the bossman
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Look at this homewreckin ass nikka hereBetter question is should you be GMB if you have already been divorced once...
So Yall Really not gon get Married?
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I agree with some sentiments I've seen in here. I like the idea and concept of marriage, but whenever I get my head out of the clouds and back into reality it just isn't the right choice for me. I've seen too much personally to ever understand why I would put myself into that position like I've seen family and friends. These men are going through it and are miserable.
The benefits, I understand, IF I wanted children and a family or to "build," but we all know finding women of that caliber ain't happening realistically. I also do not want children (spare me that "legacy" bullshyt talk. That's just pure ego), so I just don't see the need. I went to college and birds were there, birds are around post-college, so the "higher education" part means nothing to me. I personally knew an engineer who still went on dates after work just so men would feed her, and she wouldn't have to save money. Literally told me out of her mouth she leads men on just to buy her things, so she could save money for her own needs.
The whole "industry" part of marriage and divorce is self-explanatory.
I also am shameless and guiltless, which counters the only strategies I ever hear from other people when attempting to force a decision for you.
"You gonna end up old and lonely"
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Says who? Contrary to popular belief (particularly in our community) some people genuinely prefer to just be alone. I do not intend to be old and trying to chase p*ssy, as there are other merits to living beyond trying to hump everything in sight. Second, not everyone feels these harsh effects of "loneliness." I understand humans are social, and some people truly "need" compassion from others, even I to a degree but if you're going to sign up for that bad deal just to not sleep alone? Why would I take advice or suggestion from weak-minded individuals who seek commitment out of fear?
Lastly, most men and women out here are not really worth their weight in terms of even being "marriage material." Most parties in relationships lack any communication, self-control, or discipline but want to legally commit to a life together? Then try to shame other people into making the same poor decisions they did, just to have someone to complain to all day. "The wife, amIright?"
The benefits, I understand, IF I wanted children and a family or to "build," but we all know finding women of that caliber ain't happening realistically. I also do not want children (spare me that "legacy" bullshyt talk. That's just pure ego), so I just don't see the need. I went to college and birds were there, birds are around post-college, so the "higher education" part means nothing to me. I personally knew an engineer who still went on dates after work just so men would feed her, and she wouldn't have to save money. Literally told me out of her mouth she leads men on just to buy her things, so she could save money for her own needs.
The whole "industry" part of marriage and divorce is self-explanatory.
I also am shameless and guiltless, which counters the only strategies I ever hear from other people when attempting to force a decision for you.
"You gonna end up old and lonely"
!!!!Says who? Contrary to popular belief (particularly in our community) some people genuinely prefer to just be alone. I do not intend to be old and trying to chase p*ssy, as there are other merits to living beyond trying to hump everything in sight. Second, not everyone feels these harsh effects of "loneliness." I understand humans are social, and some people truly "need" compassion from others, even I to a degree but if you're going to sign up for that bad deal just to not sleep alone? Why would I take advice or suggestion from weak-minded individuals who seek commitment out of fear?
Lastly, most men and women out here are not really worth their weight in terms of even being "marriage material." Most parties in relationships lack any communication, self-control, or discipline but want to legally commit to a life together? Then try to shame other people into making the same poor decisions they did, just to have someone to complain to all day. "The wife, amIright?"
Elim Garak
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Marriage not for everyone I wish more people would be honest with themselves.
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Breh! Why are you bringing up old shyt?!Look at this homewreckin ass nikka here
if you want to get married, do so. just have a rock solid prenup beforehand. 
last chick i dated talked about marriage like 3 months in and i said yeah but i need a prenup. she got offended and kept bringing it up like i'd change my mind. i didnt and we're not together.
i'm not rich by any means. but i think getting married is a huge investment of time and resources that needs to have insurance on it just like anything else that requires both of those things. no one is saying dont get married. just be smart about it
last chick i dated talked about marriage like 3 months in and i said yeah but i need a prenup. she got offended and kept bringing it up like i'd change my mind. i didnt and we're not together.
i'm not rich by any means. but i think getting married is a huge investment of time and resources that needs to have insurance on it just like anything else that requires both of those things. no one is saying dont get married. just be smart about it
Doobie Doo
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/All this
DUdes make women financially dependent on them and then cry about getting fukked over when it goes to shyt. My girl currently works two teaching jobs. I re-did her resume and get her a few interviews with E-Learning companies. Much more money than a public school teacher plus she won't have to work multiple jobs and gets paid more money.
