SPIN: WHEN THE DNA test RESULTS COME IN (6 years later)....

[Ashley Banks]

Translation: me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me


So what happens after you leave? You raising that child on your own dime or you going to have the state help you out by collecting child support?

Obviously we’d both support it just like if we were together.

 

[Rockstar Mom]

Thoughts @Rockstar Mom ????

If he ever paid child support, she should be required to pay it all back.

And he should be off the hook from legally taking are of the child from here on out. If he still wants to be around he can. But not by force

I’m curious as to what lead him to test the child? Why wait 6 years?

 

[Ashley Banks]

man, stfu. I just don't like bytches like you. It's simple really. That mindgame and manipulative shyt might work on soft simp nikkas but I see right through you. I feel bad for the lame ass nikka that will wife your wack ass. End of convo

Dude, what the fukk is your problem? I said I wouldn’t stop him from getting it. Why are you so angry? I said I wouldn’t stop him, what don’t you understand. Jesus. Are you the type of person that thinks women aren’t allowed to leave men or something?

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

I'd kill the woman and possibly some of her family. Maybe her mother. I'm not built to handle that sort of loss gracefully. The woman and her family would pay in blood.

 

[Henri Christophe]

I'd kill the woman and possibly some of her family. Maybe her mother. I'm not built to handle that sort of loss gracefully. The woman and her family would pay in blood.

I understand breh

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

View media item 15499both her and that lil mofo

 

[ThisWorldAintRight]

The brehettes of the coli said they would leave their husband because he asked for a DNA test.

Doing the Lord's work.

 

[Lord Bison]

Obviously we’d both support it just like if we were together.

Yeah but by you leaving over a man needing reassurance before going all in on an lifetime commitment of parenting and fatherhood, you're making it 10X more difficult just because you chose to leave over your selfish emotions. If I was the man dating you, I'd honestly feel compelled to go to the state and see if I can collect child support on you FIRST because of your instability over your own selfishness.

You being so trigger happy to destroy the nuclear family would make you an "unfit and unsuitable mother" and therefore I would need to "take responsibility" to ensure that the child lives in a "stable environment"

man, stfu. I just don't like bytches like you. It's simple really. That mindgame and manipulative shyt might work on soft simp nikkas but I see right through you. I feel bad for the lame ass nikka that will wife your wack ass. End of convo

I agree with him 100%. Any dude who decides to put a ring on your finger will have to spend the whole time walking on eggshells because you're looking for any and every reason to bail when the time is convenient for you.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Yeah but by you leaving over a man needing reassurance before going all in on an lifetime commitment of parenting and fatherhood, you're making it 10X more difficult just because you chose to leave over your selfish emotions. If I were a man, I'd honestly feel compelled to go to the state and see if I can collect child support on you FIRST because of your instability over your own selfishnes
.

So you think if someone wants to leave a relationship, they’re selfish?

And you were just shytting on me because you THOUGHT I wanted to leave solely for child support yet the first thing you would do is try to get child support. lol

 

[Lord Bison]

So you think if someone wants to leave a relationship, they’re selfish?

I'm just going to leave you my previous post, re-read the bolded again until you can comprehend what I'm saying. If you can't take into consideration the type of commitment to fatherhood the man is trying to make, then there is nothing I can tell you. If(and I stress the term IF) someone decides to put a ring on your finger, I feel sorry for that guy.


Yeah but by you leaving over a man needing reassurance before going all in on an lifetime commitment of parenting and fatherhood, you're making it 10X more difficult just because you chose to leave over your selfish emotions. If I were a man, I'd honestly feel compelled to go to the state and see if I can collect child support on you FIRST because of your instability over your own selfishness.

You being so trigger happy to destroy the nuclear family would make you an "unfit and unsuitable mother" and therefore I would need to "take responsibility" to ensure that the child lives in a "stable environment"

 

[Neuromancer]

Yeah but by you leaving over a man needing reassurance before going all in on an lifetime commitment of parenting and fatherhood, you're making it 10X more difficult just because you chose to leave over your selfish emotions. If I were a man, I'd honestly feel compelled to go to the state and see if I can collect child support on you FIRST because of your instability over your own selfishness.

You being so trigger happy to destroy the nuclear family would make you an "unfit and unsuitable mother" and therefore I would need to "take responsibility" to ensure that the child lives in a "stable environment"





I agree with him 100%. Any dude who decides to put a ring on your finger will have to spend the whole time walking on eggshells because you're looking for any and every reason to bail when the time is convenient for you.

Eish I knew who you were talking to.

 

[Ashley Banks]

I'm just going to leave you with the bolded, re-read it again until you can comprehend what I'm saying. If you can't take into consideration the type of commitment to fatherhood the man is trying to make, then there is nothing I can tell you. If(and I stress the term IF) someone decides to put a ring on your finger, I feel sorry for that guy.


Yeah but by you leaving over a man needing reassurance before going all in on an lifetime commitment of parenting and fatherhood, you're making it 10X more difficult just because you chose to leave over your selfish emotions. If I were a man, I'd honestly feel compelled to go to the state and see if I can collect child support on you FIRST because of your instability over your own selfishness.

You being so trigger happy to destroy the nuclear family would make you an "unfit and unsuitable mother" and therefore I would need to "take responsibility" to ensure that the child lives in a "stable environment"

I'm already married, there's no need to feel sorry for my husband he knows I would never even dream of doing him wrong. I live to make him happy. Luckily he sees me as a person and would understand why I would be hurt if he did something like that and doesn't think me having feelings is "selfish".

Also, you can't call someone an unsuitable and unfit mother because they don't want to be with you, breh. You can be a perfectly good mother and not want to be with the child's father.

In the end, what's important is he'll get the confirmation from the dna test that he's the father, I don't matter.

 

[Lord Bison]

So you think if someone wants to leave a relationship, they’re selfish?

And you were just shytting on me because you THOUGHT I wanted to leave solely for child support yet the first thing you would do is try to get child support. lol

Eye for an eye. If she's going to look out for herself first. Imma do the same.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Eye for an eye. If she's going to look out for herself first. Imma do the same.

I'm looking out for him too, I would never have sex with him again and I'm not cooking for him either. So might as well end it before it gets too bad.

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

After 6 years, any good father would still have an emotional attachment to the child

I'd fight for full custody.
Anything less than that, the kid is going in to the bushes