You seem like a straight up dude so imma put you on some quick late night game, plucking at women's emotions to control them or obtain emotion or loyalty from them is ultimately a losing game. Unless you got a lot of money, in which case it's not your "game" it's your financial security. Play with a bytch emotions she'll be pressed for a minute but then she either gonna fukk you up on some pushed over the edge shyt or replace you

the older you get, you'll understand why neither is appealing.
Point blank you want bytches pressed out they mind? Make yourself the very best man you can be and then make every decision with yourself first and let the chips fall where they may. Women can't shake nikkas who have something untouchable (the untouchableNess is your confidence on your ability to live how you want) and they like something slightly difficult to control because control is a part of the female world. All this mind game shyt just leads to 30 something outdated simps dealing with lower and lower quality women. See the long view

and feel free to take or leave this advice, just dropping a female perspective