SPIN: How many sexless dates before you move on

[JQ Legend]

It's really alarming how some of you think a date = sex


But in the next breath claim you don't know if you like a woman or want her for a relationship and need more time to figure it out. So let me get this straight. You expect a woman to have sex with you---when she doesn't know if she likes you or not and needs more time to figure that out---but you get all the time you need to decide if you want an exclusive relationship. That's very convenient for men, isn't it?


Lol. How do more women not see the con being pulled?


Also, it's scary how so many men act like women are basically escorts and should have sex on demand because he paid for XYZ. It really shows you how the line has been blurred thanks to normalizing certain behaviors.

You say this while also saying u wouldn’t even let a guy get close enough to u to get some unless he spends money. You literally said that in this thread.

Men being expected to wine and dine women who ain’t even his woman is some relatively new shyt promoted by feminists to shame men into being cool with being taken advantage of.

It was not uncommon at all for a man and woman to chill at each other’s crib/car/neighborhood in the early stages of feeling each other out. This new requirement that a man has to treat a woman to a meal and/or drinks before they even know if they like each other is some recent shyt.

 

[Commish]

What if the man decides when he will have sex with a woman?

What if he makes the woman wait??

Point is..

It isn't always one way...

The script does get flipped from time to time...

 

[Koli_Kat]

grand opening grand closing

No not grand opening grand closing. Men go on dates because some women require it before having sex with you

 

[semicko82]

No not grand opening grand closing. Men go on dates because some women require it before having sex with you

Most these dudes waste their time going on "dates" with these women knowing damn well all you want is to smash.

Instead of being upfront about it most these dudes go along and play the game because they're afraid of their ego getting crushed because a woman rejected them because they wanted to smash

 

[BaggerofTea]

Case by case basis.

If she moves like a hoe, 1-2

 

[BaggerofTea]

It's really alarming how some of you think a date = sex


But in the next breath claim you don't know if you like a woman or want her for a relationship and need more time to figure it out. So let me get this straight. You expect a woman to have sex with you---when she doesn't know if she likes you or not and needs more time to figure that out---but you get all the time you need to decide if you want an exclusive relationship. That's very convenient for men, isn't it?


Lol. How do more women not see the con being pulled?


Also, it's scary how so many men act like women are basically escorts and should have sex on demand because he paid for XYZ. It really shows you how the line has been blurred thanks to normalizing certain behaviors.

Apparently women are just mindless robots with no proper decision making skills.

Thats what you are saying

 

[murksiderock]

It's really alarming how some of you think a date = sex


But in the next breath claim you don't know if you like a woman or want her for a relationship and need more time to figure it out. So let me get this straight. You expect a woman to have sex with you---when she doesn't know if she likes you or not and needs more time to figure that out---but you get all the time you need to decide if you want an exclusive relationship. That's very convenient for men, isn't it?


Lol. How do more women not see the con being pulled?


Also, it's scary how so many men act like women are basically escorts and should have sex on demand because he paid for XYZ. It really shows you how the line has been blurred thanks to normalizing certain behaviors.

Alot of men aren't used to getting sex regularly, aren't used to women being attracted to them, aren't used to getting the kind of woman they want, or a combination of these things. This is what you're really getting in mist of these comments...

I'm only 32, I've been reading this thread trying to remember if I ever had a sex requirement and I'm coming up empty. I've been with more women than the average guy, there are plenty of women busting it down for you if that's your motive and you don't really need to hunt it out----->but this also depends on other variables on the board...

I never took a woman out with the express mindset of smashing, and never looked at those I took out as a waste of my time if I didn't hit...

If it's a woman you only want to have sex with, just invite her over. Her response will tell guys if she's open to having sex with you, grown women aren't agreeing to come to your home thinking sex isn't a possibility...

But this thread is all kinds of hilarious, guys don't know how to court women they actually like and they don't get consistent skins so they hunting for it with date requirements...

Fellas, skip the BS and only court those who you're really into...

 

[Ineedmoney504]

If she good enough to take on a date I would say 1. After that I’m thinking you ain’t really feeling me and my effort going down

 

[Ineedmoney504]

It's really alarming how some of you think a date = sex


But in the next breath claim you don't know if you like a woman or want her for a relationship and need more time to figure it out. So let me get this straight. You expect a woman to have sex with you---when she doesn't know if she likes you or not and needs more time to figure that out---but you get all the time you need to decide if you want an exclusive relationship. That's very convenient for men, isn't it?


Lol. How do more women not see the con being pulled?


Also, it's scary how so many men act like women are basically escorts and should have sex on demand because he paid for XYZ. It really shows you how the line has been blurred thanks to normalizing certain behaviors.

cause y’all wanna live like it’s 1942 with 2021 freedoms. Y’all think y’all need to be spoiled like the times women couldn’t work or do anything and a man had to pay for everything but at the same time be independent and have every demand in the world.

like your child demanding you do something for them to like you


We on equal ground, if it’s taking to long to fukk and you think I’m paying for bullshyt you got me fukked all the way up.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

It's really alarming how some of you think a date = sex


But in the next breath claim you don't know if you like a woman or want her for a relationship and need more time to figure it out. So let me get this straight. You expect a woman to have sex with you---when she doesn't know if she likes you or not and needs more time to figure that out---but you get all the time you need to decide if you want an exclusive relationship. That's very convenient for men, isn't it?


Lol. How do more women not see the con being pulled?


Also, it's scary how so many men act like women are basically escorts and should have sex on demand because he paid for XYZ. It really shows you how the line has been blurred thanks to normalizing certain behaviors.

It was determined long ago that the majority of men on this site aren't having sex. They're just talking.

 

[Bumblebreh]

SEVEN?

Brehs are capping itt

You say this while also saying u wouldn’t even let a guy get close enough to u to get some unless he spends money. You literally said that in this thread.

Men being expected to wine and dine women who ain’t even his woman is some relatively new shyt promoted by feminists to shame men into being cool with being taken advantage of.

It was not uncommon at all for a man and woman to chill at each other’s crib/car/neighborhood in the early stages of feeling each other out. This new requirement that a man has to treat a woman to a meal and/or drinks before they even know if they like each other is some recent shyt.

Men have been courting women for generations, breh





Taking a woman out to a nice establishment is not a new phenomenon.

 

[JQ Legend]

Brehs are capping itt



Men have been courting women for generations, breh





Taking a woman out to a nice establishment is not a new phenomenon.

Yea but how long has it been a thing that men are expected to spend money on a woman the very first time he meets her?

 

[Ain't That Something]

No lie I had a homework all she did was scam nikkas out of free meals from those dating sites. She would go on dates with nikkas she knew she had absolutely no interest in just for the free meal.

She made sure to drive her own car so a.d meet them at the restaurant so they could not know where she lived

 

[The ADD]

if all you want is sex, why not be upfront and skip the dates to begin with

^^^

 

[NatiboyB]

3 and I’m out