Winter is Coming

[godkiller]

Who are you to tell women that their experiences are unimportant in the grand scheme of life? Are you a black woman? What makes you an authority on what is and is not a "huge problem" for black women?

Just because c00ns' nonsense is important to one black woman doesn't mean it is a black woman issue or that it is somehing that all black women experience. Moreover a person's experiencing something doesn't make said something worth discussing. A dumb person will experience poor marks in school; that doesn't mean we have to change school in order to accomdate dummies.

Stop trying to tell women what their experiences are and how they should feel about them and start listening. If that's too hard then shut the hell up. It's not that hard to listen, or decline to listen while keeping your own trap shut.

Your thoughts, opinions, and perceptions are irrelevant to the experiences that many black American women can relate to. And if that is too difficult of a concept to understand, then stay out of the conversation as it is unproductive for you to jump in.

I've listened. Not all black women American feel the need to worship cacs and juxtapose c00nery as a reason to worship them (totally nonsensical but bear with it). In fact most black American women do not have the aforementioned "experience". It's just some mentally ill ones with an axe to grind. I could do the same thing as @WHIPPEDCream and say I love white women because black women actually rate black men as the lowest desirable male group (contrary to their claims otherwise). But instead I am pro-black and focus on advocating pro-black strategy, talk and action.

 

[iBrowse]

How did your date order the steak

I see you friend...inquiring minds would like to know

 

[Audemar]

@DrX get in here b.

 

[Raava]

@ smilie

Behind every bitter man, 9 times out of 10, there is a : "bad b*tch", his crush(es) that rejected/ignored him, or the wrong girl he simped

 

[WHIPPEDCream]

Before I even presented the "evidence," for my argument these men weren't prepared to listen.They already knew they were going to be against what I had to say.

They think they have the dictatorship on what is considered a problem for black women even though they are not black women themselves.

This is why this dialogue will NEVER be able to be had between black men & black women.When black men complain about their problems,a black women never tells that black men his issues are not a big deal & that x,y, & z happen to everyone.She sympathizes with him & is on his side.& These men feel some type of way when I say only support black women.

 

[PeridotPuss]

Yesterday.

I asked her on a date and she just laughed and walked away.

#uglyawkwardnikkaproblems

 

[onelastdeath]

@ smilie

Behind every bitter man, 9 times out of 10, there is a : "bad b*tch", his crush(es) that rejected him, or the wrong girl he simped

What's your definition of a bitter man Rae?

 

[Ooh Marty]

I bet OP feels like a jerk now lmao

@physics1

Not really.

 

[The Mad Titan]

@DrX get in here b.

 

[Shadow King]

A conversation? Like last month probably.

Approach? My first and only "cold" approach was in May. My awkwardness is one of my glaring flaws so it was naturally a fail. It felt nice to do it though.

 

[Action Mike]

I guess you prefer I get articles from JSTOR huh?

You know, whether you men care or not doesn't matter.I knew the type of response I was going to get.But when I talk to black women, they know EXACTLY what I am talking about & that is truly all that matters.

I don't need your advice.My self-esteem in intact.

"You're doing the most with this sh*t"

& I will CONTINUE to do the most for black women.

But if I was talking about the struggles of black men,I wouldn't be doing the "most." the jokes write themselves each & every time

What advice are you giving bw?

 

[Sk3ptical]

not really, just gave her my lunch order and handed her my money

 

[physics1]

I notice that the main guys that say these types of things arent bad looking men....are u kind of awkward?

Yes! I'm extremely awkward!

 

[-DMP-]

I text my mommy today, does that count?

 

[Ooh Marty]

Interacting with females is overrated

the beginning.