The reason men have trouble dating in 2017 is because they don't know their lane

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they do deserve it....but my problem is...this game that black people are playing is is very genocidal and its not as innocent as it seem on the surface...because where does it really ends? what is the end game for this?

those are the long term consequences...we need each other at the very least economically...forget about the emotions....for our survival we need 2 parent black households with resources.....

I have a 26 year old female cousin thats stuck at a dead end job still with dreams of marrying rich...its crazy....and i can already tell shes going to eventually lose her mind because im the type to accept harsh realities....its sad and alot of us are going to be walking around aimlessly losing our minds

thats why im trying to accept reality...because i was once super delusional and idealistic

Oh I know it too.
The end game is our generation not having accomplished anywhere near what our forefathers accomplished even tho we have more. The end game is also us breeding ourselves out or at least that's what I think every time I see a white and beige family with one blk family member looking like a speck of yin in a whole lotta yang.
The end game is an ever aging populace that becomes a burden in their old age if they live that long and the end of the blk family structure as the majority of blk men and women aren't having children and most blk babies are being born to the most irresponsible elements in our community with the least amount of resources.

I feel bad for a lot of people b/c that African proverb rings true: what u don't have now, u WONT have later.

I also see our generation being cowards when faced with this reality in their later years and offing more talk of "offing" themselves b4 they reach old age will become prevalent. B/c even they know living this way isn't sustainable.

Break the cycle for urself.

 

[Malik1time]

Real shyt. I was just thinking about this couple days ago after somebody posted this clip in a thread:



Chick in the clip is with ol' boy because he's "boring". She is attracted to him because she's boring too.

Find some body like yourself that has the same values and similar personality.

Know who you are as a person and stop trying to be some body you're not. If you know you're lame and square, go after lame and square females who will appreciate your personality.

Good post
Well said...alot of people just change what they really like/do just to appease to women
Im 26years old and I watch anime and I play video games only got two pairs of jordans I rather wear Clark wallabees(thank you ghostface)
I don't buy designer shyt
And yet I still get plenty of girls
I'm shy at times.....I just noticed the majority of the girls I've been with are shy

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Good post
Well said...alot of people just change what they really like/do just to appease to women
Im 26years old and I watch anime and I play video games only got two pairs of jordans I rather wear Clark wallabees(thank you ghostface)
I don't buy designer shyt
And yet I still get plenty of girls
I'm shy at times.....I just noticed the majority of the girls I've been with are shy

I swear shy people get overlooked and shytted on a LOT in the dating game.

 

[daboywonder2002]

Whatever expectations you have in the opposite sex- MAKE SURE YOU HAVE THEM YOURSELF. You want them to have a degree- make sure you have yours. You want your partner to have a job or make great money- make sure you do the same. Have a nice body- Make sure you're in the gym.

 

[DrX]

Oh I know it too.
The end game is our generation not having accomplished anywhere near what our forefathers accomplished even tho we have more. The end game is also us breeding ourselves out or at least that's what I think every time I see a white and beige family with one blk family member looking like a speck of yin in a whole lotta yang.
The end game is an ever aging populace that becomes a burden in their old age if they live that long and the end of the blk family structure as the majority of blk men and women aren't having children and most blk babies are being born to the most irresponsible elements in our community with the least amount of resources.

I feel bad for a lot of people b/c that African proverb rings true: what u don't have now, u WONT have later.

I also see our generation being cowards when faced with this reality in their later years and offing more talk of "offing" themselves b4 they reach old age will become prevalent. B/c even they know living this way isn't sustainable.

Break the cycle for urself.

yup...the IR dating thing is esp true....its bullshyt...its laced in mental illness...all this "pawging and swirling" these black people dont love these white ppl their with (well most) its them fulfilling some sick revenge fantasy in their heads. which was cute and funny at first ...it seemed goofy and something we could laugh at or debate but its totally destructive in many ways. They're walking time bombs.

