I can't man.....Living in Canada she understands racial dynamics more than me

I can't man.....
Laugh all you want but i have caught too many hypcorites on this site to know that many of you are full of crap.
I can't man.....
Living in Canada she understands racial dynamics more than me![]()
WerdI can't man.....
Living in Canada she understands racial dynamics more than me![]()

You say that yet you dont see the hypocrisy from the women who date out lol.Laugh all you want but i have caught too many hypcorites on this site to know taht many of you are full of crap.
I don't see the hypcorisy at all because these women arent trying to save the black community. They want to have families with men who will value them. Many find it in bm others in non black men. Simple.Werd
She would never last in the South
You say that yet you dont see the hypocrisy from the women who date out lol.
Where did I ever say this?I don't see the hypcorisy at all because these women arent trying to save the black community. They want to have families with men who will value them. Many find it in bm others in non black men. Simple.
Y'all want me to pretend that black women can only be with bm and bm can be with whomever they please and still be down for the cause. To this i call BS...
I'm saying all men act dumb and do silly shyt in the name of getting some ass. Even if your sons have a great father or father figure around letting them know that chasing and getting p*ssy in middle and high school isn't a big deal, and that you need to focus on doing what you have to do, to be able to do what you want to do, they're still going to do dumb shyt to try and get p*ssy every now and then.
I'm sorry to break it to you but your sons aren't going to be above that while they're growing up, no matter how great and or advanced you think they are. If they like women, they're going to do dumb shyt to get them drawls. If girls are into guys who wear dunce caps, then guess what your sons are going to ask you to buy them.
Don't worry though the culture is changing. You won't have to worry about them trying to be thugged out, just emo af. So you're good.
Yet you claim to understand race relations better than meThe us is the only country in the world where race is relevant dummie.


Being flimsy with your dikk needs to stop being a normalized behavior. Women get shamed for it, maybe men should too, although I doubt that would solve it. Like I said, it's internalized value. If you don't see the value in sharing your time, space, energy, body, and life with someone who you don't see a future with then you need to take responsibility for that. If a man thinks getting a quick nut is more valuable than a long term relationship with someone he sees a future with (marriage, kids), then he needs to do some soul searching. He clearly places value on the wrong thing, but society isn't geared that way. Men have the luxury of time. With the black community, we cannot afford to let these behaviors slide since they are clearly destructive. We need more strong black families to lead the charge and empower us.
U nikkas should write novels, the way u love to indulge in fantasy.AGAIN, she or no female sisterhood poster answered the question. So I might as well.
Prior to Obama, the superthug dark skin nikka with a mouthpiece, and the rap sheet of a felon and the suave of a sleek businessman is what was desired among black women, on which the media catered to. Even after Obama got elected, they tone down on the hypermasculine negative image, but still want a light skinned breh with tats and the ability to party all day and night like a Chris Brown.
Thank you.
Good luck controlling your Johnson so you can be a positive example for the black community.
U nikkas should write novels, the way u love to indulge in fantasy.
Like Kanye West & Kid Cudi weren't popping long before 2008.
Then in another thread u will be crying about how black women only fukk with thugs.
Elle, could you really imagine explaining the bolded to a 14 y/o boy who lives for trying to get his dikk wet?
I do a lot for the black community or at least mine. Think globally and act locally. I chop it up with legit little street nikkas and let them know about all the legal options they have to put their enterprising spirits to good use. I just sent a nice chunk of change to a little homie to help him out of a bad situation so he wouldn't do something stupid to get the bread. I could go on and on about things I've done for people I'm not even related to in my old hood, just out of the love I have for my people but it would be in bad taste. Please don't try and cut me down just because we disagree on something.
As far as "controlling my johnson", I haven't had problems controlling it in years. I still slang it around because I haven't found a woman I feel is right to try and start a long term relationship with yet. I guess we all can't be as lucky as you.
First, you should never say most because you don't have any stats to back up your statement, instead say many. Second, I've been told personally by women in the past I wasn't live enough for them when I was younger, and I did all the ignorant hood shyt under the sun outside of shooting people and beating women.
Street nikkas have been glorified in music and movies and sought after by women in the black community for years and it's done serious damage to us as a people. I'm not saying all our problems are because of this, I'm just saying it is part of the problem.(culture is changing though) If you can't see that, I'm cool on this conversation because we obviously live in two different America's







So a man who doesn't see your worth is automatically a thug?:reallykid:
I just wish you guys would stop being so disingenuous and putting all the blame on black women.
I've been here long enough and have read enough posts to come to the realization that a lot of you do not know how to treat women.
You will lie and sneak your way into sex and if she holds out, she's automatically bushed.
So by your logic, a woman who dates this guy and ends up getting burned was dating a thug.:disnikka:
sweetheart, there are plenty corporate, suited up nikkas that aint shyt.
the same way a degree and socioeconomic status doesn't stop a woman from being a hoe.<-- yall words, not mine![]()