It Appears Girl Code Is harmful to Women

[KneeGrow.]

Being territorial over something you don't even want

 

[thekingsmen]

look another selfish women

you date dude for a month or so and he is not your type i.e too nice but your girl loves nice dudes but that is a no go because you didnt want him? you weren't in love and it wasn't a deep relationship so what is the deal other than you being a ego driven toxic female who lays claim to any dikk that takes you out to eat. let me reiterate YOU BARELY DATED DUDE AND YOU WEREN'T EVEN FEELING HIM WHY DO YOU NEED TO CLAIM HIM STILL?


this just goes to show you women never look out for anyone else happiness except thr own..

I bet they are the same way if they went on a date once with a guy.

 

[Jasonmask]

meh, not if they broke up with the girl

Had a so call homie pull it on me. But I do know some brehs who don’t care

 

[Diondon]

If I didn't want a chick, I wouln't be mad if my potna scooped her.
So that's weird.
Now if she was my girl, shyt is different. Boundaries and so forth.
Sounds like ol girl is a selfish POS that wants to get her back broke then circle back to "nice guy" in due time

 

[HarlemHottie]

If I bushed a chick cause we fell out, you bringing her around knowing she has beef with me is trash.

But they don't have beef tho. It was an amicable split. She just didn't want him.

 

[Vandelay]

Depends how serious they were.

I'm easy going, so unless we were serious I wouldn't give a fukk.

I can empathize with people who would take issue, but nikkas catching feelings off a "jumpoff" like she still yours and you still have access to is some fukk shyt...

 

[SATAN]

Ha. Guess he's not such a 'nice guy' guy afterall - dipping in her pool of friends. Friends & Family are off limits.

I wouldn't want anything to do w/a dude who once pursued/was interested in my girlfriend: I would feel insulted.

No one is off limits. Once they're single, the whole world is fair game.

Welcome to the real world.

If my nikka break up with a bytch, and I'm feelin her, you best believe I'm scoopin her up. And I wouldn't give a fukk if the shoe was on the other foot.

Once y'all break up, they ain't yours anymore

 

[FishNGrits]

If you casually dated some one for a few months and drifted apart there is no reason to be territorial. I got a good friend dating a good girl who I was fukking with for 3 months but I just lost interest and stopped reaching out to her. I told him to go for it when he brought it up. The only off limits people are LONG term relationships and nikkas/bytches that burned you.


But for real yall cant be adults and get this emotional over some cat you talked to for a few months. You didn't even have a title on your relationship.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

so this makes it even worst

the woman isn't even attracted to dude physically she does not have claim to him

but my point is still valid women use the term "nice guy" if he is too available and seems too into a chick that only likes aloof men "bad boy" who treat her like garbage. game matters alot more than looks


stop with all this bullshyt of women not rejecting nice dudes who are nice. they do it all the time and some of the brehs get hoes just have the I am too available vibe that may turn off some hoes who like aint shyt dudes that treat them how they feel less than ...

I've met plenty of average nice guys who have good women. A lot of people are aiming out of their league physically, and just because a woman is attractive, doesn't mean she's a good woman.

No decent woman is putting up with a man who treats her like garbage. She likely has some emotional issues, and had no positive male figure in her life.

And a lot of these women who go for the bad guys are whores.

 

[GreenGhxst]

It's millions of men on earth and she chooses to date her friends ex

C'mon brehetta




They did only date 2 months though, but if your BEST friend isn't comfortable with it don't do it

 

[brandy]

I'm on the fence about it and need to know more information.

It depends on the relationship with the guy. If it ended well and we were not compatible, she can try her luck. If it didn't end well and we had a serious issue, I would be annoyed and make distance between my friend and him.

 

[Booker T Garvey]

She's finna dump the friend and get that man.

pretty much....she just ran to social media to ease her conscious before doing it

 

[AyBrehHam Linkin]

I wouldn’t date someone my homeboy smashed or used to date, I’d just smash too

Too many broads out here for the wifing

 

[DatNkkaCutty]

Wit all the fish in the sea...I've always questioned a friend that wants your sloppy seconds...

Theres good girls I shelved because I knew I wasn't ready for the situation at the time.
Doesn't mean I wasn't gonna get right back...
Now your man done scooped it...


You snooze you lose tho I guess...

 

[Voice of Reason]

Sure.

Let me preface this with - I have older bros, plenty of male relatives, & 2 childhood male best friends: I have seen some things go down w/their girlfriends, flings & conquests...

I've seen women compete, dirty mack, have no shame, backstab & be scandalous. And I've seen my fam & relatives use it all to their advantage. Friendships are burnt and they go on in hot pursuit of the next piece of tail.

I've seen my brothers selectively identify the type that would betray a friendship -
I am not that type of chic and would be insulted that a dude even thought he could pull that w/me.

[Only instance I would be ok w/a scenario like this is if I determined that I didn't want to go further than friends (this is an quick easy task for me as I have to be immediately attracted. Once I see a man as a platonic friend - I don't change my mind. Ever. It wouldn't take me an whole 2 months to figure out that I'm not feeling a man like that. Otherwise, it's not cool.]

You're selfish