Winter is Coming

[DrX]

Lol y'all must hang around some low down how's....because I haven't met any of these women

 

[Ghostface Trillah]

But why? Why can't black women respect themselves?

These chicks come from nothing. when you come up poor you equate money with happiness and lets be honest. most of these chicks have nothing but their looks and a wardrobe. they can fall back on that. clothes is butter and looks fade. easiest way for these chicks to have a future is to hitch their wagon to a baller. he's gonna slide them money on the low and if she has a kid. its the equivalent of winning the lottery.

 

[Blessup]

broads don't want to work- they want the safety and security they can get from someone else's financial well being. Even if he's only giving her a tiny portion of it. Gold digging at its finest. These broads is escorting and don't even know it

they have nothing and come from nothing - I've seen ballers fly broads cross country just to get sex from them and I've watched them same chicks call in sick from work or just straight up quit and drop all they're responsibilities just to do it. They get a few instagram pics of random spots in his crib and a pic of the first class ticket and come back home with some pocket change. These broads escorting and don't even know it.

the love the status- to the baller she's a side chick, to her friends and people she knows. She's the only chick they know of. Yeah a NBA star flew her up for a game...out of 82 of them. He came to her town and got her and her bff courtside seats they wouldn't of ever been able to afford. Then they hung out with him and his crew after the game popping bottles and getting fukked.He slides her $300 for a $40 cab ride home in the morning. These broads escorting and don't even know it.

in closing, These broads would rather escort for rich clientele instead of have a traditional man,marriage,and support system but you can't call them escorts or gold diggers cause they'll take offense to the truth.

This is the truth. Some broads would rather a have a piece of the man of their dreams, then have a traditional man/marriage. That lifestyle is exciting to them and like you said if they have a kid from that ball player its like "hitting the lottery." Not everyone is cut out for a traditional lifestyle.

But honestly can you blame them? A lot of times traditional married women are sharing their traditional married man as well. Especially in the black community. In this day and age, If a black man has a somewhat decent job/profession, its not unusual for him to have a sidepiece or two...

 

[flusterose]

glad i dont have this complex. and most of the girls i know also dont think like this.

 

[MewTwo]

^ Right....

 

[havoc]

I thought this was well known that most women of all colors love ballers.

 

[blackzeus]

Very good article about today's black women:

http://morganthewriter.com/2013/02/19/black-women-and-the-concubine-complex/

According to the New Oxford American Dictionary, the word “concubine” means (in polygamous societies), “a woman who lives with a man but has lower status than his wife or wives; a mistress. It’s synonyms include mistress, courtesan, kept woman, lover, paramour, doxy, and hetaera.

One of the pro-Black Facebook pages I’m subscribed to on Facebook wrote something that piqued my interest, and it’s very unfortunate that I can’t remember the specific page and words used, but I remember the crux of the message was that All-Star Weekend was on the horizon, so many Black women would be dolling themselves up, putting on their sexiest dresses and highest heels, all in hopes to land a “baller,” even though many of the athletes would only use them as jump-offs. The page told Black women they were worth much more that they believed they were, instead of some athlete’s or rich man’s whore; instead, they should focus on trying being someone’s wife.

I remember reading this a while back, and it really resonated with me. Not only was the message very positive, but it also sparked much thought. I wondered why some Black women would rather be the whore of a high-status man than a regular guy’s wife. I spend some time contemplating it, and I thought about some history behind this phenomenon, which I dubbed the “Concubine Complex,” and I think I have some theories behind it.

Before I begin analyzing the Concubine Complex, I’d like to point out that it isn’t only Black women who act in this way. There are women of all groups who do this, but for now, I’m addressing Black women, since as you all will soon see, the Concubine Complex is prevalent in our own community.

This author has never hung out with the following ethnic groups:

Koreans
Chinese
Vietnamese
Dominicans
Colombians
Argentines
Greeks
Italians
Persian

It's not a black thing, it's a female thing. B*tch azz nikkaz love to blame their own shortcomings on race.

