Millennial marriage statistics

[yung Herbie Hancock]

I mean it's cool you want to be the male feminist contrarian (with the west african baby mom, covering all bases) but nah, the shyt's growing stale.
We know the whole couch schtick is cap, too.
You want to maintain gynarchy structure to secure your own position within IT, and I see you try to mix up some pro black "family shaming" into it with the "c00n calling" aspect.
You're like a twitter girl's idea of a man. Co-opting white feminist terms like incel and attempting to apply them generally (and calling the source of your terminology karen, like she ain't y'alls ideological mama )and then projecting by smearing any SYSBM/MGTOW (or any new acronym nikkas think of and cacs copy) as some cac derived alt right shyt - cap. Both ideological subsets came from black men, one mutated into something else.
Your ideology (black feminism) came from racist white women.
Stop being a basic racist white bytch.

I keep seeing people say this about him. What's the story?

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

The problem is, ya'll and the media are paying attention to bitter ass loud mouths.

Most women and men, and couples aren't like these extreme examples we see on social media/TV etc.

It's sensational and grabs you for a reason because it's the one experience damn near every human being can have is either a petty, demanding, full of shyt, toxic ass significant other

Men and Women both.

At some point men and women with dating woes and worries gotta look in the mirror and deal with the person they see, but more importantly, working towards being the individual that they feel can deserve and being understanding of what love is and what it means to display it to others.

Anybody who can't realize that, is bullshytting themselves. Period.

So what's your explanation behind the 28% black millennial marriage rate compared to 50% for everyone else? I'm genuinely curious to hear your opinion, no trolling.

 

[Ya' Cousin Cleon]

Edit: Only saw the top part.

I'm not saying shyt is sweet, anybody with eyes can tell you it's not, but this shyt isn't the end of the world either, if black people are still being in relationships and just not getting married until much later in life.

Which for those of us who live in predominately black areas, I can tell you, I mainly see black men with black women, having black baby's.

So what's your explanation behind the 28% black millennial marriage rate compared to 50% for everyone else? I'm genuinely curious to hear your opinion, no trolling.

 

[audemarzz]

I've never heard nobody that wasn't black or white washed use the term "mangina".

Also I would never call myself no fukking Male Feminists, that's non-sense.

now I work in IT? nikka, I worked in a warehouse. Have several seats.

not my fault the idea of manning up and taking charge of your life and giving back to your community scares ya'll sheltered ass weirdos.

You are a male feminist, and there is no "manning up/taking charge of your life/giving back" going on at all, that's just a smokescreen you put up.
"Sheltered ass weirdos" No, bytch nikka, you are simply a bytch ass nikka.
There are female identified bytch nikkas throughout the hood, sheltered by the skirts of mammyarchy.
You were not out in Chicago catching any stains, you were a stain, and you're an adult mama's boy projecting a bytch's idea of what a man is.
You don't take charge of anything but the chores and tasks your bytch assigns you, bytch nikka.
You don't give back anything but change from the store she sends you to for wine coolers and filter tip milds, goofy nikka.
I haven't heard the word "man up" come from anywhere BUT a single mother's mouth- bytches who can't keep a MAN UP in their crib longer than a few hours.

 

[Ya' Cousin Cleon]

I always strike a nerve with you nikka nerds boy lol

let that hate out breh, btw we drink White Claws in our household. Get it right.

lol the way ya'll dehumanize black people, and you wonder why BW don't want shyt to do with your crusty socks wearing ass

You are a male feminist, and there is no "manning up/taking charge of your life/giving back" going on at all, that's just a smokescreen you put up.
"Sheltered ass weirdos" No, bytch nikka, you are simply a bytch ass nikka.
There are female identified bytch nikkas throughout the hood, sheltered by the skirts of mammyarchy.
You were not out in Chicago catching any stains, you were a stain, and you're an adult mama's boy projecting a bytch's idea of what a man is.
You don't take charge of anything but the chores and tasks your bytch assigns you, bytch nikka.
You don't give back anything but change from the store she sends you to for wine coolers and filter tip milds, goofy nikka.
I haven't heard the word "man up" come from anywhere BUT a single mother's mouth- bytches who can't keep a MAN UP in their crib longer than a few hours.

