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I was so not ready for this man to switch up on me. Breh doesn't know all he has to do is ask and I'll let his fine ass put me through every mattress in his house.

:pachaha:
Smash. Wife. Hold hands. Drinking bath water.

I feel I missed something. I am normally super observant. How did I miss this? He gave me nothing. NOTHING. Not a flirt. Not a slight touch. NOTHING. Not a slightly inappropriate comment. NOTHING.

Most men when they want you they have this little glimmer in their eyes. No glimmer. Nope. Maybe it's there but because it's been so long I just assumed it would never be.

So super respectful for YEARS. I have probably never met such a considerate person.

I am not use to being wrong about people EVER. I hope he's not embarrassed. I need that follow through. Lol

I keep replaying things in my head looking for the prior clue. I can't think of 1.

But the ball is in his court. I left the door open. I am an extremely direct communicator and my confidence is as big as a mountain. But I have to remember 99% of people are not on that and have to process their stuff. It's not easy being vulnerable. Imma give it space. I don't want to be pushy.

Or, maybe I'm wrong now and misinterpreting. I doubt it.
 
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I was so not ready for this man to switch up on me. Breh doesn't know all he has to do is ask and I'll let his fine ass put me through every mattress in his house.

:pachaha:
Smash. Wife. Hold hands. Drinking bath water.

I feel I missed something. I am normally super observant. How did I miss this? He gave me nothing. NOTHING. Not a flirt. Not a slight touch. NOTHING. Not a slightly inappropriate comment. NOTHING.

Most men when they want you they have this little glimmer in their eyes. No glimmer. Nope. Maybe it's there but because it's been so long I just assumed it would never be.

So super respectful for YEARS. I have probably have never met such a considerate person.

I am not use to being wrong about people EVER. I hope he's not embarrassed. I need that follow through. Lol

I keep replaying things in my head looking for the prior clue. I can't think of 1.

But the ball is in his court. I am an extremely direct communicator and my confidence is as big as a mountain. But I have to remember 99% of people are not on that and have to process their stuff. It's not easy being vulnerable. Imma give it space. I don't want to be pushy.

Or, maybe I'm wrong now and misinterpreting. I doubt it.
Gotta ask :hubie: is he a Virgo ? Lol

This only happens to me with those men and I don’t get it lol
 

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I know this is ladies only but I have a question. I got a vasectomy last year. My Wife cycle is 3 weeks late. She got a blood test yesterday showing that she’s not pregnant.
:whew:
Now what? She’s normally very regular. She has been late maybe 10 days this year but other than that she’s been on point.
:patrice:
She’s had a procedure this year to snatch some cells out of her uterus. Hormones were checked two months ago as well and they were normal. She has been stress free because our family has been together for the last seven months (I work in Japan half the year). What could it be?
:lupe:
 

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I know this is ladies only but I have a question. I got a vasectomy last year. My Wife cycle is 3 weeks late. She got a blood test yesterday showing that she’s not pregnant.
:whew:
Now what? She’s normally very regular. She has been late maybe 10 days this year but other than that she’s been on point.
:patrice:
She’s had a procedure this year to snatch some cells out of her uterus. Hormones were checked two months ago as well and they were normal. She has been stress free because our family has been together for the last seven months (I work in Japan half the year). What could it be?
:lupe:
Have her get her bloodwork done. It could be many things.
 

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I'm having one of the best weeks of my LIFE :pachaha:

I was the life of the party, my new crush did some wildly romantic shyt, I got the premium office space out of nowhere, I had a job interview that went very well, finally found a good skincare routine and I caught not 1 but TWO of my ops slipping ON CAMERA.

:russ:

I'm playing the lotto tomorrow I swear to god.

I'm normally a die hard skeptic but I decided to ride the dopamine wave through the party and I have yet to come down. Why not? I deserve nice feelings.

I ALWAYS do nice things for people. I make people laugh, I make them feel so seen and special and people barely ask me shyt about myself.

People literally buzz around me like flies ALL fukkING DAY. Always wanting my attention.

I don't even mind but it would be nice if someone just did something nice for me for a change.

So I said fukk it! Imma live in Lalaland for a few days and now it's been a week. I hope it at least lasts through the weekend.
 
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