Hold up wait a minute I'm above average looks wise I said a 6.5, I'd be higher if I was taller but I'm 5'8''. I don't need to live in SD and will go to school in OC in the fall. SoCal is a tough place to meet genuine women, as it's materialistic and aesthetic heavy. After graduation I just want a good job in a non desert portion of Cali.And i'll add life only gets faster. You'll be 28 before you know it and you won't consider yourself old. If you've lived right, you'll still be attractive to women who are 22 now. Not worn out, jaded, second choice any of that shyt.
I've said this before and I'll say it again. While it's preferable to build with a woman. And if you're on job and socialise enough.. women will see that and want to join you if you put yourself out there. There's nothing wrong with getting your shyt up and choosing from there. It's a market. You all have things to exchange. As a man - financial resources is one of the main things you can use to attract quality women. Then you have to ask "what do you bring to the table?" Smart women, who have their own will want you. Beautiful homemaker types will want you. I'm not talking 30, I'm talking 24/25.
I guess San Diego is a quality city (only been once) and expensive. When you're 28, 30, you're unlikely to have everything sorted out anyway. Property prices too expensive. So you're still building.
At the moment you have potential and ambition to offer women. Being introverted and a homebody is a detriment to you when it comes to women. I'm going to assume you near-broke too because you're young. You said you were below average looks-wise. That's not a fault of women.
But you have a lot going for you breh. Don't beat women as a whole up about it.
I have more money to spend than most brehs my age but I save and invest leaving minimal disposable income, moreover saying I have more money than the average breh 18-25 is a "in the land of the blind, being one eyed" type setup doesn't mean much.
I'm past the point of putting on an exciting persona, for women their largely nothing special, and I'm not here to entertain which is what a lot of these women clearly want. As previously stated the name of the game is self preservation. Outside of my family no one needs to no exactly what I'm up to where I'm at/how I'm moving. Moreover being lowkey makes it much easier to observe and evaluate the behavior of others, as you present yourself as a layman with nothing in particular to offer but your intellect/personality. When the life of the party, extroverted, sociable people gravitate. but they want a proverbial piece of your energy, they don't necessarily like you they just want to be near/like what you're showing them. Nothing better than women/people being rude to me when I rent hooptys to hustle, but when I pull up in my car (lower tier luxury) they want to clamor/be polite.
I don't beat women up as whole, I just see women, and most people for what they are, and that is opportunists. For this reason, most people bore/annoy me.