Why do so many men not take care of their kids?

[marcuz]

It's why the simps of the coli who view women as infallible creatures roll over every morning and the only thing they have beside them is a pillow.

:joel: so true

 

[Wild self]

and women have too many options once the seed is planted. which is why it tilts the blame of unwanted childbirths towards the woman.

and dudes can give a girl a fake identity and never see her again. who really has more to lose by not properly vetting their sex partners?

America coddles single mothers and will never make them take accountability for their actions. Plus many of these bum ass dudes are the ones that they lust for and want their b*stard kids to have that "cool" gene. Add the faux religious shyt, and you get this problem.

 

[marcuz]

Nikka stop skewing stats.... Of the Black women who have kids.... 72% of the damn daddies abandoned ship... Yet you wanna use that to say all Black women are sluts...

you're the one skewing stats. its 72% of kids born out of wedlock, that doesn't mean the father "abandoned ship"

y'all have just killed the incentive to get married, so men over all are opting out.

 

[13473]

 

[chief_keef_stan]

let's say i'm dating a guy without kids. i get pregnant and he turns into a bum dad, then how could i know he was going to be a bum dad? women are expected to work, provide childcare, look like models, act like a maid and tell the future? i think you guys are taking terms like "super mom" and "super woman" too literally

so many holes in that argument ma

is he educated?
hows his relationship with his parent/s
what does he do for work
what are his friends like n shyt

I can go on

but it seems alot of these females dont take into account these questions until its too late

 

[Wild self]

lemme keep it 1hunnid real quick.

Lets look at a recent thing I can think of:

Ciara and that nikka future

She knew that nikka had like 7 kids with 7 different baby mamas but thought she would be different

she let that nikka hit raw(really tho some of these women could have a massive warning sign in their face and still do this dum shyt)

nikka probably spit that bullshyt that alot of females believe for some reason had homegirl posting in dresses in magazine shoots like she was actually gonna get married

next thing she know she a single mother and that nikka ran off with some other bytch

I dont usually post in these threads but it is what it is

females gotta do better out here

still aint no excuse for that nikka future nikka boutta go broke just off paying child support

Women see a swagged out dude with baby mamas as "good in the bed" and on top of that, Future's situation makes these bird brain chicks more attracted to him. A small portion of the dudes have an abundance of p*ssy from these dumb females and the men that have their shyt together still have a hard time getting them chicks.

 

[marcuz]

so many holes in that argument ma

is he educated?
hows his relationship with his parent/s
what does he do for work
what are his friends like n shyt

I can go on

but it seems alot of these females dont take into account these questions until its too late

they play dumb. they know exactly who to start searching for after they pop out a few kids.


that's when they're all up in the "good guys" face on some fake humble shyt

 

[13473]

so many holes in that argument ma

is he educated?
hows his relationship with his parent/s
what does he do for work
what are his friends like n shyt

I can go on

but it seems alot of these females dont take into account these questions until its too late

so in order to be a good dad you need:

a college degree
good relationship with your parents
great job
certain type of friends



i can't even say i want this in a boyfriend without causing uproar & men attacking my argument. the job thing is okay to rely on as far as child support

 

[Wild self]

And dare I say...in the black community...believe it or not....there is a very strong resistence to having a male dominate the household at any cost...

In otherwords, some of these [black] women get pregnant on purpose with no intention of ever including the father....because she aint about to have 'no man' tell her how to raise her child...

Underrated post here @Raedawn07 @Colicat

 

[Wild self]

I honestly dont know. I couldnt imagine doing it, if I have kids, he/she is stuck with me forever, and the mom is too. I'm up in they grill trying to get every other weekend.

That's probably why I dont have kids, because I actually view it as a life long commitment and that's scary to me. I float like the wind, and a child will anchor me down for sure. I have MANY women I mess with tell me I'll be a good dad, and I know I will, but the thing is I don't want to have kids WITH THEM. I'm selecting a woman I know I can tolerate forever....or atleast until the child becomes an adult and there's not very many humans I can tolerate for long periods of time as it is thats not blood. Friends I had last year arent close friends this year, but that's life of an expat. So imagining having someone there forever is to me. It's a big deal

but back to the question, females need to stop fukking with nikkas that aint shyt, buying them woof tickets he selling (men are snakes the dikk has a serpent tongue) and get wiser. I mean just look around how can you not know? its like being eve and eating the god damn apple over and over, you see other eves eating the apple and STILL eating the god damn apple and what point do you say "hmmmm that apple is sin and causes chaos maybe I should just chill the fukk out despite my biological clock telling me otherwise"

anyways Im rambling but yea, women are fukking idiots. god forbid there's birth control for men, the population would be cut in half. you stupid broads have access to it and still get pregnant tf is wrong with you.

Male birth control would change the dynamics of mankind itself.

 

[marcuz]

so in order to be a good dad you need:

a college degree
good relationship with your parents
great job
certain type of friends

well it beats picking a man that:

- didn't finish school
- has a poor relationship with his mother and doesn't know his father
- has no legal income
- friends are all degenerates

i can't even say i want this in a boyfriend without causing uproar & men attacking my argument. the job thing is okay to rely on as far as child support

okay, they cause an uproar, then what? unless nikkas want to rape you, they'd have to meet that standard to be with you.

 

[chief_keef_stan]

so in order to be a good dad you need:

a college degree
good relationship with your parents
great job
certain type of friends



i can't even say i want this in a boyfriend without causing uproar & men attacking my argument. the job thing is okay to rely on as far as child support

I never said that to be the case 100%. But the chances of him being responsible are higher if that is the case im saying. Imma keep it real Its basically probability n shyt but Id rather have a 75% chance than a 25% chance. But there is always the chance even at a high probability shyt might not work out . Aint no real nikka gonna clown you for wanting a nikka who got his shyt straight unless you talking about a white boy

 

[Raava]

Underrated post here @Raedawn07 @Colicat

You mean exaggerated?

 

[Wild self]

Ok, but you do realise that the reason nikkas here focus more on women choices is because dead beats are already shamed heavily by society whilst single moms that make bad choices in men are rarely addressed, right?

I dont think the blame should be one sided (obviously both the mother and the father are at fault) but lets keep it 100, every one shames dead beats, the media, celebrities and the rest of general society have been on dead beats asses for 25+ years, yet single moms that make bad choices in men are rarely held accountable in comparison.

Thats why there are so many threads addressing single mother compared to dead beats on this forum and most other male dominated forums, men are beginning to hold single moms accountable because the rest of society wont.

If anything, there needs to be more threads on bad single mothers that are addicted to drama and pain. We are literally the last free thinking human beings that are not censored by the media.

 

[Wild self]

You mean exaggerated?

It is underrated and true.