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[KingFreeman]

Men establish authority, masculine frame, and most important of all, direction for the family. Women nurture children, support, and prop up the family structure through feminine maintenance.

Deviate from that dynamic and weakness seeps in.

 

[Devil Plisken…CMS]

What A Thread

 

[Bossino]

People quick to call these type of thread women hate or hurt men complaining. But I think most men are discovering how complicated women are. and it's kind of shocking, scary and disappointing that most will never have a lasting relationship.

Might sound like hate, but most women emotions are too inconsistent to gamble your love and financial well-being on.

I been came to this conclusion but people will fight/argue to get you to "date more", be more open, etc. I've grown quite comfortable with my own company

 

[Neuromancer]

Flight attendant

Oh. So she's gone a lot. Do ya'll split the chores?

 

[Stuntone]

I been came to this conclusion but people will fight/argue to get you to "date more", be more open, etc. I've grown quite comfortable with my own company

I feel that. I still date and love, but only expect it to last 2 years or so. Rinse and Repeat

 

[Jahbarri]

Oh. So she's gone a lot. Do ya'll split the chores?

Split the chores ? I cancel that bish like Christmas years ago, officially 8 months

 

[Neuromancer]

Split the chores ? I cancel that bish like Christmas years ago, officially 8 months

Oh. Ok. So yall are separated

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

corporations
devour
children
for profits
Emanations
not powers
If the shoe fit
Then rock it
When they raping
ya momma
And ya too sick
To stop it

 

[alpo]

I see why a lot of members of the coli kinda hate women now, bad relationships with women started at birth for a lot of y’all and now it’s going into y’all relationships as adults. This thread is like a sad therapy session

 

[Jahbarri]

Oh. Ok. So yall are separated

Yes officer anything else

 

[Neuromancer]

Yes officer anything else

Where were you on the night of March 23rd at 9pm?

 

[WonderCheeks]

My mother had high expectations for herself, me (her only child) and any man that came into the picture. She could be a hard ass but she was realistic. I was a straight A student until junior high math, my first stepfather didn’t understand why she was paying for tutoring when I just needed to work harder (his words). My mom dropped out of college but my stepdad had two degrees and was lazy. He didn’t care about being promoted, that didn’t bother my mom at all because she was very open about him not letting his job wear him down. He provided financially but didn’t want her to go back to school and actually got her fired from a job. Her next husband (white) was more supportive of both our educations but he was a monster to her. He loved to argue and would yell a lot. He had a lot of money and felt he could act how he wanted because we didn’t want for anything. My mother ended up with panic attacks because of him. She said she could be miserable by herself. She’s warned me about dating men a few years younger than her because the late boomers were fukked by their parents and the system. Too many hard ass men and women holding everything inside. She never wanted for a man and I watched men fall at her feet and she turned down an engagement from a local celebrity who could have taken excellent care of her and set her up for retirement. My mother taught me it’s not worth being miserable just to have a husband.

 

[ThirdAct]

My mom always thinks she's the smartest person in the room and never lets anyone get a word in edgewise. That being said she probably is smarter than my pops.

 

[Hersh]

i only read most of the first page.. but i could write a book in here.. lol.

 

[HarlemHottie]

I have another question to pose in this thread since the conversation are amicable even when in disagreement:

Has any man in here over the age of 30, who's been dealing with women for at least 10-15 years, ever had a fruitful long term positive relationship with a woman who grew up without a fayher

I've noticed a terrible pattern but I wanna hear what other brehs have to say

I grew up without a father in the house and me and my man been together 20 yrs.