Winter is Coming

[(Lean Ambrose)]

My shorty before I went to work...

 

[Rozay Oro]

awww.. I really have a desire to hug u now. Is this inception?

Nah its sympathy, too bad thats all breh would get if you even did it. IRL youll just say "awww" while breh shaking in his boots just to end another empty handed day.

 

[concise]

The last time a approach a female was February of 2014, I have never hugged a female though to be completely honest

 

[Citi Trends]

no, that's your imagination

 

[Mac Casper]

Y'all some chumps

 

[Gravity]

Black men's issues and black women's issues are the same. The difference is in how it sometimes manifests. The sooner that is realized, the better for us all.

Family is the foundation of a strong nation. When that is broken, then everything else goes down the drain.

If black women are not loved, cherished, provided for and protected then that impacts the current and next generation. If black men are not encouraged, loved, supported, and allowed to behave responsibly, then that impacts black women, which impacts the children, which continues a cycle.

How people fail to see this is astounding. It would be different if this were new but after centuries of history to reflect upon, we've had enough time to figure out the divide and conquer tactic and how it is detrimental.

There should never be a discussion on whose issues are more important as the issues are one in the same.

I completely agree, but as a self proclaimed black women then this is the message that you should be sending to other black women who adopt black feminist type ideologies. I never see other black women challenging black feminism. The Sotomayors get called out on our side.

 

[onelastdeath]

Not gonna front ive always got to know the girls ive been with first, not really into approaching. How you do it mane at places for quality women?

The biggest rule I follow, is to just get over your fear. Remember that every girl you meet for the first time is looking at you like you're a stranger, but for some reason nikkas who get rejected always take it personal. The other thing to remember is that the worst thing that you could possibly get is a "no". Nothing more. After you accept those two things, its easy. Be well dressed. Be confident. Don't mumble. Make eye contact.

 

[Rozay Oro]

A conversation? Like last month probably.

Approach? My first and only "cold" approach was in May. My awkwardness is one of my glaring flaws so it was naturally a fail. It felt nice to do it though.

Just start making small talk with anybody, but dont be asking Q after Q, share shyt, and comment too. You can break the mold

 

[Street Knowledge]

A lot of young guys just don't put themselves out there and have a "if it happens, it happens" mindset when it comes to dating

 

[Sassy]

ooop -sips tea- I know this thread is gonna be good because people are going to get in their feels - hard.

 

[AAKing23]

I respect some of the peoples honesty in this thread

As long as you real with people in my experience you won't get clowned People respect that I'm a virgin and I haven't gotten any flack about that shyt in real life, people are mostly in disbelief if anything especially women

 

[physics1]

I know it's bad.

 

[Action Mike]

its true

ive got my opinions, but you cant be bitter out here and win

 

[AAKing23]

A lot of young guys just don't put themselves out there and have a "if it happens, it happens" mindset when it comes to dating

That's my exact mindset lol

 

[FukyourFort]

We have so many cool people on the coli. Certs...six figures....girls. you got it all op



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