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The Monk & The Mercenary
SureWomen choose men who men validate as real men.
It's not women painting murals of dead drug dealers killing the community.
SureWomen choose men who men validate as real men.
It's not women painting murals of dead drug dealers killing the community.
You brought up your "ive been in LA and Baltimore" to a niqqa born and raised in the smut.Haha, you used a street name like everyone is suppose to know where that is or what that neighborhood is like.
I’m listeningYou guys don't want real solutions. Just to talk in cycles and circles.
What sickens me is that many of you fail to see that women are followers of what WE men validate as manhood.
They follow OUR lead. We are the ones who called these dudes corny. We are the ones who called them simps. Women follow OUR lead.
How many more suburban black boys do you need to see "perform hood," thinking that's "real Black manhood" for you to NOT get it?
Have a bit of chauvinism in your whining. Women follow US and who WE as MEN validate.
So aka people need to start checking themselves basicallyThere is only one real solution here in the US. You vet whom you choose to have a serious relationship with. The problem some men and women are having in our community is they are picking mates based mainly on superficial aspects of the person, and not whether the person actually has good character or not.
Vetting takes time, being perceptive, and actually listening to the person. Those are things too many people are not doing, and so too many people suffer the consequences. Blaiming one sex for the problem is not the move either, because the problem is a human problem that is viewed through the lense of each particular sex. Still the basic problem is a poor use of the god given agency a person has to choose well for a mate.
we allowed it.For the record, I don’t think this lady was placing blame on Black men.
I think she is saying that there has been imagery and certain ideas pushed on Black ppl that have made certain elements seem “cool” to us, but not anyone else. There’s a reason why we went from having the highest marriage rates to the lowest in a matter of decades. That wasn’t solely because of Black men or Black women.
Yes, I brought up cities, not streets. I would not expect you to know what or where El Centro is, unless you lived there. I would not expect you to know about Slausen and Crenshaw either. That is why I left it in the general of city.You brought up your "ive been in LA and Baltimore" to a niqqa born and raised in the smut.
Now you're on some not one of us bullshyt because that's just the retarded shyt you do.
No talking to a village idiot like you who loves to add qualifiers to himself "haVE yOU acTUaLly liVEd iN thOSe nEIGhbORhOoDs? I hAVe, LoS AnGEleS anD BaLTImOre" but want to shyt on mines as if where the fukk I came up at was fukking sweet. Like I didn't go to school in the Stuy and Brownsville and shyt is "foreign" to me.
You're a datamining clown
Frankin Ave never have a solitary hasidic living on it with your dog shyt datamining. Not a single one.Yes, I brought up cities, not streets. I would not expect you to know what or where El Centro is, unless you lived there. I would not expect you to know about Slausen and Crenshaw either. That is why I left it in the general of city.
Also, your move to calling me names exposes you don't have a real argument. It exposes you only have feelings, like a female.
It's always blaming 1 gender and not equally speaking on both.

Women shouldn't be allowed to choose their partners. Their fathers should.I’m listening