If you empower your woman while you are together and she has her own source of income, shyt will hit you up a little less in court. And if you help her start her own shyt and split up then you are entitled to half the company you helped build regardless of whose the bread winner.
SupaHotIce
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No. I think any man that gets married in this generation is a full blown retard. Doesn't matter if your girl is a fukking unicorn. Why would you willingly jump in a situation where the odds are completely stacked against you?
you’re an idiot. And I mean that as no disrespect. The women who wouldn’t sit around in a 20 year relationship without a marriage license get frustrated because in their minds, they’re not going to get anything material out of it. When U get down to the reason why they really want that piece of legal paper, it comes down to how much of the mans resources they want to be allowed to take. Don’t be an idiot. You’ve been warned.
Sad thing is, I know of 2 instances where a married woman was fooling around with a coworker.
Sad thing is, I know of 2 instances where a married woman was fooling around with a coworker.
My white neighbor who lives directly across from me is a truck driver and every 1st and last week of each month when he heads out on the road his wife hosts "stripper" parties, bytch sends out mass texts to the wives in the neighborhood to come over at midnight...bytch be having male strippers dancing in her basement..if her husband wasn't a racist I'd tell him about it..me and my wife mind our business, just waiting on the day he come home a day early and catch strippers in his crib..bytch says it's "all in good fun"
Treblemaka
President, BYNKRadio.com (Retired)
They wouldn't sit around for it because it's more likely that a man will leave them when they aren't married.
They wouldn't sit around for it because they don't want to end up a baby mama
The good girls I'm referring to (that I actually know), don't have a desire to take a man's stuff and actually have no problem signing a prenuptial.
Some of you guys don't have the life experience to know what youre talking about.
biggest load of shyt I’ve read on here today.
The stats are public record and common knowledge.
Correct. There are certain professions that that have divorce rates in the single digits. Broke people are the ones failing at marriage because people with education and money take the time to learn to benefits of marriage and us it to their advantage.
If a couple making 80k each lives off of 1 income and invests the rest think of the wealth they can aquire in 10 years. Versus a couple barely getting by and building no wealth. That first couple is more likely to stick it out for the huge financial benefits and it is reflected in the stats.
Rev Leon Lonnie Love
damned mine eyes, DAMNED mine eyes!!
Why do yall act like marriage is the only way to have children and a life partner?
There are plenty of people here who dont wanna be married and still manage to build a family and live happily.
There are lots of married couples too who cant even make it past 5 years of being together.
There are plenty of people here who dont wanna be married and still manage to build a family and live happily.
There are lots of married couples too who cant even make it past 5 years of being together.
Do you have any money, or are you just one of these weirdos who concerns themselves with being financially raped by a woman but in reality has no money to be taken anyway??Or is #GMB just a Coli saying?
Personally I wanna get married. I want to have kids, I really enjoy my girl, and also think being old and alone just seems wack, whether you got $$ or not.
Told my girl me n her gon get married under God, not the government. It was funny after I said that because she started grasping for straws as to why legal marriage is a good idea. she started talking about tax breaks
I'll just be damned if I end up like that white man that got fiscally molested in his divorce (GMB infinity stones thread ). I really don't see what changes when people get married, its not like yall any closer together or anything. To me, it just seems stupid (getting married legally) to turn your relationship into a business / contractual agreement
What are the actual pros of legitimate, legal marriage? All I see right now are cons
