Winter is Coming

[WHIPPEDCream]

you dont know what you want to say cus you keep flipping. you want to be valued and promoted like non black women, but you dont know how to get around the smoke screen to admit it.

& Now you in here trying to give me this same old, retired ass bull sh*t that I'm envious & validated.Are you f*cking kidding me?Because I want respect as a dark skin women in the black community,I'm envious?

I don't value what black men find beautiful & I don't think any black woman should.Black women must define their own beauty.

 

[Larry Lambo]

Women aren't socialized to crack jokes and create humor like men are. As a boy, by the time you finished middle school you had better learn how to crack a joke or you were ostracized.

It wasn't the same environment for girls. All they had to do was giggle at some unfunny sh*t.

 

[WHIPPEDCream]

So this happened(multiple times):

The true argument of this debate got lost.I am not sure why y'all are comparing women,I am not referring to who is getting "chose." All of these women posted in this thread will have male suitors.The argument is about how black men feel like they can talk about dark skin black women in any ol' kind of way & act like they are superior to them.

Then this was said:

No amount of mental gymnastics changes the fact that you're simply just arguing over a difference in attention.

 

[(Lean Ambrose)]

keep in mind, her BEST example of this disrespect is the same 4-5 rap lyrics

I know...

 

[marcuz]

& Now you in here trying to give me this same old, retired ass bull sh*t that I'm envious & validated.Are you f*cking kidding me?Because I want respect as a dark skin women in the black community,I'm envious?

I don't value what black men find beautiful & I don't think any black woman should.Black women must define their own beauty.

but you are clearly envious of the promotion and value other women have over black women, or you wouldn't be bytching about this supposed pedestal light skinned women are placed on. without running to the same 5 rap lyrics, how are black women being disrespected by black men?

women are incapable of defining their own beauty standard. sorry to inform you, but your beauty will ALWAYS be determined by men. let BW try to define their own beauty standards, and y'all will start putting up the alek weks and gabourey sidibes of the world--basically anyone that will allow ALL black women to look beautiful by contrast.

 

[M'gann]

Educated guess.

 

[Rozay Oro]

kent is good with color but he said nikkas should stop talking about his 03 attire

I pray the day this nikka start a video saying

Spoiler

"

"

 

[WHIPPEDCream]

im deflecting? you typed all that in response to a simple question. who is the ideal black woman to black women?

You've skipped over everything I've said thus far and want me to answer your unrelated questions to take off the heat from black men.You know I'm right & I know i'm right, but I'll play along with you.

Black men love dark skin women so much! I've never seen a group of women treated so lovely like dark skin black women.Black men love dark skin!They constantly praise it and never say things like you are "pretty for a dark skin girl," which implies that most dark skin girls are ugly.I don't know any dark skin black girl who has ever heard that in her life.

 

[joeychizzle]

I know nikkas on the bus stop who get bytches. I know nikkas in BMWs who get no bytches. There will always be somebody else in a newer and more luxurious car, it's a losers game tryna be king of the parking lot when new models come out every few months. Just be the best you that you can be. If you got a bus pass, keep your shoes clean. If you got a car with hubcaps, keep them hubcaps clean.

Can we just stop for a second and appreciate how fukking real this post is?

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Black women get dealt the "easier hand," in both a racist & sexist society.

Black women get treated like
shyt cause they are BLACK not cause of one of the 2 or both. The name of the game is race.

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Men don't like ugly chicks.. Just as women do not mess with short men..

I honestly didn't know how this short man shyt was a such a big deal before joining the Coli. But I guess being 5'10 1/2, I missed some of the shyt others went through growing up.

 

[marcuz]

You've skipped over everything I've said thus far and want me to answer your unrelated questions to take off the heat from black men.You know I'm right & I know i'm right, but I'll play along with you.

Black men love dark skin women so much! I've never seen a group of women treated so lovely like dark skin black women.Black men love dark skin!They constantly praise it and never say things like you are "pretty for a dark skin girl," which implies that most dark skin girls are ugly.I don't know any dark skin black girl who has ever heard that in her life.

but you've already gone on record, admitting you have no problem getting black men, and you often find yourself rejecting them.

 

[Kenny West]

So this happened(multiple times):


Then this was said:

You're still trying to dance around it with fallacious arguements. Any woman can be disrespected, all races of women get called bytches, sluts and hoes (white feminists coined the term slut shaming) but in your world it's only dark skin women. Just stop dawg

Black women are the only ones who get away with calling us nikkas. This disrespect is an important issue killing our collective self esteem.

 

[WHIPPEDCream]

but you are clearly envious of the promotion and value other women have over black women, or you wouldn't be bytching about this supposed pedestal light skinned women are placed on. without running to the same 5 rap lyrics, how are black women being disrespected by black men?

women are incapable of defining their own beauty standard. sorry to inform you, but your beauty will ALWAYS be determined by men. let BW try to define their own beauty standards, and y'all will start putting up the alek weks and gabourey sidibes of the world--basically anyone that will allow ALL black women to look beautiful by contrast.

I am NOT envious because I think dark skin black women should be respected. So because a person wants respect, they're jealous & envious?That's the best you got?

& Black women are NOT incapable of defining their own beauty because they HAVE to.If black women confirmed to a black man's ideal of beauty,they would all be running around trying to look like Zendaya.They have no other option BUT to.A black woman should not EVER look to a black man to see what is beautiful, nor the world at large.

You clearly don't understand where I'm coming from.I don't give a f*ck how much black men fall at the feet of women who look like Zendaya, Paula Patton,etc.Because I don't give a f*ck what black men find beautiful.& That is another problem with Rashida.She still cares about what black men find beautiful.MY PROBLEM is the disrespect that dark skin black women receive from black men.

 

[WHIPPEDCream]

You're still trying to dance around it with fallacious arguements. Any woman can be disrespected, all races of women get called bytches, sluts and hoes (white feminists coined the term slut shaming) but in your world it's only dark skin women. Just stop dawg

Black women are the only ones who get away with calling us nikkas. This disrespect is an important issue killing our collective self esteem.

You men are so typical.Another classic example of a black man generalizing the issues of black women. "All women go through that, hey what about black men too?" & therefore dismissing her issue & making it out to be non existent.