 

[Reality]

This author has never hung out with the following ethnic groups:

Koreans
Chinese
Vietnamese
Dominicans
Colombians
Argentines
Greeks
Italians
Persian

It's not a black thing, it's a female thing. B*tch azz nikkaz love to blame their own shortcomings on race.

This is like the default defense response when you point out painful truth. The baddest Korean, Chinese, Vietnamese, etc women are not foregoing marriage to be flown out by ballers. Yeah, they may slut it up just like black chicks, but at the the end of the day they actually settle down. Black women who engage in this behavior don't settle down. How many Korean, Chinese, etc athletes do you know in the first place? That's why your comparison falls on its face. Yeah, there's well off Koreans, Chinese, etc men, but they're's not an entire established league of them with a schedule that can be followed by the gold-diggers and attention whores.

 

[blackzeus]

This is like the default defense response when you point out painful truth. The baddest Korean, Chinese, Vietnamese, etc women are not foregoing marriage to be flown out by ballers. Yeah, they may slut it up just like black chicks, but at the the end of the day they actually settle down. Black women who engage in this behavior don't settle down. How many Korean, Chinese, etc athletes do you know in the first place? That's why your comparison falls on its face. Yeah, there's well off Koreans, Chinese, etc men, but they're's not an entire established league of them with a schedule that can be followed by the gold-diggers and attention whores.

Just because the Asians don't put all the business on twitter don't mean they aren't about the same sh*t. A lot of black women out there lookin' for men to settle down with b, it has nothing to do with the women, a lot of black men (including myself) of marriageable age don't wanna settle down Thus the "black women can't find a good man" social blogs and sh*t. Has a lot less to do with the women, more with the men. And even with that said, it's still overblown, 99% of my black friends/cousins 35+ are married to black women

 

[Reality]

Just because the Asians don't put all the business on twitter don't mean they aren't about the same sh*t. A lot of black women out there lookin' for men to settle down with b, it has nothing to do with the women, a lot of black men (including myself) of marriageable age don't wanna settle down Thus the "black women can't find a good man" social blogs and sh*t. Has a lot less to do with the women, more with the men. And even with that said, it's still overblown, 99% of my black friends/cousins 35+ are married to black women

Who is flying all these Asian bytches across the country breh? And how do they meet them?

I'll wait.

 

[blackzeus]

Who is flying all these Asian bytches across the country breh? And how do they meet them?

I'll wait.

In Asia they just go to the high end hoehouse, pick out 10-20, and take 'em to the yacht/f*ckhouse, it's more direct. And yes, b*tches still be gettin' flown if they hot enough, cars bought, all of that. Because most rich black men are in entertainment, their business is public, as opposed to rich Asians, who are mostly industrialists.

 

[Reality]

In Asia they just go to the high end hoehouse, pick out 10-20, and take 'em to the yacht/f*ckhouse, it's more direct. And yes, b*tches still be gettin' flown if they hot enough, cars bought, all of that. Because most rich black men are in entertainment, their business is public, as opposed to rich Asians, who are mostly industrialists.

So, you're rebuttal is that Asian women who get paid to have sex for a living also get picked up by dudes.

I don't think you understand the thread, b.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

Black women would rather be the whore of a high-status man than a regular guy’s wife.

nikkaz really think this is exclusive to Black Women? I'm starting to think y'all don't leave the house

 

[blackzeus]

So, you're rebuttal is that Asian women who get paid to have sex for a living also get picked up by dudes.

I don't think you understand the thread, b.

There's a lot of Asian women who'd rather be the f*ck slut of some rich guy than slaving away cooking noodles over a hot stove in a house without A/C with a loving husband and family. But you won't know this kind of thing if your experience with women begins and ends with your computer

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

They taught us to hate ourself and love they wealth,that's why shorty's holler "Where the ballers at!?".