SPIN: WHEN THE DNA test RESULTS COME IN (6 years later)....

MaxPain

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What manipulation? Where am I trying to manipulate him?

And for the bold what is that even supposed to mean?? If I stay would that magically make me something more? If I’m worthless why do you have such a problem with me leaving?
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Have a nice evening Ashley.:mjpls:
 

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What manipulation? Where am I trying to manipulate him?

And for the bold what is that even supposed to mean?? If I stay would that magically make me something more? If I’m worthless why do you have such a problem with me leaving?


Because if the child was actually his and he had no problem staying around, you're basically admitting that you would self sabotage the relationship because of your own feelings without no concern or regards on how the man would feel and how he can provide for the child. As I said in the other post, it won't bother you either way because you'll just go file for child support and get yours anyway.
 

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I dont know why you guys on here always do these threads where you "call out" the "brehettes" lol..... every woman thinks she's perfect and "would never" do a breh wrong in a million years..... I dont know why yall think y'all gonna get actual logical conversations from these broads.... y'all just be wasting your time..... they never show up :russ:

and if they do, they juelz some bullshyt :russ:

get the test done on the low and keep it moving.
 

Ashley Banks

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No the reason why you would bail on him is because regardless if you leave the relationship or not you're good. You can easily collect child support checks for 18 years+ so in terms of financial help you're 100% covered if he stays or not. Your excuse of "trust" is just a way for you to exercise your plan B and dip out because you know you have that option and aren't afraid to use it.

Those thoughts never crossed my mind. I’m not a manipulative person and I don’t use people. The only way I’d put him on child support is if he was refusing to take care of the child and the child absolutely needed his support financially.

The reason I would leave is because I don’t want to cook, clean, fukk, and have children for someone that thinks that I would do something so horrible. Is it sooooo wrong that I want someone that has a positive opinion of me and trusts me? Again, I never said I would stop him from getting the test, I’m not going to tell him that I’m going to leave him if he gets it, I’m going to let him get it, see the results, THEN I’ll leave.
 

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I think I’m allowed to leave a relationship if my partner doesn’t trust me and thinks I’m a shytty person that will cheat, get pregnant, and make him raise a kid that isn’t his. :dead:

and if he thinks I’m capable of doing something like that, why is it a problem if I leave?

any bytch that thinks like this isn't worth shyt anyway. So if a nikka asks for STD results you gonna bytch too?
 

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any bytch that thinks like this isn't worth shyt anyway. So if a nikka asks for STD results you gonna bytch too?

You guys keep saying I’m worthless because I don’t want to stay in the relationship yet you’re still mad, If im so worthless, what’s the problem with me leaving? I think I have the right to want to be trusted in a relationship. I don’t want to deal with someone that has trust issues that badly.
 

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this is exactly the type of reply that made me say TLR aint the place for this conversation. i don't care how you feel about the woman, 95% of people aint walking away cold turkey from a child they've spent 6 years raising.

I would as well. I'm not gonna stick around when the kid is the literal embodiment of the worst moment in my life. Wouldn't be able to be around the kid without feeling some type of anger or resentment
 

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I'd bounce. Kid is not mine nor is it my responsibility. No amount of blaming, shaming or deflecting can change my mind. If the woman has a problems with her kid, then she needs to reach out to the real father for help. That's like playing another man's saved game on GTA. Not my problem. I'm out.


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It's easy to say that until it's actually a kid you've raised as your own for 6 years
 

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Those thoughts never crossed my mind. I’m not a manipulative person and I don’t use people. The only way I’d put him on child support is if he was refusing to take care of the child and the child absolutely needed his support financially.

The reason I would leave is because I don’t want to cook, clean, fukk, and have children for someone that thinks that I would do something so horrible. Is it sooooo wrong that I want someone that has a positive opinion of me and trusts me? Again, I never said I would stop him from getting the test, I’m not going to tell him that I’m going to leave him if he gets it, I’m going to let him get it, see the results, THEN I’ll leave.

Translation: me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me


So what happens after you leave? You raising that child on your own dime or you going to have the state help you out by collecting child support? :sas2:


Collecting child support from a man who just wanted to know that the kid is his before he made a lifetime commitment to you and his family? :sas2:
 

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You guys keep saying I’m worthless because I don’t want to stay in the relationship yet you’re still mad, If im so worthless, what’s the problem with me leaving? I think I have the right to want to be trusted in a relationship. I don’t want to deal with someone that has trust issues that badly.

man, stfu. I just don't like bytches like you. It's simple really. That mindgame and manipulative shyt might work on soft simp nikkas but I see right through you. I feel bad for the lame ass nikka that will wife your wack ass. End of convo
 

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Translation: me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me


So what happens after you leave? You raising that child on your own dime or you going to have the state help you out by collecting child support? :sas1:

breh.... you're gonna give yourself a stroke if youre tryna make sense of the female psyche


I'm sure you understand why a woman would FEEL that way..... women are controlled by "feelings" and "emotions" and "intuition" and all types of other shyt..... we'll never understand the bullshyt.... so dont even try lol
 
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