've quoted all the quotes from the article with "common" in context.

Here is a list of commonly observed grounds for divorce

Let's look at the 10 most common reasons

This is one of the most common causes of divorce.

Lack of preparation is one of the most common reasons

You think I have contempt for you because you're a woman. You should wish that were the case. I have contempt for you because you're forty-something years old and have the reading comprehension ability of a child learning to draw circles and squares. You think "10 Most Common Reasons" means, "The number one reason for divorce, the number two reason for divorce, the number three reason for divorce," and so on. @Bossino mentioned having little patience for stupid people - I have none.

According to a recent survey of 191 CDFA professionals from across North America, the three leading causes of divorce are "basic incompatibility" (43%), "infidelity" (28%), and "money issues" (22%).

Now go fukk yourself, idiot.

 

[Wildhundreds]

I really agree with this but so many echo the opposite. I always thought marriage in. The mid to late 30s makes so much sense especially if you cab make it that far with baggage. It really filters out who’s who.

By the time you're in your 30s you've experienced a lot.. Hopefully.. And now more confident in who you've become as a person, and what you want out of life.. You've been through trials that shaped the person you've become..
So getting married early really stunts the individual growth of the people involved.. And if communication is none existent, you'll end up growing apart and become "boring"..

 

[Amare's Right Hook]

11. Lack of panooch

 

[Thanos]

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