Washington Post: Hookup Culture Isn’t The Real Problem Facing Singles Today. It’s Math.

[Action Mike]

Mid 30s is too old.

Why?

What do you think is the right age for a man?

 

[dennis roadman]

Do you guys ever get tired of discussing the same shyt every day?

What more can be said of this that tlr denizens haven't said 80 times a day for the last 3 years?

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

Imma sell more dreams than Walt Disney

 

[It is a mystery]

I feel like a lot of people are putting a serious spin on the article that the writer didn't intend for
People talmbout how value for a male increases with age when this is about stats and demographics

The article talks about how currently there are more college enrolled females than males so the females gotta give in to what males want for the most part. If the demographics flipped the situation would be the opposite (males would have less leeway) which is why @bcrusaderw joked about china because their demographics are the opposite

Outside of her post and a few others, male/female ratios doesn't look like what people are discussing though

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

This article is just another attempt to demonize men. Women work, go to college and have their own money now. They're playing the field just like we have always done. A man's college degree means what to a woman who is just trying to sow her oats? Neither gender gets serious until mid 30's, you can not blame that on men.

 

[mcdivit85]

True point but the OOW birthrate is one the top talking points of why the black community is fukked.

The funny part a big part of the divorce rate is from WHITE PEOPLE that get married UNDER THE AGE OF 25. Then have babies in wedlock then the white woman files for divorce at age 27. But hey numbers wise the baby was still born in wedlock and white people look good because they're good at having shotgun marriages/wedding. So many cacs from my high school were getting married at 18, 19, 20 and then having kids. I'm 27 now and yeah I'd say about half of them are now divorced .

Once you remove this crowd from the stats, the divorce numbers drop. Educational attainment greatly affects divorce stats as well with those with lower education having higher divorce rates.

Peace

 

[Bless't]

Basically, here is the best strategy for the modern man

Take care of yourself(Gym, dress sharp, grooming, look good and feel)
Stack paper(Degree, trade, small business, whatever method)
Game them without any real intention of settling
Pump and dump these women
Never get married

Cold. But this is the reality these days.

It really is. Couldnt have simplified it better myself.

I go about the bolded a little differently. I'll date a girl for an extended period of time but they know upfront that marriage most likely isnt in the cards. A lot of modern women are cool with it.

 

[Art Barr]

I went to UCLA. A school of 36,000 and I never seen no old dude role up on anyone. Stop it. You look silly.

Furthermore tell this shyt to white woman. Black women live in a completely different world where regardless of youth and beauty the generational economic failures of black men mean we have always had to adjust.

This is why black women are being told to date out. Posts like yours are a reason why it's probably an excellent idea. Black women
Shouldn't have to suffer romantically from black men's underachievement.

So brother how long should pookie and ray ray outnumber Jamal?

So, you say sell us out.
All, because we as black men are not in charge of our economic/capital base?

Is this what I see you trying to deflect on.
Run away from our problems because massa made us.
Is that what you are insinuating, and trying to make it like it is a real realistic possibly successful situation.


Art Barr

 

[Bless't]

All bullshyt aside, here's my take... And this is coming from a devilishly handsome 31 year old, former engineer finishing up grad school.

-Yes, women lose HARD in the numbers game. But there are a lot of good women who are gonna get screwed regardless. Even if they wanna settle down in their prime, their equal (another 19 year old in college) is not ready and will likely cheat on them or take advantage of them.

-The upside is IF they can stick it out, the dude will usually (not always) grow up and when he's ready he wants to lockdown the girl that's been loyal to him and he knows best. (Most girls will argue with me about this point and how it's not fair. But I didn't create this world, I'm just speaking the truth.)

So let's say that doesn't happen and fast forward past all that and you're at where I'm at. Where people are educated, single, and in their mid 20s to 30s.

At this point in the game it's a crapshoot for BOTH parties. Contrary to popular belief, educated men are under the same pressure as women. We all want to have kids and bring someone home to make our moms proud. It's just that we're more jaded and fearful of a girl's past. But please believe, when a dude finds a quality girl she is wifed up with a quickness. I don't give a fukk what the statistics say. I've seen it with my own eyes. Guys will try to play the numbers game until a smart dude comes along and scoops her up. Then the guy who let her go is like fukk it, I'm not to scared to admit that it's happened to me.

