Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Turbulent]

That video is crazy, that gal with the blue skirt was pulling her skirt up letting the whole ass hang out. This part time job I used work,a fellow worker, a Polish guy married to his wife and they have two kids together. His wife went clubbing and met a dude in the club, she ran away with dude and took his kids. The Polish brother has since relocated to Poland and started again with a new gal. This don't happen in the black community, scandalous women are common. Be careful and screen these women you choose to associate yourself with

Fellas where do you suggest meeting decent women?

decent women can be met everywhere. you can meet them at work, you can meet them through friends, you can meet them randomly. the problem is too many of us don't pay attentionto the red flags when they arise and also when we find one, we gotta impose boundaries.not saying you should hold them prisoner, never that. i'm saying she should always be aware of what you will or won't tolerate and after that it's her choice but you have to follow through cause no matter how
decent she was when you found eachother, she will STILL test you. and a lot of times, because she was so "sweet and decent" when you found her, you let your heart go soft so when she does test you make all sorts of excuses for her cause you simply can't believe she's behaving that way, "there MUST be some sort of explanation"...if you don't check her you're contributing to making a sweet girl turn.

so yeah, it's not necessarelyjust about finding them. they are out there. sometimes it's about doing what you need to do to make sure they remain decent with you. Ultimately, you have no control over it. she'll do what she'll do. Only thing you can control is how great you are (the value you provide) and if you choose to stay or leave.

 

[TXTrill1]

Now one of those things a lot of guys are accepting of is letting their woman go to the club while they are in a relationship or dating a woman when they know she hits up the club all the time. It's tough because she's so cool, but she just has that one trait that makes you throw her back... but this video is a perfect example of why you don't date a club flower... aka a woman rooted in the club scene:



your girl rings you up to pick her up from that 'night out' with the girls at 5 in the morning to come get her at the hotel that her and the girls just had to stop at. "We didn't want to drive home drunk, so we had to get us a room!" You know something is funny and you ask her what did ya'll do at the club... "Oh nothing. Me and the girls just had a few drinks, walked around and caught up with old friends." Since you got feelings for her, you know something is wrong, but you choose not to believe it because you don't want to face the reality of what it is... but take that video in mind and think to yourself do you want to build something with a woman that is doing that every weekend? It's tough, but you have to learn to throw fish back... a lot of them look great on the outside, but are filled with mercury and other poisons on the inside. That's what makes the game so tough these days. You will have to throw back a LOT of fish... but when you do come across that one that is fit for consumption, that's when you feast. Always hold a woman's morals in MUCH higher regards than how big her booty is or how she does this or that freaky act. It's not an easy lesson in this age of lust, but so necessary if you want to be able to build with a woman.

 

[MikelArteta]

No offense to monsieur fox but your like what 20?

I was in your shoes before thinking I knew alot about women, with age comes experience and wisdom
I'm not calling foe the destruction of women , raping them impregnating and leaving them etc.

 

[MikelArteta]

Kevm speaks the truth as always I've noticed a lot in these days to not have the insecure label attached to them men won't say anything when their girl goes to the club, or continues to talk to exes or 100 different guys.

To me its important to lay down the law if you are going to get serious with a broad

And if she doesn't like it stand firm and toss back in the ocean.

People rarely change especially when they are older.better to cut your losses early before you develop more feelings

 

[ryshy]

Tbh im not exactly the king of mackin but i know how to handle situations

One question tho, if im at a hookah bar an a girl is givin me that look, i know i go talk to her, but wtf should i say after wats ur name (u tryna fukk?)

 

[ryshy]

Tbh im not exactly the king of mackin but i know how to handle situations

One question tho, if im at a hookah bar an a girl is givin me that look, i know i go talk to her, but wtf should i say after wats ur name (u tryna fukk?)

learn how to listen without actually listening


ex:

girl: [insert some irrelevant babble]
you: *playing Madden 2012*
girl: [insert more irrelevant sh*t]
you: "that's crazy"
girl: [says a statement that seeks affirmation from you]
you: word?
girl: i know right?
girl: [continues to go on & on about more irrelevant sh*t]
you: [rephrases the last few things she said into a question to make her think IGAF ]
girl: exactly!!!
girl: [talks for the next 20 minutes]



its a skill brehs....

my mom gave me enough experience with that (dont eget the wrong idea........)

