The reason men have trouble dating in 2017 is because they don't know their lane

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Ok...

I just came back from the public pool. Of course men, women & kids are there. Do you know how many grown women were there? Probably like 60...Do you know how many of them had a nice body? Like...3. Plus the ones that did seemed like they was in their early 20s...It's a lot of women out there looking nice & tight it but it damn sure ain't the majority. The question is do you as a man have those endearing qualities these chicks gravitate to? Maybe if I moved to Atl or Mia the ratio would have been better lol
 

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It's true just being good isn't enough. You have to have chemistry

A lot of what people call "chemistry" is really just physical attraction. If she's physically attracted to you, then all you have to do is not say something stupid or disrespectful and the "chemistry" will be there. If she's not attracted to you, she'll either mentally block you from connecting with her, or put you in a "friend" type vibe.
 

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Ok...

I just came back from the public pool. Of course men, women & kids are there. Do you know how many grown women were there? Probably like 60...Do you know how many of them had a nice body? Like...3. Plus the ones that did seemed like they was in their early 20s...It's a lot of women out there looking nice & tight it but it damn sure ain't the majority. The question is do you as a man have those endearing qualities these chicks gravitate to? Maybe if I moved to Atl or Mia the ratio would have been better lol

Brehs gonna be down to hit regardless, so where's their motivation?

ATL and MIA got a higher % of women that look good, but how many are chasing ballers? You can still eat, tho. Slim cute women with understated bodies do not get a lot of attention in those places, so if you have your stuff together you will have "options"
 

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Me personally I'll never let a nikka tell me what I can't do I'll get rejected everyday idgaf

take life advice from a 30 year old broke boy who gets no pums, lives with his parents, designs gay nightclub flyers, and drops gay subliminals every other thread brehs


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nikka desgining flyers for the beef house :russ: loser ass nikka
 

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After thinking about it "finding your lane" may not be a woman that is similar to you, but a woman that values your strengths.

A 5'7" corporate breh making $100K in Charlotte may not be highly valued by a similar chick, but would be highly valued by a call center chick making $30K in Augusta, GA.

Sometimes you have go out of your circle, to meet people that don't take what you have going for yourself for granted. I learned that in college when I was smashing fine ass local chicks, but had to settle for average when it came to my schoolmates. Fine local chicks were impressed by me, fine college brauds weren't.
Shiet if that's how it is, I might need to start holla-ing at these fat chicks:mjgrin:

:beli::francis:
 

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I live in LA and a nikka making 40-70 k (WITH NO KIDS) will eat out here..I guess on the coli every nikka getting money but I don't know a gang of nikkas making 40-70k y'all make it seem like that's average and from what I seen its a little bit above average..most nikkas work service jobs that don't make that much let's be honest with ourself coli :pachaha:


I only went to l.a once, but it seems expensive as hell
 

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A man's priority should be Education/Career/Money....everything else will fall in place after. That whole 6ft Idris Alba or Odell shyt will be done as women get older. Talk to any average female friend, the guys they want, just want sex..the guys they do not want, want relationship :mjlol:. Eventually most get tired of being used just for that will want a decent men.

Special Report: Racial and Ethnic Disparities in Obesity ...the obesity rate in the U.S is tragic!!! lowers the quality of woman. That's why im trying to lock down this accountant, slim, works out 4X times a week and is very intelligent.
 
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A man's priority should be Education/Career/Money....everything else will fall in place after. That whole 6ft Idris Alba or Odell shyt will be done as women get older. Talk to any average female friend, the guys they want, just want sex..the guys they do not want, want relationship :mjlol:. Eventually most get tired of being used just for that will want a decent men.

Special Report: Racial and Ethnic Disparities in Obesity ...the obesity rate in the U.S is tragic!!! lowers the quality of woman. That's why im trying to lock down this accountant, slim, works out 4X times a week and is very intelligent.


Exactly what I was about to say. Look around you at the mall, Walmart, movie theaters etc. People always complaining and wanting this and that, but at the end of the day everybody settles within their range.

Whether you want that GOAT life and hoes all depends on you.
 

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A man's priority should be Education/Career/Money....everything else will fall in place after. That whole 6ft Idris Alba or Odell shyt will be done as women get older. Talk to any average female friend, the guys they want, just want sex..the guys they do not want, want relationship :mjlol:. Eventually most get tired of being used just for that will want a decent men.

Special Report: Racial and Ethnic Disparities in Obesity ...the obesity rate in the U.S is tragic!!! lowers the quality of woman. That's why im trying to lock down this accountant, slim, works out 4X times a week and is very intelligent.

So the decent brehs that spent their 20s building themselves up should be settled for after the females are used up by ain't shyt nikkas? :mjlol:
 

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Real spit homie :patrice: elders need to talk to the youth...even if they don't want to hear it:jbhmm:

I like this type of topic:ehh:
 

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Social media has pushed a lot of people to be hysterically shallow and constantly worried about how other people will view their choices. It encourages folks to be more hive minded and allow others into their decision making. But how can you please everyone? One way trip to depression.
 
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