SPIN: WHEN THE DNA test RESULTS COME IN (6 years later)....

[BaileyPark31]

As expected, another Coli thread where women are being called out on their BS and the brehettes are avoiding it like.

I think every man should get a paternity test. Right away. Even if married.

My obgyn office slips the testing request pamphlet right in with the other flyers they hand out (for a 3rd party lab)

Bae #1 and I had an oops moment about a year ago. I told him right away I wouldn't be offended if he got one. If I was a man, I would.







And yeah, the BM is

 

[Ashley Banks]

Another half truth statement. You said he's free to get one but you would leave him regardless. Yet conveniently ignore the fact that there is a good reason why we as men need these kinds of tests. "Trust" and "Love" is just another emotional manipulation tactic women use to keep men blind to women's dishonesty.

Are you just looking for a reason to argue? I said he could get the dna test and I wouldn’t try to stop him, so what’s the problem?

 

[NotAnFBIagent]

What

Oh u know

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Plenty of people getting cheating on by "good" partners they would never expect it from
Keep perpetuating delusions

 

[MaxPain]

Are you just looking for a reason to argue? I said he could get the dna test and I wouldn’t try to stop him, so what’s the problem?

The problem is u leaving just bc he asked for the test. Its all about me me me and my feelings, selfish. If its not an issue take it. Then again if u left bc of that he wasnt missing out on much, anyway.

 

[Lord Bison]

Are you just looking for a reason to argue? I said he could get the dna test and I wouldn’t try to stop him, so what’s the problem?

That you would leave him regardless of the outcome. Ignoring the fact that women actually do pull these types of tricks on men to get them to commit. A man should be well within his rights to know if the child is his or not without being put in a catch 22 situation on if the woman is going to bail or not. In 2017-18 "love and trust" are not reason enough to forego a man knowing the truth about a woman and his kid.

 

[Ashley Banks]

The problem is u leaving just bc he asked for the test. If its not an issue take it. Then again if u left bc of that he wasnt missing out on much, anyway.

I think I’m allowed to leave a relationship if my partner doesn’t trust me and thinks I’m a shytty person that will cheat, get pregnant, and make him raise a kid that isn’t his.

and if he thinks I’m capable of doing something like that, why is it a problem if I leave?

 

[MaxPain]

I think I’m allowed to leave a relationship if my partner doesn’t trust me and thinks I’m a shytty person that will cheat, get pregnant, and make him raise a kid that isn’t his.

and if he thinks I’m capable of doing something like that, why is it a problem if I leave?

No , ur allowed to leave. Im just saying it shows ur true colors, ur selfish. The manipulation doesnt phase me. But if u leave u wasnt much to lose anyway thats all.

 

[Ashley Banks]

That you would leave him regardless of the outcome. Ignoring the fact that women actually do pull these types of tricks on men to get them to commit. A man should be well within his rights to know if the child is his or not without being put in a catch 22 situation on if the woman is going to bail or not. In 2017-18 "love and trust" are not reason enough to forego a man knowing the truth about a woman and his kid.

I think you’re skipping over the part where I said he could get the test and I wouldn’t stop him.

I think I have the right to leave a relationship where there is no trust. Maybe you would stay in a relationship where you’re being accused of cheating and other things but I wouldn’t want that.

 

[Neuromancer]

@Rasputia Latimore

 

[Doobie Doo]

I'd bounce. Kid is not mine nor is it my responsibility. No amount of blaming, shaming or deflecting can change my mind. If the woman has a problems with her kid, then she needs to reach out to the real father for help. That's like playing another man's saved game on GTA. Not my problem. I'm out.

Spoiler

this is exactly the type of reply that made me say TLR aint the place for this conversation. i don't care how you feel about the woman, 95% of people aint walking away cold turkey from a child they've spent 6 years raising.

Unfortunately he can't walk away form the kids regardless of whether he wants to or not for the simple fact she can still file child support. Legally he's the kid's father and if she files child support it will be honored after 6 years due to "Best interest of the Child"

 

[Pit Bull]

I know a cat that thought he was daddy for a couple years till the bytch popped up on him one day talkin bout it ain't his and on top of it refused to get the test.

His mama and sister was taking that babygirl to church every weekend and some mo shyt. And the broad ain't even come from no fukked up home, had both parents in the house and they had nice jobs. These hoes just skanless. Hoes'll never get me I Don seen too much foul shyt.

 

[Neuromancer]

Why are the women against this?

 

[Lord Bison]

I think I’m allowed to leave a relationship if my partner doesn’t trust me and thinks I’m a shytty person that will cheat, get pregnant, and make him raise a kid that isn’t his.

and if he thinks I’m capable of doing something like that, why is it a problem if I leave?

In 2017-18 "love and trust" are not reason enough to forego a man knowing the truth about a woman and his kid.

No the reason why you would bail on him is because regardless if you leave the relationship or not you're good. You can easily collect child support checks for 18 years+ so in terms of financial help you're 100% covered if he stays or not. Your excuse of "trust" is just a way for you to exercise your plan B and dip out because you know you have that option and aren't afraid to use it.

 

[Ashley Banks]

No , ur allowed to leave. Im just saying it shows ur true colors, ur selfish. The manipulation doesnt phase me. But if u leave u wasnt much to lose anyway thats all.

What manipulation? Where am I trying to manipulate him?

And for the bold what is that even supposed to mean?? If I stay would that magically make me something more? If I’m worthless why do you have such a problem with me leaving?

 

[acbjr22]

OP,

You might want to advise him to remove the document from the net or to redact HER name.

There's an old line about hell hath no fury like a woman scorned......a woman humiliated is just as bad.

Don't let her find the phone number to an ambulance chaser lawyer and sue him for public slander.

not slander, libel, or defamation if it's true

Now maybe she has an action for invasion of privacy which involves claims like intrusion upon seclusion or public disclosure of private facts