Dr umar was talking abort how determent IR dating is. of course the liberal pc police will destroy him ...im no umar johnson follower but i agree with him on alot of things

our generation isnt going to make it i dont think....u cant avoid legit hardwork, honesty and sincerity. all these "hustles" scams arent going to hold up for a long time. At some point alotta people are going to be forced to do soul searching and examine who they truly are and become righteous and i dont know if many of us are ready for that. time is cruel. It can heal you or fade you. im 29 about to be 30 soon and I see many ppl my age gone...I have family members thats already threw in the towel...they just smoke, drink the pain away until its time for death....I have a family history of that....just surviving until death....

Another thing is our generation fell for the "care free lifestyle" which is a death style. being regular is considered lame and boring but being regular is how u survive to see the end of the picture. The sad part is...ppl are selfish because even if they cant do it for themselves...they should atleast do it for their children , because they suffer the most......u have to sacrifice your youth for your future and most importantly your children

my dad didnt do shyt shyt during his youth but fukk bytches and fukk up. He changed later but now its too late. I love him but it is what it is...he wasnt thinking about his future and how it would affect his family....

but whatever

 

[Larry Lambo]

All the women I know just hope for a good Breh who doesn't cheat, likes to have fun and has a decent job. They are having a hard time finding that let alone someone similar to a fictional character.

I think brehs try to emulate characters they see who are successful at achieving their objective and forget that character isn't real.

Women say that, but a lot of the time when the opportunity arises, they find other reason not to deal with a guy. "Oh, I just wasn't feeling him", "Oh, the chemistry wasn't there".

That's why I don't even front about what I want because there are some good women that I will turn down. I want a woman that I'm physically attracted to that I click with on a personality level as well. Being "good" is not enough for me.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Women say that, but a lot of the time when the opportunity arises, they find other reason not to deal with a guy. "Oh, I just wasn't feeling him", "Oh, the chemistry wasn't there".

That's why I don't even front about what I want because there are some good women that I will turn down. I want a woman that I'm physically attracted to that I click with on a personality level as well. Being "good" is not enough for me.

Yuuuuuhp.

 

[Larry Lambo]

Whatever expectations you have in the opposite sex- MAKE SURE YOU HAVE THEM YOURSELF. You want them to have a degree- make sure you have yours. You want your partner to have a job or make great money- make sure you do the same. Have a nice body- Make sure you're in the gym.

Some things don't apply to both genders, so that's not true for everything, but I get what you are saying.

 

[Larry Lambo]

Also got a blk female friend who works at Marshall Fields and curves dudes for not making over 70k but she always at my crib eating off me or "leaving her wallet" when she hangs out with us

70K? I got that and then some. Send her my way.

 

[CapitalforCapital]

this is so silly. I could see if u were a chick where 90% of yo appeal was based on aesthetics. Something outta ya control But no, u a dude, yo appeal comes from how much wealth you acquire.

fukk all that , "Just be yourself, and accept your average (miserable) lives, with your average (miserable) broad, just to have average (miserable) kids" shyt.

The goal should ALWAYS be, til death, to want more and more and more. And not only more, but the absolute best of wateva it is you want more of. Including women. fukk that love shyt, cuz it ain't real. Get money and die.

AMEN. THATS LAW. LAZY nikkaS JUST DONT WANNA PUT NO WORK IN.

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

@BlackManLiveFromLondon
Tell me why you mad?

 

[NoChillJones]

Subs

Virgins go virgin....

 

[DrX]

@BrokePhiBroke

hey phi, out of curiosity whats your plan?

 

[Aba_juggin]

Real shyt. I was just thinking about this couple days ago after somebody posted this clip in a thread:



Chick in the clip is with ol' boy because he's "boring". She is attracted to him because she's boring too.

Find some body like yourself that has the same values and similar personality.

Know who you are as a person and stop trying to be some body you're not. If you know you're lame and square, go after lame and square females who will appreciate your personality.

Any chance lame and square females can be bad bytches too?!

 

[Larry Lambo]

After thinking about it "finding your lane" may not be a woman that is similar to you, but a woman that values your strengths.

A 5'7" corporate breh making $100K in Charlotte may not be highly valued by a similar chick, but would be highly valued by a call center chick making $30K in Augusta, GA.

Sometimes you have go out of your circle, to meet people that don't take what you have going for yourself for granted. I learned that in college when I was smashing fine ass local chicks, but had to settle for average when it came to my schoolmates. Fine local chicks were impressed by me, fine college brauds weren't.