We all want to be the fly guy, the handsome guy, the Mack, the baller, the comedian but in reality were not and can't. We all can't be ghost from power.
Men need to find their lane and stop trying to be the HNIC boss type. Women aren't stupid and can see through it. Plus by now I'm sure they have to be tired of the fronting. I know I am. When I meet a bro that's clearly fronting I just want to Pat him on shoulder and say it ok breh, just be you.
U need to embrace being yourself. it's 2017 we don't have to front anymore. It's no longer necessary.Nothing is wrong with being you.
Men need to stop chasing women that they're not suppose to have. Everything is about energy. If you're a good dude why the fukk are u chasing a bytch that want to be on the scene? She have selfish energy and will meet her selfish spouse.
You gotta get with the female equivalent of you and stop being delusional.
Like if you're a fat nikka. This isn't to insult you but I'm using it as an example. Get with a fat chick that actually appreciate you. Stop embarrassing yourself on IG leaving comments on these chicks profiles . "Oh baby I wanna drink your bath water" That ho reading that shyt laughing. Have some dignity and atleast curse her out if u wanna say anything.
I digress. Yeah man we all gotta find our lane. Like me I know what I want. I just have to work on myself to get her. I have negative energy but I want somebody positive and upbeat. somebody to nurture me and tuck me in at night. Kiss me on the forehead and tell me that I'm doing a good job.
Men need to find their lane. Stop chasing hoes. Y'all ignore all the other women that would actually make good wives.
Black people in particular don't have room to play around. We need to get off this unicorn shyt. All of us have flaws. You'll have some delusional black woman talking about "he gotta make over 75k and be over 6ft tall. " Shut up bytch and just take that guy down the street that works hard and want to be a husband and father.
Black people like to go against the grain. Instead of living traditional boring lives we want to live these fantasy lifestyles that only exist in our heads.
Their is a reason why our grand parents would get married to someone from the neighborhood. We destroy our foundation in our youth by bucking against the rules and grow old and alone for trying to do our own thing.
Enclosing: reality is the key to our salvation and mixed in with a little idealism. We all cant keep living these fantasy lifestyles because it stops progress and ultimately destroying the community. It might seem innocent but in actuality it's genocide. It's that dark when u peel back all the layers and visualize the ending
