The truth about women not being "protected".

[HarlemHottie]

And black American men have the power of influence to do this.

*BOOM*

*meme inspired by a bm

 

[UpAndComing]

Can't be protected without being Submissive

 

[Will Ross]

I mean I believe it. Heck a lot the dudes on here believe bw are super promiscuous and shyt.

BW have reputation of being loose or promiscuous, when my dealings with bw say otherwise. A lot bw are way more conservative in their sexuality and dealings in relationships than non bw. They aren’t afforded the same luxury.

I back this by saying I’ve encountered way too bw throughout my life that were virgins after 21+ and / or have no had a serious relationship.

So the stereotypes don’t really hold to much weight.

Plus we’ve seen the over policing of bw, from even within higher end. I’ve seen videos of law enforcement body slamming a 15 year old girl. A sight that you’d never see happen to a little white girl.

If black women want a better image that gotta support better black women. Beyoncé one of the biggest black female singers was talking about making an onlyfans.

 

[SupremexKing]

No im not. Im speaking as if the majority of bw have been socialized to be thots, educated or not. A lot of them legit believe that yall wont be interested if they DON'T look like thots.

If bm lay down the law, bw who want a man will follow it, the end.

i'm telling you, from experience, that this is not true. this is removing accountability from the black woman, which is dangerous and disingenuous, because women need to either choose to be treated like adults (meaning mature, functioning people who are rationally thinking), or children (which i shouldn't need to define).

if you are a rational, logical person, you learn either from other people, or trial by error. period. the problem is that these females present themselves as thots, get treated like thots, and do not learn from it. they get worse, (meaning more set in the thottish ways) more angry at black men, and more bitter.

then they meet a dude who's thorough, and have no idea how to do something as simple as carry a respectful conversation with a man. they behave in a manner unbecoming of a woman who's looking to be taken seriously. the dude could lay out for them the correct way to move forward with them, but subtle disrespect and arguing is more important. negative attention is important than functional attention.

no man has time to re-raise these females. shyt is out of control. we live in a society where women are coddled and there are no consequences for anything. women need to learn how to attract, and maintain decent men, but they're not interested in that, because they're told that because they are women, their value is somehow higher. attention is more valuable than maintaining a functional situation with a man.

to more directly address your point, why is it that these females cannot handle reproach and boundaries set up by a man? why do these females put so much energy into looking good online, to attract a dude, but then once they attract the solid dude, have zero ability to maintain that mans attention outside of occasional, valueless sex, which overall lowers the their value?

this is why many successful men cheat. the woman is not interested in maintaining and being enough woman for the man, they're interested in fumbling through relationship after relationship without ever actually learning from these experiences.

 

[Serious]

If black women want a better image that gotta support better black women. Beyoncé one of the biggest black female singers was talking about making an onlyfans.

Nah it’s the same as bm, we collectively don’t control our mainstream image, thus it turns into an overall dysfunctional and distorted perception.

 

[HarlemHottie]

@SupremexKing The women are as broken as yall are. Nobody's perfect here. Im not really a blame game person, i fix problems.

The very same gospel im preaching to yall, i preached to a bw board (that had a lot of lsa cross over): treat each other kindly, we are in the midst of war. Literally as they were being swayed to the dark side. And you know what they told me? "I want to be a respectable wife and mother and i just don't see it happening with our men. "


I couldn't disagree. It's purely an economic issue. And it's fukked up, but i don't blame yall for it. If anything, I'd blame Reagan, Oliver north, and the cia. The community is raggedy all around, don't act like bm are perfect unless you want that same opposing energy back.

We ALL have issues. Let's fix them and move along. We're about to be a permanent under class and don't have time for this navel gazing bullshyt.

 

[SupremexKing]

@SupremexKing The women are as broken as yall are. Nobody's perfect here. Im not really a blame game person, i fix problems.

The very same gospel im preaching to yall, i preached to a bw board (that had a lot of lsa cross over): treat each other kindly, we are in the midst of war. Literally as they were being swayed to the dark side. And you know what they told me? "I want to be a respectable wife and mother and i just don't see it happening with our men. "


I couldn't disagree. It's purely an economic issue. And it's fukked up, but i don't blame yall for it. If anything, I'd blame Reagan, Oliver north, and the cia. The community is raggedy all around, don't act like bm are perfect unless you want that same opposing energy back.

We ALL have issues. Let's fix them and move along. We're about to be a permanent under class and don't have time for this navel gazing bullshyt.

not sure why you didn't just quote me but...i'm speaking from the perspective of a successful (relative in a system of white supremacy) black male. i'm not a regular degular dude, so all the "y'all" stuff really doesn't apply here. i speak from my perspective. the women i deal with either quickly get on board with my agenda, or they get charged, period. i don't have time to reraise or retrain women. i need a black woman who understands her and my position on the planet. many of these women do not, and are refusing to learn it, which speaks more to the collective goofiness and inability to teach of the black male more than anything. but why are these women unable to make it work with dudes who make great money, and display high intellect/success, and a willingness to lead, protect and provide? most of us want black women. you notice how the more successful a black man is, the higher his chances of dating out are? do you think this is a coincidence?

and truth be told, black men are still earning more than black women.

if it's an economic issue, why are these females unable to behave when they get with a more successful man?