I'm honestly at a point where I'm going to settle down with the next chick that is attractive, cool, and aligns with my life goals and views on life. Notice I didn't say "has two masters" because even tho I'll have that, I don't give a fukk if my wife does. It's not important. What's important is if i can build with her

Lastly, not all men are gonna stand the test of time either. I know some nikkas that fell the fukk off over the past 10 years. They're going to have to lower their expectations as well. They're not grabbing cream of the crop 22 year olds either.

 

[Art Barr]

This article is just another attempt to demonize men. Women work, go to college and have their own money now. They're playing the field just like we have always done. A man's college degree means what to a woman who is just trying to sow her oats? Neither gender gets serious until mid 30's, you can not blame that on men.

Nobody is serious and women in college with degrees became the eic/cs standard bussa.
That was formerly the hs dropout female tale of the 70's-90's.
Using the single mother pos gold digger project mentality.
That really only a few exception to the rule project low life bytches.
constructed from skewed divorce law, claudine-ism's, and project mentality.
instilled by some bitter wack bytch in their social circle from the past two previous gens.
All females who are educated follow this educated dumb divorcee cs/palimony/eic succuss/alimony way of life, now.
You, can not find a female, now.
All because they all sold their virtue to the government programs for a dollar.
You, can't marry a female purposefully having kids as a plan at 24.
Just to get an eic check, and purposefully railroading men.
as an actual strategy to get palimony/alimony/cs.
You, can't get a female who is worth a damn because she sold her virtue to the government.
People need to realize.
They fight wars with women by defeating their virtue and America won this war on virtue like a decade ago about 2007.
Now, the only marriable women are select affluent types.
Not driven astray by capitalistic dreams of being a kardashian.
That purposefully the upper crust created..
So, they would have a pool to intermingle with to catch a nut, and then go back to their affluent look the other way style legacy lineage based wives.
It is just the females of that way of life.
look the other way and are in some pole position strategically in life.
Regardless, if the pendulum.
swings in or out of their favor.
These females in general also subscribe to this because they get to live a high percentage style lifestyle. They normally would not engage in. Yet, do because the factors are so skewed in their favor. Numbers say it is stoopid not to partake in it.

Just like people all engage in this cycle of abuse.
Simply, because it appears to be a safe strategic way to go about it.
Yet, This is capitalism and this is Babylon and you can't live.
using devil made societal practices to live a fruitful life of any kind.

People are miserable because we have to subscribe to a life welled in complete paganistic worship of some bullshyt monolithic gold.
Of which, has no real purpose.
besides what we are duped into believing by the fukking devil.
We are all being made into weak ass enkhi/enil based pawns and it is the oldest trick in the book.
What is going to happen is everyone is going to be bored and miserable.
As we are all in general agreeing to a wack life, male and female.
As guys trying to be players and base their life on their dikk.
is the flip side to this as well. Guys have followed some wack simp nikka slave to the p*ssy playa lifestyle, as well.[right now as we speak, we have pua white guys with no game. Trying to move out of their societal made real and how they have a system to get women. To try to attempt to pull women like black men have been forced to. While trying to be jack Johnson with trap msuic now called edm in the back. While, being a simp in disguise talking a bunch of roosh-ims gone astray]
I, see it all day long and it is the most disgusting thing about life right now in every facet.
It is boring as fukk cause everyone has some gold digger capitalistic idea of the government.
instilled as a basic prime directive to their whole life.
Most importantly including love and don't even know it.
Not to mention don't even know the real laws.
that actually eliminate this type of thinking from us in society as well.
As, they are shielded from us and in abundant us by those affluent in the know.
Everyone is living a lie in general and the exception to the rule based person being real have no outlet.
So, you are not really going to find a mate out here.

Especially, if you live in a wack non-urban area.
If you live non-urban forget it......

Art Barr




Art Barr

 

[Bless't]

Mid 30s is too old.

 

[Bless't]

Do you guys ever get tired of discussing the same shyt every day?

What more can be said of this that tlr denizens haven't said 80 times a day for the last 3 years?

I agree. But new posters join and drop random gems, new outlooks, new opinions, etc. Just have to be patient and read through the same myopic minutia.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

A woman recently told me she browses POF to find a mate I haven't stop laughing since and she just turned 30.

 

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That's old even for a man.

nope.

 

[-----]

China is waiting, ladies.

Dat male overpopulation.

It wouldnt be a bad idea to move to
China.

Many men there need wives.