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  1. Vodun

    What would society be like if women were not shamed about how many partners she has had

    No slult shaming by men or women Able to talk about sex in detail in the open without feeling guilt How would that effect the dating game today and social media?
  2. Luken

    Why You Dont Get Girls Volume 3 : You're weird/ do weird things.

    Gather round, Gather round,Girls are easy to smash...even easier to talk to. if your not doing any of either these, something is wrong in your life. you dress decent, you look decent. you feel decent. But....your not getting any action...and you dont have too many female friends. Why is this...
  3. DatLBCGuy562

    Is It Worth It For A Man Over The Age Of 35 To Date New Prospective Lovers?

    I'm 39. Will be 40 in summer of '19 :flabbynsick: I just signed up for Match.com because my coworker swears that he eats on there. I see his logic. If women are actually paying money to be a part of a site, they are less likely to waste your time or play games in hopes of seeing a return on...
  4. Babymama Magnet

    When It Comes To Dating..Do You Have A Dating Pattern?

    Pattern being traits/characteristics of people you tend to date or so. Noticed all the girls i've dated have Jamaican in them :francis: With every girl i've dated they've been prettier then the last one :obama: ..but each new girl i've dated they're bigger then the last one :mjcry:
  5. BlackJesus

    Dreadlocks have become the dog whistle for blacks who only date whites

    It's official. If you see a black man or black women with dreads, you can be 98% certain they ain't on no pro-black tip. Oh, to the contrary. :hhh: If its a chick and she has a septum ring. You can pretty much forget about it. It used to be a symbol of black pride and self love. Now ironically...
  6. Luken

    If your Black, Muscular, Got an Accent and Tall; You can fukk a Woman from any country in the world

    #Facts. nikkas can go anywhere in the world and invade the place sexually, dont know too may other groups of people can can do that successfully. I keep seeing nikkas(and some women :comeon:) on here keep trying to push the whole 'black men are undesirable' agenda when its the furthest thing...
  7. Child_Of_God

    Are Women creeped out by Older Virgins?

    Like if your 25+ and never did as much as date before do women automatically lose respect for you?
  8. Londilon

    Ladies of the Coli: Stop listening to men online trying to teach you game on how men play women.

    I'm posting this because I see good girls constantly getting played by men when all they want is to find a husband. So they seek out these scammers who act like they have the code to finding a man. So here I am, I'm going to help you sistas out. Have you ever seen these type of videos pop up...
  9. Neuromancer

    What do you think the future of dating looks like?

    Like 5 to 10 years down the line? Do you think the dating scene will be the same? better or worse?
  10. M

    So do women appreciate affectionate, romantic men or not?

    Excuse me but I'm a youngbul wet behind the ears :mjgrin: My ideal romance is a Carl Thomas album. Love letters, poetry, roses for no reason, spoiling her with gifts, rubbing her feet when she comes home and asking about her day, conversations about her wants, fears, dreams and desires, making...
  11. M

    Ladies, what is your definition of a "quality man"?

    :ohhh: @CinnaSlim thread got me thinking What, in your mind, is the definition of a quality man, a good guy, hubby material, whatever you call it :smugfavre: In my mind, and most guys I'd assume, a quality man is..... -Does what is morally right (Or, if you are religious, is a devout man of...
  12. M

    Ladies, what has been your experience dating college-educated black men?

    :patrice: I'm on the road to success :blessed:
  13. M

    Educated/well off brehs, what is your experience dating hoodrats?

    :jbhmm: I was walking out of Publix after church today and seen the BADDEST voluptuous brown skin thang going inside, she almost made me drop my fried chicken & Hawaiian bread:whoo:She was talking on the phone & that voice tho :why: And that blonde wig:why: And that titty tattoo:why: I was...
  14. M

    Is there a correlation between girls being pretty & being thots/clout chasers?

    :why::why::why: I know I shouldn't speak in absolutes, but all the fine girls at my school are hunting down football/basketball dikk, or thotting it up for the pretty boys/SoundCloud nikkas. Like literally all of them, shyt is ridiculous
  15. Spiritual Stratocaster

    Brehettes don't care about MONEY..SWAG/CHARISMA>>>>MONEY

    :mjgrin: Dating Black men who look great on paper but no chemistry :( "Has anyone else dated a Black man who was very educated with one of the "big, sexy jobs" (doctor, engineer, lawyer, etc), but there was just no chemistry between y'all? I just had a date with one and he seems interested...
  16. M

    I admit it, I admit it......I'm a colorist

    :francis:Let me explain brehs & brehettes I can ABSOLUTELY see the beauty in darkskinned women. Most of my childhood crushes (Foxy Brown, Meagan Good, Vivica Fox, this Haitian girl in my elementary school after care program) were all dark/brown/visibly black girls. I see pretty dark girls all...
  17. M

    Educated brehs, how did your dating life change as your education/salary increased?

    :feedme: I'm on track to graduate magna cum laude with my B.B.A in marketing from a reputable state school, then I'm going to either Booth, Wharton or Goizueta for my MBA. The perks of having educated family members who donate back that can write letters of recommendation for you :ahh: If my...
  18. Neuromancer

    Men have it easier in the dating game.

    It's just facts. Brehs become courageous through trial and error, we can build up an immunity to rejection thanks to our levels of testosterone. Women aren't brave like us due to lack of it or rather little of it. It's why they will never get who they want. So let's stop being so hard on them...
  19. M

    What can be done so that black men are less commitment-phobic?

    I make this thread for no reason other than out of concern. I know that out of wedlock doesn't = deadbeat dad, but the stats show that children do BETTER in every single metric when both parents are married. I was raised by my mom as my parents broke up when I was a baby, and even though my...
  20. Neo TheInsurrectionistONE

    auntie invited me to this outdoor jazz concert tonight with a mature crowd and lemme just say...

    black women are BEAUTIFUL brehs. I don't care if they young or if they middle aged. I saw some straight 40 something 50 something yr olds that I legit wanted to holla at. and you know it's sundress season BREHS. :wow: these sistas aging like the best wine ever produced. it's incredible...
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