We Are the Generation That Doesn’t Want Relationships

[The Mad Titan]

I've done most of these things, with friends, alone, and randoms. I can say without a doubt they all would have been more fulfilling if I had someone I truly cared about doing it with me. I've travelled all over the world alone and with friends, and no matter how good of a time I have the thought creeps into my head at times that I wish I had someone to share these experiences with that I had a deep/er connection with. Not saying I don't enjoy myself, it's just...different.

What fun is it remembering a trip or something funny only to have no one to chat about it with because the friend you made isn't really a friend just an associate you picked up at a hostel or online? Idk...I just don't agree with you.

Gospel

All my favorite trips have been with people I love be it friends, family or ex's. I've done lots of vacations and enjoyable trips and alot of them I can't even recall until someone else starts talking about it and I'm like I don't even remember that.


But those with love ones stand out and dear to me in detail. Have a deep connection and experiences life with a love one or loves one is what its all about. But we/this generation get or kicks off on as many different highs as we can until we are damn near numb to it. Then we detox and start to die alone with out head still so far up our butts

 

[Pazzy]

That's exactly what I'm talking about, can you not read?

Life is already stressful without voluntarily putting yourself through a relationship where you "have to make it work",

I'd rather just remain single sell women dreams

What the fukk is your point

Ol indoctrinated ass "love is hard" ass nikka

Tell that to men and women that live outside of the West

So you basically are scared to live life because of fear. I understand what you are saying but that's not being realistic at all. That's what I'm calling you out on. If you have this type of thinking, you will be single forever wondering where the time went, missing out or throwing away opportunities that you may never receive again.

You sound like one of those guys that have been hurt or teased or had a real bad experience with something which has you scared to live.

 

[Pazzy]

Well it must be a secret considering all the people stressed out in marriages with people they can't stand

Says you. You need to snap out of your fantasy island mentality.

This ain't even about marriages. It's about relationships . Folks can't even handle that shyt and you talking about marriages.

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

You sound like a teenager.

Relationships of any meaningful kind take effort and hard work to maintain.

This even friendships require a good amount of effort. Lost some good friends just taking the backseat and not being active

 

[Woman of god]

People desire companionship, it's the curse we've acquired in being sentient beings. I actually just read an article about the British government considering it a health crisis in the fact that there are so many lonely elderly people with no one. That loneliness becomes a psychological issue which manifests itself in physical problems as well.

People need to kill the assumption that they're so above human contact. There are some individuals that can, but the majority don't fit that bill.

I won't post the article because it's pretty long, but here's the link.

Researchers Confront an Epidemic of Loneliness

Romantic partners aren't the only type of lifelong companions

 

[shonuff]

ok

so i am goign to really put some shyt in your head

to young people and those a bit older- you look to fake shyt too much

TV movies and books articles and music - its all sells an ideal about an idealized relationshoip- and not just relationship - but also about how you life is supposed to work the job you have etc etc

you have dudes here making proclamations about what they will and wont do and nikkas JUST got some hair on his face


yes relationships are hard - marriage DOES take work - its not fun - just like kids take work - they arent fun all the time - just like having a REAL job takes work - and you may not like it

all all of these things take LOADS of time - and no payoff is guaranteed

this generation is so fukked up with imagery and shyt that ISNT reality - from fake friends to fake relationships to faking your pictures and faking what you buy - hell fake food and fake "authentic" stuff to flesh out your fake relationships with people who you dont know because they are lying to themselves as well as to you

no wonder you you think the un authentic is authentic - you are fooled by shyt and then wonder how did i get fooled and then get MAD when someone warns you that what you are doing how you are thinking is unrealistic

the problem with you is you are all superego and you dont have any idea about who you are until you are really put to the test

dudes cant fight cant fix anything - walk around LOOKING like they are manly men with beards and pumped up on gym muscles and think they are a man because they can pay for a nice car or get bottle service - and its a boast - it a cover for your own inadequecy as a person not just as a man

you are fake - everything about you is fake and fake shyt is weak

and the weak are scared and fearful

 

[tater]

Romantic partners aren't the only type of lifelong companions

I mean that's true, but cats don't talk.

