so we not gonna blame the shallowness of society for this?
:rocky:Society isn't shallow for not wanting to date a woman with 4 kids. We didn't make those kids. She and some other dude did.
Where is he? Society been pushing for "Being strong" for long enough with the "independence" movement and now is her opportunity to be that
strong woman for her kids.
When she had kids, she knowingly created a situation in which *her* happiness is secondary to the children. They matter. If she can't find a man, that
was something to consider before the kids. Back in '09, I had a $13,000 scholarship to go to college...and 2 terms in a row I threw my responsibilities to keep
my grades up to the bushes, so today in 2015 im still paying off some of them loans. I made that decision and it had long term effects.
She had not one, but 4 kids. To be real, most men don't care too much about being their girls "first" sexually, but being the man to give her her first child?
Thats sacred. She already been there, done that, and she may say "no more" to the next guy...so he is better off letting her finish her tour of duty as a mother
and getting with a chick who didn't get knocked up with a quad-burger of kids. Life isn't fair in a lot of aspects, but she asked for this when she had them.
The potential the father would not be around due to divorce or death...thats assuming its all by the same man. Any chance at happiness ain't her concern.
Care for them kids you decided to birth.