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

No they aren't talking about multiple areas. They want us to be Batman and save them from their bad decisions.

I mean what else could they talk about, because last time I checked you're putting your life on the line messing with any black man's Mother, Wife, Daughter, Sister, etc.

You probably haven't come to the conclusion yet, but the fact of the matter is, most women on social media are brain dead birds. I understand why you're defending them, but you're defending lost causes.

Why do you think I’m defending them? Do you think there are any issues in our community that we need to address with each other?

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Why do you think I’m defending them? Do you think there are any issues in our community that we need to address with each other?

Because you're trying to say they mean one thing, when they mean something else.

Fact is, a lot of them want their cake and want to eat it.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

And check this out, I said what I said in regards to what this thread is about but dont think for a min that I'm disagreeing with you about this being an issue @Chelsea Bridge


Man my nephew's mama died after giving birth to him.

I didnt even know her but I cried like a baby when I found out. I was in pain for my brother and his son.

My little nephew is a teenager now and had to grow up without his mom. It's sad and terrible

I didn’t think you were trying to deflect.. I understood why you made your statement. I was in my soapbox earlier because I’m hearing about it too much.. I wholeheartedly agree with @Thurgood Thurston III This needs to be a movement. We need to finally address one of the biggest elephants in the room and that’s how we are treated when it comes to our health. These doctors and nurses are either racist or they don’t care enough about us to put in more effort and yet they continue to get treated with kid gloves.

 

[HarlemHottie]

not sure why you didn't just quote me but...i'm speaking from the perspective of a successful (relative in a system of white supremacy) black male. i'm not a regular degular dude, so all the "y'all" stuff really doesn't apply here. i speak from my perspective. the women i deal with either quickly get on board with my agenda, or they get charged, period. i don't have time to reraise or retrain women. i need a black woman who understands her and my position on the planet. many of these women do not, and are refusing to learn it, which speaks more to the collective goofiness and inability to teach of the black male more than anything. but why are these women unable to make it work with dudes who make great money, and display high intellect/success, and a willingness to lead, protect and provide? most of us want black women. you notice how the more successful a black man is, the higher his chances of dating out are? do you think this is a coincidence?

and truth be told, black men are still earning more than black women.

if it's an economic issue, why are these females unable to behave when they get with a more successful man?

I didn't quote you cuz i hate when ppl quote long posts that are literally right there on the same pg, pet peeve. I never dealt with 'regular' dudes, so i loosely know your lane.

The cycle is economic. There are a bunch of women like me, overly educated damn near, but raised in unstable, single parent environments. Black men too. We not doing no revisionist history in here.

If you want to blame one side or the other exclusively, I'm not wit it.

 

[Bossino]

where they at?

I don't have the energy as I'm coming off heartbreak, but it seems the good brehs are always out here.....

 

[SupremexKing]

I didn't quote you cuz i hate when ppl quote long posts that are literally right there on the same pg, pet peeve. I never dealt with 'regular' dudes, so i loosely know your lane.

The cycle is economic. There are a bunch of women like me, overly educated damn near, but raised in unstable, single parent environments. Black men too. We not doing no revisionist history in here.

If you want to blame one side or the other exclusively, I'm not wit it.

why do black people grow up in single parent homes? when did this occur?

because we all know post slavery, the black family was solid, up until around the late 1950, 60s.

i never placed the blame on women exclusively. that's laughable, since it's the job of the man to conduct military campaigns.

we are currently talking about black women, not black men. entirely separate conversation.

 

[Cobalt Sire]

This may not be what you’re focusing on in regards to black women claiming to be unprotected but when I think of it, the main thing that comes to mind is childbirth.

I know for me, I’m getting tired of seeing black women die at a disproportionate rate from childbirth due to a lack of care in hospitals and from midwives. I recently saw a video of a youtuber who was only 24 years old (8 months pregnant) and died from a heart attack. She complained to her midwife about having shortness of breath, but it was pretty much dismissed. Now she and her child are gone. Her boyfriend, a black man, was devastated, but there was really nothing he could do. They relied on the right people and still she and her child lost their lives. This is a constant thing that’s been happening for years and mainly affects black women because they do not take the concerns of black women seriously until it’s too late.

That’s where the lack of protection needs to be focused. It’s not black men’s fault. It’s the racism and discrimination in the Medical field towards black women that needs attention.

I’m seriously getting tired of seeing this and honestly makes me scared to even have children.

You're a breath of fresh air. You and Ashley Banks on here.

 

[TripleAgent]

They want a “diet patriarchy”. They want it when it suits them. They want to be protected, but they don’t want to obey you. You'll tell them to do something, and they’ll question you about it or outright disobey you. How can a man protect a woman who won’t listen to him?

A while back I was watching some movie on NF, where there was an intruder in a couple’s house. The husband told his wife to do something, and she didn’t follow his directions, and as a result, the situation turned even worse for them. This is a perfect example of the lack of respect that men face from women who they actually try to protect.

At the end of the day, the women who act right and choose right, will get protected, and the ones who don’t... well it’s a coin toss. If the women in our community want to be protected as a whole, then the way they treat men will have to change. They are the ones who broke the social contract between us and them, not us.

Hold this rep. I'm stealing this