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

You can't do girlfriend activities with a female who is just a mate, breh.

Art Barr

I'm talking about light sh*t like a hookah spot or shooting pool, things you do with the homies

 

[Woman of god]

I mean that's true, but cats don't talk.

F U I'm getting a bird

 

[Pazzy]

ok

so i am goign to really put some shyt in your head

to young people and those a bit older- you look to fake shyt too much

TV movies and books articles and music - its all sells an ideal about an idealized relationshoip- and not just relationship - but also about how you life is supposed to work the job you have etc etc

you have dudes here making proclamations about what they will and wont do and nikkas JUST got some hair on his face


yes relationships are hard - marriage DOES take work - its not fun - just like kids take work - they arent fun all the time - just like having a REAL job takes work - and you may not like it

all all of these things take LOADS of time - and no payoff is guaranteed

this generation is so fukked up with imagery and shyt that ISNT reality - from fake friends to fake relationships to faking your pictures and faking what you buy - hell fake food and fake "authentic" stuff to flesh out your fake relationships with people who you dont know because they are lying to themselves as well as to you

no wonder you you think the un authentic is authentic - you are fooled by shyt and then wonder how did i get fooled and then get MAD when someone warns you that what you are doing how you are thinking is unrealistic

the problem with you is you are all superego and you dont have any idea about who you are until you are really put to the test

dudes cant fight cant fix anything - walk around LOOKING like they are manly men with beards and pumped up on gym muscles and think they are a man because they can pay for a nice car or get bottle service - and its a boast - it a cover for your own inadequecy as a person not just as a man

you are fake - everything about you is fake and fake shyt is weak

and the weak are scared and fearful

Word up. Dap 1000 times over

 

[Art Barr]

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I'm talking about light sh*t like a hookah spot or shooting pool, things you do with the homies

Not even,...
She is not your homie,...
She is your mate, mate with her.
That is all you and her are on.

You can't fake a relationship for a nut.

Art Barr

 

[Art Barr]

You're right. I don't think it's that deep tho. We are all merely a reflection of the society we live in. Things have changed and are not going back. Relationships have changed. Society is all about quick fixes and "what have you done for me lately?"

So I propose that instead of saying "nikkas need to..." or "bytches need to stop..." we realize that it's not one party or another. It's the ENTIRE society. And unless that changes it's hopeless to focus on individual actions. The previous generations were no better than us they just had the societal infrastructure that encouraged getting married early and sticking it out.

This.


Art Barr

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

I love my wife.



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[Malta]

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@Elle Driver will be the first female president of #GreenCardGang she's what this countries been missing and I fully endorse her candidacy.

 

[Ohene]

the difference is commitment. There's not much commitment in a generation that upgrades its phone every year and has the shortest attention span ever.

Why commit to one person when you can just swipe right a few times and meet another option?

because you and that person have good chemistry? because you've come to know eachother well? his dikk game is good to you and your head game is good to him? because you see great potential in him to become the man you have always wanted romantically/financially/mentally

it comes down to women. women have the most power in the dating game and thats where it starts.

as soon as you have women going on dates with dudes for free meals and then ghosting them, ignoring messages, screenshooting romantic texts to blast em on social media, flaking on dates, leading dudes on etc is when dudes start holding back. If woman rewarded altruistic/romantic behaviour then dudes would continue to do it. Instead, women will more often than not curve guys who are showing real interest while chasing those who dont. It gets to a point as a man where you start feeling lame for spending money and ample time on a chick who is probably going to turn around and fukk a nikka that didnt put in any effort.

Problem is that too many women feel like a) they dont need men and b) they want to be men.

Feminism/sexual liberation or whatever you wanna call it is fukking both men and women and it seems like no one is talking about it.

Men who play the field are literally creating the thot's they don't wanna wife up.

Women who seem keen on behaving like pseudo-men seem to forget they are the gatekeepers of sex.

Which is why most seem to either not discuss,distort or outright lie about sexual history.

shyt's a mess

Article is bs. Men want relationships, but these women are hos and its no repercussions for it anymore. Its actually celebrated. Society is fcked

Exactly