Solutions on dealing with heartbreak?

[murksiderock]

Bro I swear I am not saying this in a a$$hole way.. I’m typing it, so it’s gonna sound like it lol, but it seems like you are still not comfortable with the decision you made, because everybody is telling you the same thing at this point that we disagree with you, but you keep responding trying to rationalize it and explain how you feel. No we wouldn’t do it. But if that’s cool with you. Hey fukk it. Just go live your life bro. Don’t worry about our opinions if you not adhere to them. We not changing our minds and you not changing yours. Best of luck tho. I really really hope it works out for you. Most of the time it does not. But there are some exceptions. Maybe it can be y’all. But everybody here who has given you advice has been sincere. Nobody been a hater. Everybody just speaking they mind off experience. Best of luck my dog. See you in another thread lol

Nah I don't see it as an a$$hole comment, g! I just think some dudes are married to their own ideas and can't separate that beliefs are based on reality but aren't applicable to each and every situation...

I've listened to a number of things in here. Where I was two months ago, was trying to rationalize. I'm not rationalizing anymore, you reading that wrong. Where I am now, there's a reality of us opening conversation with each other and showing some positive growth...

I'll be sure to spam this thread when her and I get married

 

[Jazzy B.]

Weak ass nikka cut that bytch off and keep it moving nikka

He’ll learn the HARD WAY.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

I just think some dudes are married to their own ideas and can't separate that beliefs are based on reality but aren't applicable to each and every situation...

That’s not a fair assessment to make as brehs have gone through either a watered down, similar, or even worse situation than you have

 

[Sauce and Footwork]

Nah I don't see it as an a$$hole comment, g! I just think some dudes are married to their own ideas and can't separate that beliefs are based on reality but aren't applicable to each and every situation...

I've listened to a number of things in here. Where I was two months ago, was trying to rationalize. I'm not rationalizing anymore, you reading that wrong. Where I am now, there's a reality of us opening conversation with each other and showing some positive growth...

I'll be sure to spam this thread when her and I get married

Lol you just marrying her don’t mean nothing. All women wanna get married… it’s being happily married . If y’all ain’t happy you in an even worse place. But I feel you. Like I said Good luck bro

 

[murksiderock]

Lol you just marrying her don’t mean nothing. All women wanna get married… it’s being happily married . If y’all ain’t happy you in an even worse place. But I feel you. Like I said Good luck bro

Bruh I'm not even popping the question and we not happy, trust!

 

[Dipsey Doo]

@murksiderock If you feel that this relationship can be salvaged, then by all means go for it. Ultimately, you know your situation better than anyone that's commented so far. It sounds like to me that you and yourgirls problem before were communication and expectations.

 

[OSUBaneBrowns]

Le sigh

 

[OSUBaneBrowns]

Live your life man but don’t be surprised if this story ends badly like it did in the past. Some people just like living a dream instead of accepting reality.

 

[Iceson Beckford]

Yep. Learned that the hard way with my most recent breakup.

The more you “beg, plead, try and work it out, etc.,” the harder she runs in the opposite direction. Gotta chunk that shyt up and go radio silent soon as she say she done. That’s the ONLY move left on the chess board at that point.

And remember, if you ghost after she leaves you and she doesn’t try and comeback within…let’s say 1, maybe 2 months AT MAX it’s a wrap. After that time period if she’s coming back it’s because her primary option she thought was an upgrade failed.

Sage advice

 

[1thouwow]

Wait so @murksiderock is a simp?

 

[OSUBaneBrowns]

Wait so @murksiderock is a simp?

Homeboy doesn't believe that he can do better so he keep making excuses for her behavior so that he can justify taking her back .

 

[murksiderock]

Wait so @murksiderock is a simp?

Homeboy doesn't believe that he can do better so he keep making excuses for her behavior so that he can justify taking her back .

Bruh simping is running behind women that don't want you. That's not the case here...

I'm not justifying anything, either. We've reached a period where we can be conversational and potentially move forward past the last 4 months. I'm choosing not to dwell on it and work on trusting her again, showing her she can trust me again, and rebuild our relationship...

 

[1thouwow]

Bruh simping is running behind women that don't want you. That's not the case here...

I'm not justifying anything, either. We've reached a period where we can be conversational and potentially move forward past the last 4 months. I'm choosing not to dwell on it and work on trusting her again, showing her she can trust me again, and rebuild our relationship...

My opinion. When the woman gives you an out, take it

 

[OSUBaneBrowns]

Bruh simping is running behind women that don't want you. That's not the case here...

I'm not justifying anything, either. We've reached a period where we can be conversational and potentially move forward past the last 4 months. I'm choosing not to dwell on it and work on trusting her again, showing her she can trust me again, and rebuild our relationship...

You know her better than anyone on here. But from reading this thread and your responses, this is a clear sign of a toxic relationship. Some people are toxic with certain others and act better when they are with someone else. Why you keep trying to work out something where the area is toxic? If you had a toxic job that gave you a out, would you take it and move on unless you felt that you couldn't get another job? You both stay connected because both of you feel that no one else will want you in my opinion. Start believing that there is something better for you and just be a great co-parent with her. Nothing else .

 

[Geode]

Welp, I hope it works out for y'all.

You two are either going to be in a blissful relationship or keep hurting each other. Hopefully it's the former and not the latter.