Winter is Coming

[Dwolf]

How do we know the moon is legit and not a government hologram to monitor us at night?

Questions we need answers for

 

[Lord_Chief_Rocka]

....stop this. Any person on this planet can be an abuser lol.

But he's right. Poverty and violence have a strong positive correlation

 

[.༼-◕_◕-༽.]

But he's right. Poverty and violence have a strong positive correlation

Not in domestic violence.

 

[.༼-◕_◕-༽.]

Sorry about my rants. That's one of my biggest pet peeves is that self-limiting belief that if you are from the hood you can't be or do anything else.

fukk that! Black people are beautiful intelligent and interesting.

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Back to domestic violence (and this goes for any sex)

Cluster B personality disorders: Narcissistic PD, Borderline PD, and Antisocial PD (which includes Sociopaths and Psychopaths) can be very dangerous.

Sociopaths are usually the kinds of people who don't fit in, and are on the fringes of society. They usually were victims of an abusive upbringing.

Psychopaths are the opposite. They are charming and usually successful. They are able to gain trust and disarm people easily.

Both have a lack of empathy and no sense of guilt or remorse.

ALL OF THIS!!!!

 

[Lord_Chief_Rocka]

Least likely according to.......?

So a "thug" (which I'm disgusted y'all even use that word) is more capable of being abusive based on what? First of all, this pathology within our own communities that somehow there are good and black men is ridiculous and needs to stop. What makes a man a good guy, because he has a "good" job and was able to escape the system and go to college and didn't caught up with drugs? Why are black nerds better exactly, since you clearly advocate so strongly for them?

Y'all keep saying this shyt Of course all types of people can be abusive but...

It is a fact the violence and poverty are positively correlated. Education and violence are negatively correlated. So yes men coming from the hood tend to be more violent. The major problem is poverty black people are not more inherently violent than other groups..

 

[.༼-◕_◕-༽.]

Y'all keep saying this shyt Of course all types of people can be abusive but...

It is a fact the violence and poverty are positively correlated. Education and violence are negatively correlated. So yes men coming from the hood tend to be more violent. The major problem is poverty black people are not more inherently violent than other groups..

Here you go playboy:

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/dome...ealthy-hides-behind-‘veil-of-silence’.356773/

 

[CinnaSlim]

Abuse happens in affluent areas it's usually not reported and hushed up with money and contracts.

 

[Lord_Chief_Rocka]

Here you go playboy:

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/dome...ealthy-hides-behind-‘veil-of-silence’.356773/

I feel you. Like I said "all types of people can be abusive"

Does the article map out the levels of DV bbased on income and education levels? I read it tomorrow

 

[Lord_Chief_Rocka]

Abuse happens in affluent areas it's usually not reported and hushed up with money and contracts.

I mean this very well maybe true, but aren't you just speculating? That's a very hard thing to measure

 

[.༼-◕_◕-༽.]

The chart below is a way of looking at the behaviors abusers use to get and keep control in their relationships. Battering is a choice. It is used to gain power and control over another person. Physical abuse is only one part of a system of abusive behaviors.

Abuse is never a one time event.

This chart uses the wheel to show the relationship of physical abuse to other forms of abuse. Each part shows a way to control or gain power.

What is Abuse? - A Warning List


Many people who are being abused do not see themselves as victims. Also, abusers do not see themselves as being abusive. People often think of domestic violence as physical violence, such as hitting. However, domestic violence takes other forms, such as psychological, emotional, or sexual abuse.

Domestic violence is about one person in a relationship using a pattern of behaviors to control the other person. It can happen to people who are married or not married; heterosexual, gay, or lesbian; living together, separated, or dating.

If your partner repeatedly uses one or more of the following to control you;

• pushing, hitting, slapping, choking, kicking, or biting
• threatening you, your children, other family members or pets
• threatening suicide to get you to do something
• using or threatening to use a weapon against you
• keeping or taking your paycheck
• puts you down or makes you feel bad
• forcing you to have sex or to do sexual acts you do not want or like
• keeping you from seeing your friends, family or from going to work

YOU HAVE BEEN ABUSED!!

Remember threatened or actual physical violence may be illegal. Consider calling the police for help

Resources

 

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This is the equality wheel. It's important for BOTH partners to practice healthy relationship habits.

Infograph

 

[Strawberry]

u seem fun to hang with, ill give u that but like i told @Juicy ....ur confusing bubbly with the other things....you're bubbly, i like bubbly women tho...

Wait what? I'm confused.

This whole damn mashup merger thread is confusing too.


Who's in charge of this train wreck?


I searched my name in this thread and found 102 posts


I was wondering where the thread with me dancing on my head went...

 

[Real N Quotes]

The chart below is a way of looking at the behaviors abusers use to get and keep control in their relationships. Battering is a choice. It is used to gain power and control over another person. Physical abuse is only one part of a system of abusive behaviors.

Abuse is never a one time event.

This chart uses the wheel to show the relationship of physical abuse to other forms of abuse. Each part shows a way to control or gain power.

What is Abuse? - A Warning List


Many people who are being abused do not see themselves as victims. Also, abusers do not see themselves as being abusive. People often think of domestic violence as physical violence, such as hitting. However, domestic violence takes other forms, such as psychological, emotional, or sexual abuse.

Domestic violence is about one person in a relationship using a pattern of behaviors to control the other person. It can happen to people who are married or not married; heterosexual, gay, or lesbian; living together, separated, or dating.

If your partner repeatedly uses one or more of the following to control you;

• pushing, hitting, slapping, choking, kicking, or biting
• threatening you, your children, other family members or pets
• threatening suicide to get you to do something
• using or threatening to use a weapon against you
• keeping or taking your paycheck
• puts you down or makes you feel bad
• forcing you to have sex or to do sexual acts you do not want or like
• keeping you from seeing your friends, family or from going to work

YOU HAVE BEEN ABUSED!!

Remember threatened or actual physical violence may be illegal. Consider calling the police for help

There is a flip side to this coin as well. If a woman is the abuser and the man snaps.

Still there is no excuse for domestic violence . It is a serious problem.

IMO it's more of a gun violence issue overall in the community

 

[jwonder]

Stop picking black dudes because you like his Jordan's or his swag.

 

[Mugenight]

Well that's too bad.