What Do You Choose? Loneliness/Solitude Or A Woman With A Bad Energy/Questionable Past?

[Crayola Coyote]

Being alone. Cause women are out here trying to try everyone. I’m not down with being disrespected

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Oh interesting I'm 25 and I swear most girls lool for older dudes, I tend to attract early 20s or women in their thirties for some reason, not really my age

25 year old guys generally aren't looking for commitment and women know that, so they date older. Unless they just tryna have fun with someone

someone in their early thirties and late twenties yes. But forties? I don’t see those age gap relationships as much as they get talked about on here. Most people date within their age range give or take a few years. A normal 25 year old female is not checking for 40 year old men unless she’s about the $

I don’t attract my age, always brehs in early and mid twenties. I’m short and look young so it’s expected. Every now and then I do get approached by men in their forties and nah I can’t. Save for a couple, most look their age, I prefer men that look youthful, in addition I don’t place a huge emphasis on a brehs wallet so it’s just not really any reason for me to. But I understand why others date older men.

My friends all like older brehs but it’s always within reason, like a breh that is 3 to 6 years older than they are. And usually it’s because they are more likely to commit and are more stable. But ten years or more is a bit of an age gap, and as often as it gets talked about it on here, I don’t see couples with those extreme age gaps very often.

 

[GhettoTeK]

Breh... I know you don't want to but you'll have to start dating women in their early to mid 20s before they become damaged and jaded.

I tend to date older women because the younger ones are just annoying and immature for the most part. One thing they do have over the older women is potential. You can't teach an old dog new tricks.

A scarred women is scarred for life. No amount of rehabilitation is going to make her less jaded. Trust me I've been there. Older women won't BS you when it comes to fukking because they know they can't use that as bargaining at their age. No breh is gonna wait for reheated left overs when there is fresh meat being prepared in the market.

The problem is, the ones who are still single didn't work on their personality. They were either too career focused or were holding out for Mr Perfect and are now mad their window of opportunity is gone.

I got out of a long term relationship last year and man I feel emancipated. Waking up and only having to worry about your own happiness is liberating. Sure I want a family one day but I know as a man that time is on my side. I've met a lot of professional brehs who didn't start a family until their 40s. Most of them wife'd women in their 20s and they couldn't be happier.

I'd say start looking more so at women in their 20s.

What happens when the chick hits your age after you've wifed her? This question is not to throw shade

 

[GhettoTeK]

someone in their early thirties and late twenties yes. But forties? I don’t see those age gap relationships as much as they get talked about on here. Most people date within their age range give or take a few years. A normal 25 year old female is not checking for 40 year old men unless she’s about the $

I don’t attract my age, always brehs in early and mid twenties. I’m short and look young so it’s expected. Every now and then I do get approached by men in their forties and nah I can’t. Save for a couple, most look their age, I prefer men that look youthful, in addition I don’t place a huge emphasis on a brehs wallet so it’s just not really any reason for me to. But I understand why others date older men.

My friends all like older brehs but it’s always within reason, like a breh that is 3 to 6 years older than they are. And usually it’s because they are more likely to commit and are more stable. But ten years or more is a bit of an age gap, and as often as it gets talked about it on here, I don’t see couples with those extreme age gaps very often.

They're junk looks shriveled up I assume

 

[semicko82]

someone in their early thirties and late twenties yes. But forties? I don’t see those age gap relationships as much as they get talked about on here. Most people date within their age range give or take a few years. A normal 25 year old female is not checking for 40 year old men unless she’s about the $

I don’t attract my age, always brehs in early and mid twenties. I’m short and look young so it’s expected. Every now and then I do get approached by men in their forties and nah I can’t. Save for a couple, most look their age, I prefer men that look youthful, in addition I don’t place a huge emphasis on a brehs wallet so it’s just not really any reason for me to. But I understand why others date older men.

My friends all like older brehs but it’s always within reason, like a breh that is 3 to 6 years older than they are. And usually it’s because they are more likely to commit and are more stable. But ten years or more is a bit of an age gap, and as often as it gets talked about it on here, I don’t see couples with those extreme age gaps very often.

What do you think if the genders are reversed, with significant age gap relationships

 

[kaldurahm]

Honestly though op, if nothing else it's better to stay single but I still think you should try a young girl.

Those issues that you listed are a big deal, if I were to marry a woman with poor attitude, that alone would piss me off

I work with some older women with bad attitudes (40-50+) and man, it's something I don't want to end up with, at all. I wonder how their husbands deal with them

 

[CarmelBarbie]

They're junk looks shriveled up I assume

My friends have told me that the older brehs they’ve been with don’t have the same libido(so they don’t need sex as much) and it takes longer for them to recover after they ejaculate which greatly minimizes the ability to fukk more than one round in one night without it tiring them the fukk out. On the other hand though, my friends also say older men can fukk better than younger men even with those shortcomings. So

What do you think if the genders are reversed, with significant age gap relationships

I don’t think those relationships are common at all. On one hand though they say a woman’s sexual peak is in her thirties and forties, whereas a man’s sexual peak is teens and twenties. But outside of sex, it doesn’t make sense for a young breh to be with an older women, from a fertility standpoint, attraction, and as far commonalities go. A young man doesn’t have anything that a grown women wants either, besides having youthful dikk and being easy to train and control.

