If You Don't Want Me, Why Can't I Holla At Ya Friend?

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:lolbron: buddy tried some shyt he saw on a sitcom :mjlol:

I'm fine with what you're saying.

My whole point is just, if your friend is a grown ass woman, let her make the decision if she wants your curved leftovers of not? :ld:

:mjlol: it was funny.

Maybe she already has and dude just didn't want to see the truth:pachaha:dudes tell themselves the it's the friends fault the friend is a hater all the time when in reality the other friend didn't want them either.
 
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If a guy overlooked me to holla at my friend and she turned him down so then he decided to try his luck with me? Yeah that's not happening, lol.

So if i understand your post, a guy who gets rejected by your friend, he proved he was ugly or unattractive in your eyes. So you dont want a man that another girl openly and immediately rejected on sight. Its a question of pride I guess. You didnt want the ''creepy thirsty leftovers'' of your friend and at the same time, he made you feel like second fiddle/choice by going after your friend first? Nah.

No woman wants a man that no other women want. Its simple. And a man in the eyes of woman who goes out of his way to approach and holla at girls is not attractive to women. Because if he was innately attractive for real, women would be running after him.
 

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:pachaha:dudes tell themselves the it's the friends fault the friend is a hater all the time when in reality the other friend didn't want them either.

Its always the friends fault :martin:
I refuse to believe otherwise :camby:
 

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The bolded is what i'm talking about. Why would your friend be disloyal for talking to a man you have no interest in?

Because your ego is too large and is cockblocking potential relationships:yeshrug:
Hence me saying it's the same in a reverse, twisted, woman logic kind of way :yeshrug:
 

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:mjlol: it was funny.

Maybe she already has and dude just didn't want to see the truth:pachaha:dudes tell themselves the it's the friends fault the friend is a hater all the time when in reality the other friend didn't want them either.
You push a woman in a corner and she will tell you the truth. I told yall brehs this. This is just a lie women use v. You to make you a 100% non factor and tarnish your reputation. Your reputation is everything. I still remember the dating game rules. I am so glad I don't have to deal with that bullshyt ever again.
 

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Its always the friends fault :martin:
I refuse to believe otherwise :camby:

Sometimes it is and sometimes it isn't.

Have you ever seen a guy talking to a girl and the friend come from where ever she is at and pull the friend away while she is like " sorry :(, my friend just :yeshrug:"

Good cop bad cop :smugdraper:

You push a woman in a corner and she will tell you the truth. I told yall brehs this. This is just a lie women use v. You to make you a 100% non factor and tarnish your reputation. Your reputation is everything. I still remember the dating game rules. I am so glad I don't have to deal with that bullshyt ever again.

:dwillhuh: What :mjlol:
 

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Call me lazy, but I tend to play it friendly with a group women that are friends till I find out which one is feeling me.

worst thing you can do is shoot your shot with the wrong girl and try and rebound with her friend. then you get known as thirsty :francis:

women are very territorial
 

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Some of you women got some nerves, you really got a thousand and one slient rules in the dating game and wonder why dudes aren't trying to marry you for whatever reason.

Seriously, I never want to hear anyone woman say men don't like them when you got so many rules. The minute a dude does break the rules, all of the ladies talk to each other and tell the other how lame and thirsty James is. His rep is ruin and he has to leave the premises forever but I was just looking out for you girl! For real, a lot of women just getting a taste of their own medicine. You can't harm these guys and think the universe don't talk.

With that said, there are a lot of women who don't play these child like games and they are appreciated.
 

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Call me lazy, but I tend to play it friendly with a group women that are friends till I find out which one is feeling me.

worst thing you can do is shoot your shot with the wrong girl and try and rebound with her friend. then you get known as thirsty :francis:

women are very territorial
Slient rules breh. Unwritten rules and best believe everyone will know about your failure while you wondering which people looking at you funny style. :patrice:
 

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Why is it that when a woman rejects a man, and he turns around and tries to holla at her friend it's a problem? The woman doesn't want the man, and it's not like they have history, had sex, dated etc.

If I told a chick I wasn't interested and she tried to holla at my friend I'd tell him "Cool breh, do you".

Like real talk, if you said you had a man, then I turned to your single girl friend you'd probably not have a problem with it. This hasn't happened to me, but I'm just saying.

And why is it women want a man to do all the work and chase them even after they've curved him? Like you shoot your shot with a chick and for some reason she wasn't feeling you, but later on she changes her mind. But she waiting for you to make a move, and does some passive aggressive shyt like stare at you or add you on social media :rudy:

And y'all say things like "If it was meant to be then we would be together" but you just curved dude, and he got tired of sitting around waiting on you.

:yeshrug: bytches be crazy
 

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But if your friend is cool with that, why you gonna cockblock her? :jbhmm:

If my friend was with me when he tried to pursue me, then she wouldnt take the bait anyway. My team is pretty solid.

If neither of them knew, then I can't have a problem, and I would only mention it to my friend IF we actually dated, not just him trying get my number or some little flirting crap that doesn't go anywhere.

This.
...if you try to talk to me then turn right around and try to talk to my friend on some "Ok what about you?" lol both of us would be like :camby:

And also this.
 

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women are funny, they want you to buy the whole crew drinks, but you can only talk to 1 of them. :mjlol:

If the woman didn't want the guy, why be mad if your friend does and they hit it off. You should be happy for her instead of hating because it makes you look salty
 

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How soon before this thread turns into 'how to have a threesome with a pair of best friends' :troll:

Never understood why women do that shyt too

As for the 2nd question, women doing that are immature and not worth your time, it's like some want you to chase them even when they have rejected you. A girl says no to me, ok cool have a nice day, she becomes faceless to me, don't see me later and be :queen: and expect me to react like :stylin:
 
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