The question really answers itself. You are essentially asking why are bum men engaging in bum-like behavior. Because that's who they are. The real question is how are these men able to get to the women and have kids in the first plac.
Swag and a dikk game makes these women

They written books about Tupac-like dudes, filled with pointless sex that make these women
about being with a bum nikka that lives out that fantasy
and in an eternal daze.
look if you spoke out on defending ratchet hoes or single mothers that willingly break up the relationship with her kids and the kids' father.
@ this truth that these women downplay 
