marriage

:patrice: Or settling down ? Do you hope to have a step mom or dad for your kids ? Is your current child's mother / father not on his / her purpose ? I look at that Jeezy situation and wonder do we do this to lo-key level up on our childs parent and spite is naturally a byproduct .. Jeezy...

Thoughts? He said...‘It’s in the works...don’t even trip...’ and looked off into the distance.

Affluent Americans Still Say ‘I Do.’ It’s the Middle Class That Does Not. Marriage and all its related social and financial benefits are becoming a luxury good. Middle-class Americans are forsaking marriage amid financial insecurity, effectively making the institution more of a luxury good...

:jbhmm: Wasn’t surprised by some of the answers.

She Thought She’d Married a Rich Chinese Farmer. She Hadn’t. :patrice:

Saw this Op Ed earlier.. What's y'all thoughts on this? :patrice: Young Men Giving Up On Marriage, Because ‘Women Aren’t Women Anymore’ References: The war on men :comeon: 8 facts about love and marriage in America

@The Wave since your about to thanos finger snap the other threads, refer to this one, it could save your financial future and mental health. trust me, i've seen many of these situations play out the wrong way. Have Pre-Nuptial Arrangements: No explanation needed here :comeon: You should of...

Do not get me wrong, im not an incel. However, females nowadays do not want to have kids. If they do not want to be nurturers as they were designed to be, why should men uphold the role as providers? Aren’t we providors for her AND THE CHILDREN we have together? Why do we need to provide for...

Can't I stand up and do it? Do I have to bow?

My growing disdain for marriage has nothing to with infidelity. I’ve cheated, been cheated on, did swinging, tricked, etc. I’m #JBO but my growing resistance to marriage is because I don’t care to be with any woman long-term for anything anymore. Definitely don’t want to reward a bytch when I...

I make this thread for no reason other than out of concern. I know that out of wedlock doesn't = deadbeat dad, but the stats show that children do BETTER in every single metric when both parents are married. I was raised by my mom as my parents broke up when I was a baby, and even though my...

Of course there are outliers... But Men saying "her sexual history doesn't matter" are simps about to waste money and time more than likely.

A cousin of mine is getting married today. If I do get married I'm not having a wedding. I'll get married at the justice of the peace. Sometimes I contemplate if marriage is for me. I do believe there's a girl out there for me. However, I haven't met her yet. What about you all? Or will...

Had a kid together too. Ask Away.

Why Marriage Can Be Bad for Black Women - How Marriage Is Affected by Race - What I find strange about this article is that it ignores the hundreds of thousands of black African families in the US which are succeeding in part because two-parent households/extended households under a single...

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Why is it so hard to find a good Christian woman? Could it be that men are looking in the wrong places for women with qualities that won’t make them happy? Christian men shouldn’t be looking for the next fling…they should be searching for a wife. This journey is difficult and hard to navigate...

A common theme I see among most black feminists is that black men aren't "providers & protectors." The definition of that depends on your personal compass, but to me, based on implied context, it means "Black men can't provide us with the lifestyle that white people on TV have." They obviously...