 

[Bossino]

You are a male feminist, and there is no "manning up/taking charge of your life/giving back" going on at all, that's just a smokescreen you put up.
"Sheltered ass weirdos" No, bytch nikka, you are simply a bytch ass nikka.
There are female identified bytch nikkas throughout the hood, sheltered by the skirts of mammyarchy.
You were not out in Chicago catching any stains, you were a stain, and you're an adult mama's boy projecting a bytch's idea of what a man is.
You don't take charge of anything but the chores and tasks your bytch assigns you, bytch nikka.
You don't give back anything but change from the store she sends you to for wine coolers and filter tip milds, goofy nikka.
I haven't heard the word "man up" come from anywhere BUT a single mother's mouth- bytches who can't keep a MAN UP in their crib longer than a few hours.

Yall arguing with a fakkit I have on ignore

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

You are a male feminist, and there is no "manning up/taking charge of your life/giving back" going on at all, that's just a smokescreen you put up.
"Sheltered ass weirdos" No, bytch nikka, you are simply a bytch ass nikka.
There are female identified bytch nikkas throughout the hood, sheltered by the skirts of mammyarchy.
You were not out in Chicago catching any stains, you were a stain, and you're an adult mama's boy projecting a bytch's idea of what a man is.
You don't take charge of anything but the chores and tasks your bytch assigns you, bytch nikka.
You don't give back anything but change from the store she sends you to for wine coolers and filter tip milds, goofy nikka.
I haven't heard the word "man up" come from anywhere BUT a single mother's mouth- bytches who can't keep a MAN UP in their crib longer than a few hours.

so what exactly is the story breh. Yall always talk about him couch surfing and shyt but got no proof. Sounds like hearsay.

 

[Ya' Cousin Cleon]

I use to home school my kids at one point, and because most of TLR doesn't understand modern relationships, they somehow think home schooling means I sat on my ass all day

Not knowing

A)Daycare in this country is expensive
B) Same as homeschooling, and my BM at the time wasn't a nurse, so please believe we were both working, She worked during the day, I worked at Night.

so what exactly is the story breh. Yall always talk about him couch surfing and shyt but got no proof. Sounds like hearsay.

 

[semicko82]

Shiiiit speak to the ain't shyt/thuggin/dope dealin/scammin brehs about that. Plenty of brehs on the straight and narrow getting average to minimal play. Moreover when brehs who were passed over as lame/boring end up pushing better off financially they often date out, due to spite, so as much as you want men to be in the driver's seat, Black America has been a matriarchy for at least the half century. I'm @Tryna Makit doing things legitimately and while I get buns, I get by far the least play from bw. I'm never dating anything non-black but smashing is more or less get it how you live it (albeit tryna stay away from cac hos).

Many men have set the proper example but if they don't have street/hood mannerisms, or are caking something serious the fact of the matter that is significantly understated is that they won't get play from bw like that. We've seen studies and threads on this site that support the theory. At some point ratchetness became a cornerstone of the female black experience, and hood mannerism/tendencies became a cornerstone of the male black experience.

It's somewhat off the spirit of the thread but NBA Youngboy, King Von, DaBaby are valued over Coles, and Kendricks in the community. Moreover athletes/rappers are deities compared to scientists and businessman. Neil deGrasse Tyson gets like no fanfare in the black community. Despite median black male income being 30K (I make that now while still in school), bw see me and other bm who don't have materialistic items/brands as lames/broke boys/borings.

You can set an example ten times over if women don't want it they won't choose it until it's all they have left. I and a lotta other men have to much self respect to play the clean up man in those scenarios. Again Russell might be comfortable, but the vast majority of brehs ain't.

This really is a topic that deserves it's own thread, but people don't want to talk about it.

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

Women of all races make shytty choices of men. Black men should be better. We used to have high marriage rates, because men LED BY EXAMPLE. Now we make excuses and blame women for the degeneracy in the community. fukk excuses. Black men need to reassert ourselves as leaders. Women will follow.

No, you can't control women. Women will do as they please.

NBA youngboy is about to be on his 10th black baby mama, he is by all means a complete violent degenerate. Violent records, herpes, caught on video beating women yet these women still spread their legs for him and get pregnant . These women are attractive and could have easily found a decent black male.

Future same thing, we see it time and time again with women choosing men of being athlete or other dumb qualities in their 20's, only to whine in their 30's about the consequences. Cromartie got 9 plus baby mamas of the strength of being athlete only, will these women now pushing late 30's or 40s be cashing athlete no but in their prime they should be after educated black males or males working a trade, males that are bout their business in general.

