The reason men have trouble dating in 2017 is because they don't know their lane

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After thinking about it "finding your lane" may not be a woman that is similar to you, but a woman that values your strengths.

A 5'7" corporate breh making $100K in Charlotte may not be highly valued by a similar chick, but would be highly valued by a call center chick making $30K in Augusta, GA.

Sometimes you have go out of your circle, to meet people that don't take what you have going for yourself for granted. I learned that in college when I was smashing fine ass local chicks, but had to settle for average when it came to my schoolmates. Fine local chicks were impressed by me, fine college brauds weren't.
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love a political decision like dr umar said?
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I want to get married at least obce amd have kids and do the family thing
If we get divorced i just want am ex who has her head on straight amd wants th3 same things that i want namely for my children to succeed
 

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That's why I don't feel sorry anybody who complains about being alone b/c most of the time they have overlooked or ignored genuinely good people who cared about them in pursuit for something more. But they wanna be butt hurt when something more doesn't want them.
:wow: unfortunately me in the past
 

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It doesn't involve you so it doesn't matter.

I sacrificed time and finances to get more finances and time.
ive dont the same....no need to always be so defensive BTW...everything isnt a personal attack....your armor is going to hold u back one day
 

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Hey
70K? I got that and then some. Send her my way.
:ehh:
What's ur policy on single moms? She's biracial and had two kids by a Puerto Rican dude that I know she still fukks with but she don't tell me about it no more cuz she knows how i am...LMAO!:ufdup:

I mean I don't judge but if u on some obvious fukkery and always in my ear about "all dudes this and that" ain't but so much I can bite my tongue. I am me after all.
Also gonna need ur height and I'll pass ur info along.
(Personally I think u are out of her league but in her delusional head, she would feel entitled to u.:snoop:)
This the shyt I be talking about and people think I'm exaggerating but a LOT of people don't deserve to be in relationships. Ya'll think I'm just taking pot shots at nerdy lames with entitlement issues but I got chicks and dudes like this in my life! Lol!
 

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ive dont the same....no need to always be so defensive BTW...everything isnt a personal attack....your armor is going to hold u back one day
We ain't friends.

I open with people I need to be and want to be open with.

You were just calling me a dumbass and think I'm suppose to open up to you. You sleep.

Anything going forward, ignored.
 

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Hey :ehh:
What's ur policy on single moms? She's biracial and had two kids by a Puerto Rican dude that I know she still fukks with but she don't tell me about it no more cuz she knows how i am...LMAO!:ufdup:

I mean I don't judge but if u on some obvious fukkery and always in my ear about "all dudes this and that" ain't but so much I can bite my tongue. I am me after all.
Also gonna need ur height and I'll pass ur info along.
(Personally I think u are out of her league but in her delusional head, she would feel entitled to u.:snoop:)
This the shyt I be talking about and people think I'm exaggerating but a LOT of people don't deserve to be in relationships. Ya'll think I'm just taking pot shots at nerdy lames with entitlement issues but I got chicks and dudes like this in my life! Lol!

5'8" (at best)
:to:

Two kids isn't my flow anyway, but thanks for the effort
 

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Men definitely stay in their lane more as compared to women. Hence why they're always complaining about dudes not being on their level and about how they're single and can't find a husband. They're hypergamous by nature. Most nikkas deal with any chick that likes them and take what they can get. :manny:
 
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