Just because c00ns' nonsense is important to one black woman doesn't mean it is a black woman issue or that it is somehing that all black women experience. Moreover a person's experiencing something doesn't make said something worth discussing. A dumb person will experience poor marks in school; that doesn't mean we have to change school in order to accomdate dummies.
I've listened. Not all black women American feel the need to worship cacs and juxtapose c00nery as a reason to worship them (totally nonsensical but bear with it). In fact most black American women do not have the aforementioned "experience". It's just some mentally ill ones with an axe to grind. I could do the same thing as
@WHIPPEDCream and say I love white women because black women actually rate black men as the lowest desirable male group (contrary to their claims otherwise). But instead I am pro-black and focus on advocating pro-black strategy, talk and action.
Who said anything about black women worshipping white men? That is not what the discussion is about. I don't support black people in interracial relationships so let us get back on topic.
The relationship between black American women and black American men is what I am commenting on. The dismissal of the feelings of black women by black men is what I am commenting on.
This is not third grade. We should not need to add disclaimers to every comment. I should not need to state that all black women do not have the same experience, and all black men are not arrogant a$$holes who think they have a right to tell black women how they should process their experiences. It should be obvious that no one is speaking in absolutes.
I didn't even grow up around black people, yet I know exactly why these sentiments are present. If you are pro black then one of your goals should be to push towards healing and not division. Your dismissive attitude and those who are like you are not productive. It just opens the doors for black women to be tricked and lured by snakes who see the problem, and come slithering in with that, "you are so beautiful and I appreciate you...." tactic.
Now if you would like to discuss why some black women are foolishly being led to white men, we can have that discussion, provided that you are willing to discuss the role that the attitudes and actions of some black men have played in this.
Otherwise, the topic is the validity of black women's experiences and why it's necessary for black men to stop being dismissive.