Tyler Perry Suggests that BW settle....does not go over well
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bourgeoisie tall freak
Superstar
it could also be the way some people lifestyle set up
i know dudes with good job 60-70k jobs with hella kids to pay for and bad spending habits that end up having to room with their cousin for lack of rent money. at least he was always fly though
Studious one
Change names, like change clothes; stay a fly girl
Sir, pity p*ssy is not where it’s at, lol. Maybe I’m high, but, which one would you choose: Mary Ann or Ginger? That’s your namesake right? Gilligan’s Island.I'm as ugly as ugly can get
Show me pity
Thurgood Thurston III
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Nah I never watched it. Which one of them looks like they'd give me pity p*ssy? That's the one I'm choosing
Studious one
Change names, like change clothes; stay a fly girl
Lol. Mary Ann. Although, change of my probably do it just for the fukk of it. If your pockets are deep enough, she’s a movie star after all. Sorry, I’m gonna stop derailing the thread.
Ozymandeas
Veteran
it could also be the way some people lifestyle set up
i know dudes with good job 60-70k jobs with hella kids to pay for and bad spending habits that end up having to room with their cousin for lack of rent money. at least he was always fly though
Facts. My cousin got 5 kids. FIVE.
He drives Uber/DoorDash. I pray for him
I could maybe afford 1.
bourgeoisie tall freak
Superstar
Facts. My cousin got 5 kids. FIVE.
He drives Uber/DoorDash. I pray for him
I could maybe afford 1.
so under tyler's scenario, whoever he is dating has to make up financially for his lack of dikk control. at least he gettin p*ssy tho
Those women are ill-informed and hustling backwards. If she’s
1- unmarried
2-unmarried making 35k
She shouldn’t have kids. That isn’t enough for an individual let alone a family. That’s my point.
The women aren’t fit to have children and the men aren’t fit to impregnate anyone.
If you as a man want to have a family, why the hell would you be ok making 45k? That should be your salary during the building phase. That’s what you make at 22 in an entry level position.
I think people really played up the bad and downplayed the good, yes if you DNA tested kids from back in the day no telling who the father was and absolutely old Grand dad had another family across town.
There were always women down to be side pieces and there were always male Jody's sliding up in wives wnen husbands were away.
What was different was there was no family courts so people really evaluated the worth of breaking up a family.
Take Remy Ma's case she was always more successful that Pappy ( they say that Pappy wrote a good amount of Shether that almost ended Nikki's career and revied Remy's) so actually Pap could divorce her and take Half. He could even sue the help for infidelity if they live in NC ( ask that chick from American Idol who almost married that pretty boy cell phone store worker until the wife sued her)
Pap would also get massive sympethy p*ssy as a guy who stood by his wife only for her to cheat on him.
So it would make no sense for Remy to cheat especially not cheat down but people are gonna do what they want and she already shown poor decision making by shooting her friend over 3 grand.
Well marriage rates are stable for rich people it's the poors, the celebrities and the non equally yoked getting divorced.
Babe.
Men subscribe to that because men and women are not the same.
When I’m 8mon pregnant, feet spreading, organs squished, life LITERALLY growing inside of me, then I give birth and only have 8-12 weeks to stay with my baby when all I will truly want to do is NEST and stay home instead of handing my child over to some strangers at daycare—
As a man you won’t experience any of that. THAT is why women stay home with the baby and men go make the money. Because our bodies literally house the baby and then provide food for the baby. We are literally created to birth and protect the child until it’s ready and able to interact with the world.
Men don’t turn to women for provision. We turn to yall for provision because of what happens to our bodies after sex (procreation).
Peruvian Connect
Superstar
I agree with everything you said, but what if he picks up extra shifts or a part-time gig during pregnancy and after pregnancy so you can stay home. Is he still undesirable?
Ozymandeas
Veteran
so under tyler's scenario, whoever he is dating has to make up financially for his lack of dikk control. at least he gettin p*ssy tho
Nah that nikka a liability
His girl with him still because she know no other man signing up for all that responsibility
No one is saying throw the man away, but children don’t need to be birthed in a situation like that. Those salaries are for the building phase of your relationship.
I think part of the issue is no one is talking about building and working towards better.
Tyler is a billionaire who literally kept climbing until he reached the top- like literally created his own lane.
HE is the one who said BM aren’t doing as well as BW. I know the actual stats don’t say that, but we’re talking about how Tyler views his fellow Black men.
Instead of speaking about brehs doing better in their respective fields, instead of talking about brehs matching the efforts of BW (again, referring to what he said about brehs), he says black women are killing it and need to be with a man who essentially isn’t really competing with other men.
He didn’t word that shyt well at all.