So Yall Really not gon get Married?

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Honestly marriage ain't for most people and it certainly ain't for a man that doesn't know his ass from a hole in the ground.

Marriage isn't going to make sense to a man who can't lead. If you can't lead yourself you damn sure can't lead anyone else. Lemmie put it this way:

Do business partners make sense?

Guys marry the most stupid, lazy, weak, uninspired bird brained women on the planet then wonder why they are getting fuked in a divorce. Divorce can happen to anyone but getting fuked over in one means your probably not moving well in a bunch of facets of your life.

Marrying a good women helps increase your velocity toward generational wealth because her existence in your life means either (but preferably both)

1. Decrease financial costs (because she also making good money).
2. Someone to outsource some labor to for the cost of free.

Most good women aren't sitting around and being 20 year life partners with a guy with no marriage license, they'd rather buy that dog and die alone.

The reality is most people don't have the mindset and therefore will never have the assets for marriage or children to be something that makes sense outside of a byproduct of sex.

I’ve tried mentioning some of this but people are hard-headed so let them do what they want.

 

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Most good women aren't sitting around and being 20 year life partners with a guy with no marriage license, they'd rather buy that dog and die alone.

The reality is most people don't have the mindset and therefore will never have the assets for marriage or children to be something that makes sense outside of a byproduct of sex.

Most good women.....get wifed. Early. End of story.

We could talk all this and that, but at the end of the day, every man knows when he runs into a woman he wants to fukk like the rest, and then that one woman who is just different from the rest. Any issues you face in dating is a result of you not being this person to anyone you currently know. Thats it.

All that good woman, bad woman shyt is cap. Hoes get wifed all the time. But they get it right because they have the confidence to be them, whether that means fully submitting to that one man who was different from the rest or getting with a sucker and fukking around behind his back with who they really like. Either way honest hoes are honest. "Good women" come up with all kind of bullshyt except looking at themselves.

"Good woman" is the same as that "Nice guy" shyt but in reverse. nikkas know who the "good women" are even from when we are kids. May not commit to them, but we know.

 

[International Playa]

Marriage concept sounds good, but very few marriage material women out here

 

[the bossman]

You make it seem so simple

If you got your shyt together as a man and you have some experience with women to know how to separate the good ones from the trash you should be able to have a good number of options

 

[the bossman]

Don’t you think every dude that got married thought he found a solid one

No. Dudes did it for various reasons:
-she was a dime
-she got knocked up
-family/social pressure
-been together this long "might as well"

Even if you find a good one theres still no guarantee that it won't blow up but the more diligence you do the better your chances

And as someone who's 22 you shouldn't even be thinking about marriage. Go out and get some p*ssy and life experience

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

Yea I wanna get married. I said that. I DONT wanna get married how a lot of ppl doing it rn

Getting married “under god” means that we’re married, she just can’t take all my shyt. I’m giving myself some cushion/ security

“What do you think “married under god means lol” it means you’re not really trying to get married”

krazy how i got men against marriage tryna guilt trip me into getting married sound like something the hoes would say

Im not trying to trick someone into getting married im just saying, you ARE gmb. Whether u admit it or not.

I wouldn't recommend a 22 year old get married anyways.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Here are the options. No woman is perfect its just which one of these issues can you deal with for REST of your life not few months but for rest of your life.

Fat&Out of Shape (Women that say I dont workout but I should)
Single Mothers
Crazy/depressed aka always on medication type women
Daddy Issues
Lazy women who dont cook nor WANT to
Feminists
Young women who have no conversation outside of entertainment.
Anti social women
Thots that been ran thru more then the Holland Tunnel
Older women 30+ looking for you to be the nice guy they always wanted (These are types that also want to have a baby ASAP)
Women that are verbally/physcialy abusive. Listens to Cardi /Meg
Ones that have trust issues and are damaged from previous relationships
Church women who appear perfect on outside but arent living what they are preaching nor comprehend the Bible.
Career Women who want to compete with you (aka she wears the pants)
Women who will marry you but want still wants her maiden name. (for some thats a deal breaker)

 

[the bossman]

biggest load of shyt I’ve read on here today.

Nah she's actually right. Marriage rate is only plummeting amongst the lower and middle class, but it's steady and stable amongst the upper class.

The higher the education level and income the more likely the person is to be married

 

[TRUEST]

Most of them will eventually. They need to stop pretending like rich men problems are their problems. I know plenty divorced couples and most men aren't getting taking to the cleaners. It's usually a pretty clean break.

Very misleading post.

 

[5n0man]

biggest load of shyt I’ve read on here today.

She's right tho.

The divorce rate of people that got married after college is 30 percent. It's over half for people who didn't attend some sort of higher education.

Having children is a bigger commitment than marriage, if you arent willing to get married to someone then you shouldn't have kids with them. Kids do better with married parents.

 

[desjardins]

It’s a shame cause marriage along with home ownership is one of the bigger indicators for wealth building
And if you have kids it’s obviously better to do so in a family structure
It’s a lot of trash chicks out here though so I get it
If you can finesse life long partnership without getting legally married then try that
Otherwise try to marry someone with their own assets and comparable income
Being a bachelor who just cycles thru fukk buddies and girlfriends until you’re 80 sounds like fantasy scenario for the average person. Especially if you consider how the quality of available women nosedives over 40

 

[Swirv]

Legal marriage been good to me. Just have to be with the right person. I like having a solid woman in my life. I’m not returning to bachelor life willingly.

 

[Losttribe]

I'm married but I keep 2 women because , somehow it's easier to protect yourself not putting all your eggs in 1 basket

 

[Treblemaka]

Why tho? I don’t understand this

For the same reason most athletes don't like 1 year deals and apartments cost more when you do a month to month.

Women want security and stability, legal marriage is part of that.

 

[Bossyyyyy]

Marriage concept sounds good, but very few marriage material women out here

Even on the flip side, do you see yourself to be a marriage material man?