So Yall Really not gon get Married?

[Coli Bot]

Maybe... but just not actively chasing it.

More of a "if it happens it happens" type thing.

 

[Bossyyyyy]

How you gonna start off by criticizing gmb then go on to describe living the rest of your life being gmb

Ya big goofy what do you think "married under god" means lol. It means youre not really trying to get married

Yea I wanna get married. I said that. I DONT wanna get married how a lot of ppl doing it rn

Getting married “under god” means that we’re married, she just can’t take all my shyt. I’m giving myself some cushion/ security

“What do you think “married under god means lol” it means you’re not really trying to get married”

krazy how i got men against marriage tryna guilt trip me into getting married sound like something the hoes would say

 

[Bossyyyyy]

Find you a solid one, marry the broad, have a family and call it a day

Don’t you think every dude that got married thought he found a solid one

 

[Atlrocafella]

What is the use of actual putting resources together if you aren’t going to get married?

Marriage is a legal contract that has legal ramifications if that contract is broken. Giving someone access to your resources without any binding contract to make them accountable is silly. Marriage is a thing for a reason. Building a family with someone who can literary walk out any moment is the reason we have the baby daddy/baby momma culture we have today and as you know, regardless if you are married or not you still have to pay child support.

Instead of treating marriage as the boogey man you should educate yourself on how to protect yourself legally, discover all the benefits and look at it as a serious deal instead of a "piece of paper."

You should also look into who is failing at marriage and who isn't. Generally broke uneducated people are the ones failing at marriage. Educate people are incredibly high levels of success in married.

biggest load of shyt I’ve read on here today.

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

If you, as a man, get married in 2021 and beyond, then you are a got damned fool for the taking. This ain’t 1983 no more. And the women who were raised with those morals and values of yesteryear are LONG GONE. Relationships are transactional these days. All about what you can do for her. While she brings nothing to the table but recycled p*ssy, a bad attitude, entitlement, and another nikkas kids for you to play step daddy to. And she thinks you should be grateful for the opportunity to take all of this on And some of you game goofy nikkas will be While she'll jump at the first opportunity to upgrade, your feelings and emotional attachment to your "family" be damned. These women nowadays are scandalous and heartless. They ain't cut from your grandmother's cloth


Sure. There's some good women out here. You also have a chance at winning the lottery. Doesn't mean you're gonna spend every paycheck on lottery tickets. Most of the good women are wifed up. And the good single ones are so far and few in between, good luck meeting one....juice just ain't worth the squeeze anymore with that marriage bullshyt. Risk ain't worth the reward...

 

[AsTheWorldBurns]

Imagine a group of men finding it too hard to run a family, then scratching their heads on why black folks have a hard time running a business, let alone a nation.

Y’all nikkas tell on yourselves every time.

 

[InGodWeTrust]

im married wit a babymama and im still GMB...im GMB not because of what been done to me but what I done did to nikkas gf's and wives..i promise ima upload a clip of my wife putting nikkas on game about whats really going on out here behind these nikkas backs wit they women..i know for a FACT that 95% of nikkas in relationships are sharing and its not always fukking, it's just talking to nikkas behind ur back etc..don't believe me? ask your girl to swap phones for one day and see what she say..if i wasnt married i wouldnt get married, women are scandolous and most nikkas will never find out what they girl really has done behind their backs..coli full of too many simps so what i just spoke will go over mosts heads

Hell yes. A married woman invited me out for lunch. We had to cancel the first time because “he was still in town”.

 

[Treblemaka]

Honestly marriage ain't for most people and it certainly ain't for a man that doesn't know his ass from a hole in the ground.

Marriage isn't going to make sense to a man who can't lead. If you can't lead yourself you damn sure can't lead anyone else. Lemmie put it this way:

Do business partners make sense?

Guys marry the most stupid, lazy, weak, uninspired bird brained women on the planet then wonder why they are getting fuked in a divorce. Divorce can happen to anyone but getting fuked over in one means your probably not moving well in a bunch of facets of your life.

Marrying a good women helps increase your velocity toward generational wealth because her existence in your life means either (but preferably both)

1. Decrease financial costs (because she also making good money).
2. Someone to outsource some labor to for the cost of free.

Most good women aren't sitting around and being 20 year life partners with a guy with no marriage license, they'd rather buy that dog and die alone.

The reality is most people don't have the mindset and therefore will never have the assets for marriage or children to be something that makes sense outside of a byproduct of sex.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

I'm getting married, but only under religion with no government involved. If a chick chooses to not do better while she's with me and she get's dumped with nothing then

 

[Bossyyyyy]

What is the use of actual putting resources together if you aren’t going to get married?

Marriage is a legal contract that has legal ramifications if that contract is broken. Giving someone access to your resources without any binding contract to make them accountable is silly. Marriage is a thing for a reason. Building a family with someone who can literary walk out any moment is the reason we have the baby daddy/baby momma culture we have today and as you know, regardless if you are married or not you still have to pay child support.

Instead of treating marriage as the boogey man you should educate yourself on how to protect yourself legally, discover all the benefits and look at it as a serious deal instead of a "piece of paper."

You should also look into who is failing at marriage and who isn't. Generally broke uneducated people are the ones failing at marriage. Educate people are incredibly high levels of success in married.

I mean if someone wanna walk out they’re gonna do it regardless. I agree regarding learning more about marriage, what it is / entails also. What I do know is that the ramifications of a broken marital agreement is much more harsh on men than the other way around.

why do you want to marry personally? would you be upset if you were unofficially married (ex. under god/ taking the govt out of it)? would you look at your partner differently if you never got married?

also, for your last point do those educated people actually have good, successful marriages or is it more that they don’t wanna break up for monetary issues?

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

I tell brehs all the time that sure, after you have sex with a girl, you are gonna want her to get up and leave, but there is gonna eventually be that one woman that after you have sex, you aint gonna want her to leave because you connected with her not only physically, but spiritually, and mentally.


The LEGAL aspect of marriage sanctioned by the government has burned many men though

That's why I'm tryna leave government out the shyt.

 

[Bossyyyyy]

Most good women aren't sitting around and being 20 year life partners with a guy with no marriage license, they'd rather buy that dog and die alone.

Why tho? I don’t understand this

 

[Bossyyyyy]

I tell brehs all the time that sure, after you have sex with a girl, you are gonna want her to get up and leave, but there is gonna eventually be that one woman that after you have sex, you aint gonna want her to leave because you connected with her not only physically, but spiritually, and mentally.


The LEGAL aspect of marriage sanctioned by the government has burned many men though

avi

great post also

 

[buzzkill]

Sometimes I think to myself... who was the first dude to say "hey be like me and just get you one girl for life" and then all the dudes thought to themselves like ".....hey thats not such a bad idea" like that nikka fukked the game up for everyone

then regarding marriage, and all the extra contractual stuff that comes with it, where did it come from?

I seen a YouTube video that explained the history of marriage. It started as business not love lol. Let me try to find it.

Edit: I couldnt find the one i saw a few years back but heres a decent one:



nikkas were out here marrying dead people

 

[Ziggiy]

Sometimes I think to myself... who was the first dude to say "hey be like me and just get you one girl for life" and then all the dudes thought to themselves like ".....hey thats not such a bad idea" like that nikka fukked the game up for everyone

then regarding marriage, and all the extra contractual stuff that comes with it, where did it come from?

Lol it more than likely wasn’t one dude it was whatever the governmental hierarchy was in charge at the time. Mix that shyt in with the dominant religion and there ya go


Its a reason why its called the INSTITUTION of marriage.