You can get married and still end up here
So Yall Really not gon get Married?
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the bossman
Superstar
Find you a solid one, marry the broad, have a family and call it a day
Mastamimd
Ain't shyt
Shid there's a dude that said that someone's grandmother advised one of her grandkids to marry her first love for financial security and the next for love
found it: I'm not ruling out marriage but I doubt it'll happen. I'm already old as hell with a severe lack of patience so chances are I'm gonna die alone. Dah well.
I dont think I will. I want a family but at the same time, I don't want to be tied down to a single woman.
I'm about to graduate and should be heading to the best years of my life , so I'm trying to enjoy it the most I can.
I could have a kid outside marriage and be the best dad I can be .
I'm about to graduate and should be heading to the best years of my life , so I'm trying to enjoy it the most I can.
I could have a kid outside marriage and be the best dad I can be .
On this website I hear....
* Black people should be perpetuating the race into the future
* Black children need both parents heavy in their lives
* Don't get married brehs
I wonder how many of these #GMB posters are saying one of the first two things and don't see the contradiction? Or are all the #GMB brehs just on the "fukk dem kids" wave? Cause if you look at this world and claim that absentee fathers have a good shot at giving boys the kinda upbringing they need, you don't got a fukking clue. Whether you blame the man for not being there or the woman for keeping him away, you're not in reality if you that shyt just gonna work out well for those children for 18+ years.
* Black people should be perpetuating the race into the future
* Black children need both parents heavy in their lives
* Don't get married brehs
I wonder how many of these #GMB posters are saying one of the first two things and don't see the contradiction? Or are all the #GMB brehs just on the "fukk dem kids" wave? Cause if you look at this world and claim that absentee fathers have a good shot at giving boys the kinda upbringing they need, you don't got a fukking clue. Whether you blame the man for not being there or the woman for keeping him away, you're not in reality if you that shyt just gonna work out well for those children for 18+ years.
The BasedFather
Task Force
Ask a bunch of nikkas who can't even get pussay if they are going to get married brehs...
THIS!
How you gonna start off by criticizing gmb then go on to describe living the rest of your life being gmb 
Ya big goofy what do you think "married under god" means lol. It means youre not really trying to get married
Ya big goofy what do you think "married under god" means lol. It means youre not really trying to get married
Most of them will eventually. They need to stop pretending like rich men problems are their problems. I know plenty divorced couples and most men aren't getting taking to the cleaners. It's usually a pretty clean break.
Youhadasparkwhenustarted
Superstar
Do what makes you happy. Just keep in mind that the person you are now, won't be the person you are 10 years from now and the same goes for her, so if you're serious you need to be ready to put in work to mend any differences that pop up during the course of your marriage, because they will pop up and you might not even see them coming a lot of the time.
number21
Strive for rulership not equality, black man.
Women don't dictate marriage or even how serious a relationship can become breh. That's why they complain so much about dudes not committing.If you CAN'T even get the pussay, how are you going to be able to get a woman to marry you?
Yeah I think most people will. It’ll just happen at an older age.
I personally like the idea of marriage in theory. All the elders in my family are married 40+ year relationships. So I’m sure it can be a beautiful thing.
But if you poke some of those marriages, even the ones in my family....
Everytime I get close to going down the aisle, I see some shyt that makes me hit the
NOPE.I think having your own crib can sometimes be a deterrent to the desire for marriage. Also my mom never liked me having married friends. She said I watch their fukkery and get shook.
Or is #GMB just a Coli saying?
Personally I wanna get married. I want to have kids, I really enjoy my girl, and also think being old and alone just seems wack, whether you got $$ or not.
Told my girl me n her gon get married under God, not the government. It was funny after I said that because she started grasping for straws as to why legal marriage is a good idea. she started talking about tax breaks
I'll just be damned if I end up like that white man that got fiscally molested in his divorce (GMB infinity stones thread ). I really don't see what changes when people get married, its not like yall any closer together or anything. To me, it just seems stupid (getting married legally) to turn your relationship into a business / contractual agreement
What are the actual pros of legitimate, legal marriage? All I see right now are cons
What is the use of actual putting resources together if you aren’t going to get married?
Marriage is a legal contract that has legal ramifications if that contract is broken. Giving someone access to your resources without any binding contract to make them accountable is silly. Marriage is a thing for a reason. Building a family with someone who can literary walk out any moment is the reason we have the baby daddy/baby momma culture we have today and as you know, regardless if you are married or not you still have to pay child support.
Instead of treating marriage as the boogey man you should educate yourself on how to protect yourself legally, discover all the benefits and look at it as a serious deal instead of a "piece of paper."
You should also look into who is failing at marriage and who isn't. Generally broke uneducated people are the ones failing at marriage. Educate people are incredibly high levels of success in married.