In short, I don’t see the point in significant age gap relationships. A younger breh looks better than an older breh, a younger brehette looks better than an older one. Yes older brehs offer stability and better financial situation but they don’t have the good looks, stamina or energy that youthful brehs have, some don’t even have in tact hairlines. they also have baggage from their failed relationships with women. And vice versus—most have already covered the cons in dating older women in this thread so it doesn’t need to be rehashed.

that’s why I honestly just stick to brehs in my age range, we come with the same mileage.

 

[Shadow King]

I stayed alone for 7 years before I found my wife.​

You'll be fine. Don’t worry about finding her. Stay focused on enjoying YOUR life and women will come to you.​

How old were you when you went through that? I think for a lot of men doing that feels, for a lack of a better word, safer in our 20s than 35 or 40-plus.

 

[GhettoTeK]

Yup. It's hard to connect with a younger woman that has little to no life experience but that's where you come in. There are many willing to learn and become a lot more sophisticated.

Older women think simply being a freak in the bedroom will be enough to keep a man because they know they're competing with younger women.

I remember that unfunny light bright comedian said a while back "if you're married to me, I'll suck your dikk every morning", and now everyone sees how crazy she is.

Women have to be led and taught. Anyone who says otherwise has no idea what they're talking about. When they have no direction or get led astray by the wrong man, that's when the bitterness and resentment comes out. A young woman with potential that had the right upbringing will want to be led by a man worthy of leading her. A woman up there in years will be stuck in her ways and won't be trying to hear that.

My friends have told me that the older brehs they’ve been with don’t have the same libido(so they don’t need sex as much) and it takes longer for them to recover after they ejaculate which greatly minimizes the ability to fukk more than one round in one night without it tiring them the fukk out. On the other hand though, my friends also say older men can fukk better than younger men even with those shortcomings. So


I don’t think those relationships are common at all. On one hand though they say a woman’s sexual peak is in her thirties and forties, whereas a man’s sexual peak is teens and twenties. But outside of sex, it doesn’t make sense for a young breh to be with an older women, from a fertility standpoint, attraction, and as far commonalities go. A young man doesn’t have anything that a grown women wants either, besides having youthful dikk and being easy to train and control.

In short, I don’t see the point in significant age gap relationships. A younger breh looks better than an older breh, a younger brehette looks better than an older one. Yes older brehs offer stability and better financial situation but they don’t have the good looks, stamina or energy that youthful brehs have, some don’t even have in tact hairlines. they also have baggage from their failed relationships with women. And vice versus—most have already covered the cons in dating older women in this thread so it doesn’t need to be rehashed.

that’s why I honestly just stick to brehs in my age range, we come with the same mileage.

Well well I do have this one older friend who wants smash I got that nikka on standby

 

[ThrobbingHood]

I wouldn't say a woman in her 20s is any better because they become jaded in HS due to that being the era of when they messed over for the first time and afterwards it becomes a downward spiral

Would you rather have a younger woman that's had a few bad relationships or an older woman that has had multiple bad ones? I know which one is still redeemable.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

What happens when the chick hits your age after you've wifed her? This question is not to throw shade

What do you think happens? There's a large age gap between my parents and they've been married for over 40 years.

You think she's gonna up and leave because he's much older now? People divorce even when they're close to the same age. People claim marriage shouldn't be based on superficial values but then contradict themselves with the same line of thinking.

I can only go by what I've seen growing up and what I see now. Somehow 'moulding' a woman has been conflated with 'controlling'. 'Submitting' is seen as 'weakness'. 'Leadership' is distorted as 'dictatorship'.

A man worthy of leading knows that a worthy woman wants to be under a king. Anyone who thinks otherwise will continue to be in one unhappy combative relationship after another.

But hey.. what do I know?

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Well well I do have this one older friend who wants smash I got that nikka on standby

Oh you're a woman? I see why you made that earlier post. I had a feeling.

 

[Silkk]

Loneliness sucks but it would have to be the only way...

a chick mentally unstable or with bad energy will get you fukked up either career wise, sanity wise, or health wise

And potentially all three

 

[Spotja]

Just a call it a wrap breh. It’s downhill from here on

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

How old were you when you went through that? I think for a lot of men doing that feels, for a lack of a better word, safer in our 20s than 35 or 40-plus.

I was 26-27. Could easily have done it later in life, but I just got fed-up then and focused on me.​