Texting Games And People Trying To Appear Busy In 2016

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I feel like the best way to rule out girls that aren't down is to come off strong. If you're like, :manny: then it's easier for me to delete your number or file you away somewhere.

In your case, if he was just asking you to hang out then I don't see the problem. Anyway.
a woman can still like you and not be comfortable with you coming over to her house when youve just first met. Coming on super strong can be scary and a turn off.



I dont really play texting games, im either returning instantly or I just let it fade out with no response, there's no inbetween text buddy situation . I do send 'K' as a joke tho, because i know it's annoying


also it feels kind of stalkerish if i know you saw me login somewhere else and then i know that's why you text me
 

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Not really. The thread was about people that purposely ignore text and then respond hours later claiming to be busy.

I wasn't attacking you, your perspective is just as valid as mine.

This is a nice POV:

But more than that is occurring in here - You (general) state your personal opinion in relation to the OP then like clock work someone flies in to 'confront/question/dap fish/feign curiosity/ parched to feel emasculated/attempt to 'shine on you'...but you (general), against your better judgement, give the member the benefit of the doubt and engage in a (slippery sloped from rip) dialog. It's apparent that some of these men are shadow boxing. Flying off the handle (making up whole scenarios, projecting and assuming) over a blip you shared about one aspect of your whole life then acting like people have no right to define boundaries, likes/dislikes accordingly... just like the next person (Gasp). Who would have thought that it was possible? Where they do that at?

(Instead it's this mentality):
'How dare her! What nerves she has! What she (& chics like her) prefers in her dating life is affecting my dating life. There are no other women, on the entire planet available with similar POV's to mine regarding texting, available for me! FML. :stopitslime:'

It's almost as if they think they have no choices, on how to get MUTUAL SATISFACTION, when it comes to women, only to manage down what she requires. Like it makes him less of a man/person if he complies with her within reason. It gives me the impression that their manhood is so very fragile...not strong & assured. And I want no part of a man like this...just like he wants no part me. And guess what? I truly thank G-d. :smile:
 
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This is a nice POV:

But more than that is occurring in here - You (general) state your personal opinion in relation to the OP then like clock work someone flies in to 'confront/question/dap fish/feign curiosity/ parched to feel emasculated/attempt to 'shine on you'...but you (general), against your better judgement, give the member the benefit of the doubt and engage in a (slippery sloped from rip) dialog. It's apparent that some of these men are shadow boxing. Flying off the handle (making up whole scenarios, projecting and assuming) over a blip you shared about one aspect of your whole life then acting like people have no right to define boundaries, likes/dislikes accordingly... like the next person (Gasp). Who would have thought that was possible? Where they do that at?

(Instead it's this mentality):
'How dare her! What nerves she has! What she (& chics like her) prefers in her dating is affecting my dating life. There are no other women, on the entire planet available with similar POV's to mine regarding texting, available for me! FML. :stopitslime:'

It's almost as if they think they have no choices, on how to get MUTUAL SATISFACTION, when it comes to women, only to manage down what she requires. Like it makes him less of a man/person if he complies with her within reason. It gives me impression that their manhood is so very fragile...not strong & assured. And I want no part of a man like this...just like he wants no part me. And guess what? I truly thank G-d. :smile:

I understand what you're saying. I honestly wasn't trying to attack or belittle her post, just stating what I saw in her and a few others posts.
 

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I understand what you're saying. I honestly wasn't trying to attack or belittle her post, just stating what I saw in her and a few others posts.

I know and I apologize to you if I implied that or came off attitudinal (I'm not that articulate). No, I sincerely meant that your POV was in deed nice. You seem to be able to see all sides...and state your POV without trying to belittle the next person for his/hers.

'Appreicate it.
 

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Him: *talking about some rapper's album I don't give a flying fukk about*
Me: So what was your ex like? What attracted to you to her? Do you have any preferences?
Me: :wavylol: :childplease:

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Philly. Fucc a Eagle. I mean dat.
If you just met someone, texting should not be used as the primary means of communication. She's probably losing interest and not taking you seriously. Who wants to type whole conversations where context and tone could be lost...and waiting on a dang reply? People are losing the art of communication these days. Too lazy to put in a little effort...even had this dude, who came to pick me up for dinner, text me that he was outside. I just let him sit his butt out the door until he called to tell me he's outside. WTH.

#Delete&Block

And I swear that those stupid, 'Good morning, Beautiful' 'WYD' 'Thinking about you' are mass text messages :mjlol:.
:rudy: That entitlement. Y'all kill me :wavylol:
 

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Doesn't sound like they are women you need to deal with. My friend has 3 kids under 5 years old, it takes us like 3 days to finish a convo. We text when we can or feel like it.
 
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