Winter is Coming

[EndDomination]

I'd suggest dropping her as quickly as you can and jumping back into the dating game
You're too young to be burning chances at having good sex while in a relationship with a woman who isn't reciprocating your sexual feelings.
Why are you two still together?
It actually does sound like she may be having sex with someone else.
Get away while you can, don't stretch out the torture any longer.

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

edit: nvm..

 

[Dixon Cider]

edit: nvm..

Oh?

 

[Raava]

I think we need input from the resident Coli females but in my opinion this doesn't look good at all.

@CinnaSlim
@LovelyDay
@Phoenix_Knightly23
@Raedawn07
@Elle Driver

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There is an issue he needs to talk to her about and if nothing is explained, resolved and/or improved after that leave.

 

[Jesus]

Either take it or break up with her....

 

[dynamik]

Breh, i'm not trying to be overly "Coli" in my response, but... If your girl does not fukk you and give you oral... she DOES NOT respect you. Period. You are living in a proverbial prison. And what for? Do you have kids? Even if you do, maintain your self respect and dignity as a man and LEAVE. This is coming from an old(er) head who's been through some shyt.

No lie. My woman wakes me up several times a week by sucking my d1ck to completion. And when she's done she whispers the words "victory" to herself. NO LIE. When I want it, I simply roll over, pull her panties down, and full mount. She makes sure she's wet. For that, I love and respect the fukk out of her and would do anything for her. And she does for me. I also told her in no uncertain terms... "the day you stop fukking me is the day you've given me the green light to fukk someone else." No Lie. I know my value as a man and will settle for nothing less than I deserve. No Lie.

-out

 

[Dixon Cider]

All relationships are open.






































There is an issue he needs to talk to her about and if nothing is explained, resolved and/or improved after that leave.

What is there left to talk about I went to counseling with her and the entire session ended up being about how I should be able t
Smoke weed without her worrying about it and the Doctor agreed. As soon as I get to the sex part ..

Welp that's all the time
For today next session we can discuss again

 

[Yesterday]

women aren't?

I seen chicks with degrees and good jobs being with nikkas that they have to beg to put gas back into the car after they get finished driving or have to take time out of their day to look for a job for him.

Just because a chick has a degree doesn't mean she's above a dude without one. I know a chick with a degree from Washington whose Insecurity and personality couldn't pull a dude with a degree from devry.

The problem I feel is that women may "settle" after they start to recognize their decline. To me that's not settling. Old p*ssy has very little value. I'm talking women in their prime who won't entertain dudes who they don't feel are top percentile. All the dudes I know are achievers who who are well rounded and cook etc, settling for hoes who can't turn on a stove.

 

[Dixon Cider]

Breh, i'm not trying to be overly "Coli" in my response, but... If your girl does not fukk you and give you oral... she DOES NOT respect you. Period. You are living in a proverbial prison. And what for? Do you have kids? Even if you do, maintain your self respect and dignity as a man and LEAVE. This is coming from an old(er) head who's been through some shyt.

No lie. My woman wakes me up several times a week by sucking my d1ck to completion. And when she's done she whispers the words "victory" to herself. NO LIE. When I want it, I simply roll over, pull her panties down, and full mount. She makes sure she's wet. For that, I love and respect the fukk out of her and would do anything for her. And she does for me. I also told her in no uncertain terms... "the day you stop fukking me is the day you've given me the green light to fukk someone else." No Lie. I know my value as a man and will settle for nothing less than I deserve. No Lie.

-out

I mean yea that's all alpha male and all but this is happening to me at a vulnerable point
In my life and a point in my life where im open to start a family and behaviors that just werent there for the longest time.

 

[Raava]

What is there left to talk about I went to counseling with her and the entire session ended up being about how I should be able t
Smoke weed without her worrying about it and the Doctor agreed. As soon as I get to the sex part ..

Welp that's all the time
For today next session we can discuss again

If you are in a relationship that is to the point of counseling before you are even married walk away.

 

[Dixon Cider]

This.

Your girl supposed to be fiending for the D. Even if yall on the outs and she mad and hates you at the moment, she should still crave that D.

I'm guessing OP never stroked it right to begin with, and then when shyt got bad it was easy for the gf to just shut down completely.

I would beat her guts when she would start fussing and she loved that shyt. She used to be down with all of it. Recording etc smokin blunts while she sucked me fukking outside at night in public. She don't even want me in the same bed. I wake up get a peck and a goodybye for work and see her later after work with bytching of why I ate this or that in the kitchen.

 

[CinnaSlim]

Is this the dude that lets his white girl call him nikka?

Why are you so scared of being single? So scared you that you give up your dignity?

 

[Dixon Cider]

Is this the dude that lets his white girl call him nikka?

Why are you so scared of being single? So scared you that you give up your dignity?

Not scared more like too invested, time-financially etc

 

[dynamik]

I mean yea that's all alpha male and all but this is happening to me at a vulnerable point
In my life and a point in my life where im open to start a family and behaviors that just werent there for the longest time.

Breh, please dont take this the wrong way. I'm being sincere. But if you aren't an alpha male, then you shouldn't be allowed to enter the gene pool. Most other species got it right on this one. This situation will NEVER resolve to your satisfaction. Even if she changes, it will not be enough to fulfill you because when a woman checks out.... 99.9% of them time, theres no coming back for them. On the other side of this, you'll be so thankful that you K.I.M. How old are you BTW?

 

[The Mad Titan]

If you are in a relationship that is to the point of counseling before you are even married walk away.

This

I can't quote this enough.

I understand being loyal, I'm mad loyal to a fault also alot of times.


But dont waste your time trying to fix something that broken so badly already. I haven't read any of the rest of the thread so I dont know anymore details but breh if you are legit trying and trying to talk and went to counseling all before marriage and nothing still hasn't changed....


Go ahead and move on.