The reason men have trouble dating in 2017 is because they don't know their lane

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But now that I think about it, at least in the hoods I've lived in, regardless of height or looks, I've seen brehs with straight mudducks
 

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Also I'll add, be honest about what u really want and the reality of what that means.

If u literally just trying to fukk a bunch of chicks there is nothing wrong with that, but a lot of women just ain't gon be down with that. I got a friend now talking about how he hate Twitter chicks b/c they be the freakiest online, sending all kinds of filth in his DMs but when he's in their city, they ghost. :mjlol:

Usually taking ur time and getting to know someone and being genuine is easier.
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:whoa:Too much effort I just wanna get my dikkhead wet.:smugdraper:
 

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I already know my lane which is cute, offbeat, quirky chicks. The artisy type that don't give a shyt about material things :banderas:. The model bad bytch type from the one's i've met are too one dimensional for me.
 

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A lot of what people call "chemistry" is really just physical attraction. If she's physically attracted to you, then all you have to do is not say something stupid or disrespectful and the "chemistry" will be there. If she's not attracted to you, she'll either mentally block you from connecting with her, or put you in a "friend" type vibe.
Naw breh, I've met pretty women who I have no chemistry with. A lot of you dudes only value the physical appearance of a woman so you have no idea about chemistry. This is why nikkas get finessed by women all the time because you only think in terms of looks so you shop for women like you would shop for a car.
 

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Naw breh, I've met pretty women who I have no chemistry with. A lot of you dudes only value the physical appearance of a woman so you have no idea about chemistry. This is why nikkas get finessed by women all the time because you only think in terms of looks so you shop for women like you would shop for a car.

That's the inverse of what I'm saying.

I'm saying that people cover up a lack of attraction by saying that "there's no chemistry", especially when it's someone that is considered a good catch. I've had many women tell me this after hearing them talk about another dude and their first response was that "there was no chemistry" and then when further asked if they were physically attracted to the guy they said no.

Of course if her personality is wack to you, there is not going to be chemistry.

For the most part there has to be attraction for chemistry to take place. These brauds are choosing first on looks/money/style/swag, then if your personality is halfway decent, "chemistry" will happen.

Either I'm not attracted to you, or I think your steez is trash. Using lack of chemistry is just a cover up for one of those two issues.
 

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That's the inverse of what I'm saying.

I'm saying that people cover up a lack of attraction by saying that "there's no chemistry", especially when it's someone that is considered a good catch. I've had many women tell me this after hearing them talk about another dude and their first response was that "there was no chemistry" and then when further asked if they were physically attracted to the guy they said no.

Of course if her personality is wack to you, there is not going to be chemistry.

For the most part there has to be attraction for chemistry to take place. These brauds are choosing first on looks/money/style/swag, then if your personality is halfway decent, "chemistry" will happen.

Either I'm not attracted to you, or I think your steez is trash. Using lack of chemistry is just a cover up for one of those two issues.
Okay I understand your point now. You're saying some people claim a lack of chemistry to cover up the fact they aren't attracted to someone. The way it was worded made it come off as if you didn't believe in chemistry.
 

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A 5'7 guy is getting overlooked regardless of where he is unless the woman is desperate or knows he's got stacks and will trick off. I rarely ever see short dudes with good looking women. But if they do have one, the guy is GQ'd from head to toe, in top shape, top of his game/field, funny/witty/popular, everything, and I've still had their women chase me and when I ask about thier man they tell me "yeah i'm with him and hes nice but he's just too short" :wow: Them little nikkas can conquer the world but can't overcome that challenge. :wow:
If you're short, like under 5'8, then you really have no lane, you need to take what you can get, come to grips with the fact you're going to share that from time to time, and get out of the game.

Short nikkas....do NOT listen to this nikka.

If what he said was true, there would be no short nikkas in the world. This entire generation of men would be 6"2.
 

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Coli nikkas stay with the ducktales man.

3 out of every 10 black men are dead, in jail, gay or major bums. The other 7 have their lives together but, 2 of them like white women. So that leaves 5 black men with good jobs, good lives, handsome, good husband potential. But black women only want 6 foot nikkas, right? Only 14% of men are over 6 feet, so the number now dwindles down to .7 nikkas :mjgrin:

nikkas and their duck tales. Completely out of whack with reality. Never change, Coli. Never change :mjgrin:
 
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