 

[Balla]

Breh I'm your around your age (Gen Z) and it's not happening, for all the reasons listed ITT. Women don't want to build anything anymore, they want finished products, and they'll date older to get it. That's completely understandable from a resources perspective, but once I get to a place I have, I'm supposed to just develop convenient amnesia and forget the woman (who were just as if not more broke than I) who wouldn't piss on me if I was on fire in my early/mid 20s? I'm supposed to put forth manufactured/false/blind trust in women who place finances leaps and bounds ahead of character, chemistry, and compatibility? On behalf of what, a crumbling black community that doesn't even value/big up men that do things on the straight and narrow?

Call it selfish, call it p*ssy, call it risk averse, and I'll wear it like my skin. I'm going through some of the hardest times of my life, on the strength of family and personal fortitude, once you get past that it only get easier. Unless you really want kids it's very hard to justify the importance of a legal wife in modern society. In terms of sex you can get maaad milk without buying a cow even before you level up, if you know how to manipulate emotions. In terms of finances, how many women are really going to significantly elevate your quality of life by adding income through joint means, without hoarding some of their own money, or bringing in substantial/notable debt? I don't even have to get into the courts.

I'm 22, trying to finish school, and barring freshman year, lived at home my whole life, I'm supposed to finish get my own place and have less than 12-15 years to live on my own terms before again having to make decisions with input from other(s). I don't see it. I just don't. I may be skewed/bitter/jaded but when you contrast the opportunities and experience you have to forgo to live on the straight and narrow as a breh and match that up to the female counterpart, I can't see how I wouldn't end up more likely than not getting worked to some degree.

Outside of girls (now women, i guess) from hs and college, in the internet era you really don't know these women. I can't commit to a woman that used to have and OnlyFans or sugar daddy, but why would any woman who wants a chance at being taking out the game by a solid guy readily admit that early on, or at all. Older generations need to understand the world has changed and shyt isn't cut and dry.

I haven't even touched on finding a wife if you're a certain type of breh who only is seeking half black/bw exclusively.

Facts. Gotta do what u want and what makes you happy. Naysayers ain’t paying your bills.

 

[JLova]

Being married to the right person allows you to get ahead financially quicker than if you were single. 2 good salaries can work wonders. If you come into the relationship with assets, even better.

 

[CopiousX]

I'm at the point where I've given up the idea of getting married and settling down.
fukk that.
Like people say marriage makes you a better man...but Hitler was married and murdered over 6 million people so what are you really trying to say?

Spoiler

#GMB

I'm so happy being single and childless!

And being able to be SELFISH and live for ME! I cause I look out for my me and mines first.
AYO! fukk everybody else and they dumb shyt....I'm living nice!

Tbf, he did all the evil sht before getting married. So the point is kinda mute.




Dude was only married for the last 40hrs of his life. Another person might have been a better example. Most people's weekly work weeks are longer than Htler's entire marriage.




Or if you really want to use Htler as an example against marriage, you could mention that he only chose to get married in the middle of a mental breakdown, after losing litterally everything of value in his sick life(assets, friends, power,etc) . All of the above might've fcked with his mindset to make him agree to it.

 

[Actually6Foot3]

This generation puts more criteria on the type of man/woman theyll marry than they type they'll procreate with as if having a kid is an easier decision.

Being single is one thing. Being a single mom is an entirely worse financial constraint. Being on child support is a worse financial constraint but to each their own

 

[semicko82]

No, you can't control women. Women will do as they please.

NBA youngboy is about to be on his 10th black baby mama, he is by all means a complete violent degenerate. Violent records, herpes, caught on video beating women yet these women still spread their legs for him and get pregnant . These women are attractive and could have easily found a decent black male.

Future same thing, we see it time and time again with women choosing men of being athlete or other dumb qualities in their 20's, only to whine in their 30's about the consequences. Cromartie got 9 plus baby mamas of the strength of being athlete only, will these women now pushing late 30's or 40s be cashing athlete no but in their prime they should be after educated black males or males working a trade, males that are bout their business in general.

To be fair the “good “ guys are going after the same type of women the “bad” boys are going after.

Good dudes don’t want to pursue women in their lane because they deem them as too homely looking.

Gender wars basically boils down I can’t get the person I’m physically attracted to, so I’m going to bytch and moan on social media.

Everything boils down to looks.