 

[ryshy]

Tbh im not exactly the king of mackin but i know how to handle situations

One question tho, if im at a hookah bar an a girl is givin me that look, i know i go talk to her, but wtf should i say after wats ur name (u tryna fukk?)

learn how to listen without actually listening


ex:

girl: [insert some irrelevant babble]
you: *playing Madden 2012*
girl: [insert more irrelevant sh*t]
you: "that's crazy"
girl: [says a statement that seeks affirmation from you]
you: word?
girl: i know right?
girl: [continues to go on & on about more irrelevant sh*t]
you: [rephrases the last few things she said into a question to make her think IGAF ]
girl: exactly!!!
girl: [talks for the next 20 minutes]



its a skill brehs....

my mom gave me enough experience with that (dont eget the wrong idea........)

 

[Kenny West]

so when yall approaching on the street what do you open up with.

I'm experimenting with this one.

You: *Walks up* Hey ashley, long time no see (you can put any ol banter in as you would someone you're familiar with)
Her: My names not ashley
You: Not ashley eh?


.....well you gotta admit.....it was a good guess

Her: no it wasn't!


continues on itself.

I gotta learn to off approach game one way or another

 

[ryshy]

so when yall approaching on the street what do you open up with.

I'm experimenting with this one.

You: *Walks up* Hey ashley, long time no see (you can put any ol banter in as you would someone you're familiar with)
Her: My names not ashley
You: Not ashley eh?


.....well you gotta admit.....it was a good guess

Her: no it wasn't!


continues on itself.

I gotta learn to off approach game one way or another

if i was a girl an someone did this id walk away, if u gonna walk up to me outta no where u better bring something good to the table, not just a transparent gimmick like that

i overheard some girls talkin about how much they hate when dudes hit on them, ive found being genuine is the best way (this might just b for white girls tho idk)

personally, not to make things about race, but ive found black girls if theyre interested after introducing urself everything will just happen, cus in our culture its the norm to "holla" at girls

idk man it might work, guarentee it wouldnt on most white girls tho i know white ppl they would b mad for some reason

 

[Kenny West]

if i was a girl an someone did this id walk away, if u gonna walk up to me outta no where u better bring something good to the table, not just a transparent gimmick like that

i overheard some girls talkin about how much they hate when dudes hit on them, ive found being genuine is the best way (this might just b for white girls tho idk)

personally, not to make things about race, but ive found black girls if theyre interested after introducing urself everything will just happen, cus in our culture its the norm to "holla" at girls

idk man it might work, guarentee it wouldnt on most white girls tho i know white ppl they would b mad for some reason

it's all in the execution. i've only done it once but she was laughing by the "no it wasn't!" part. it's just about being bold. tho it wasn't a white girl I tried this on.

boldness is a go to tool for me. no better way to make a first impression outside of tongue kissing a better lookin chick in front of her. the best shyt is to go to a cafe or food court, see a chick sitting by herself and go up like

Me: Who's sitting here

Her: Nobody

Me: ok. *sits down and begins to *

Her: .....

begin convo from there

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

I'm 21, but that's beyond the point. I don't think that I know a lot about women, in fact now a days I'm more concerned with the ones I'm dealing with than the whole gender. In fact I showed that exact thing when I inquired about the Brazilian woman. I'm not here to learn about them, I'm here to learn about the ones I deal with so that I can get some sort of understanding for how they feel, and that goes for men as well. Why do they think this way? How do they feel? These are things that I have interest in, being able to know their every move or to play chess with them isn't 1 thing that I'm interested in.

And I never made you out to be that way, that's a dramatization of my words. Either way she responded, I'll read the message in a bit and fill you in.

 

[MikelArteta]

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=46622125

Physical attraction comes first so let's not act like it doesn't...
YES I know I'm beautiful I also know what I want and won't settle !

Do you have children? Yes
19 year old Woman
Education High School
Profession student

 

[semtex]

I swear fags like me more than women.

 

[LebronsHairline]

Briffault's Law

The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place. — Robert Briffault, The Mothers, Vol. I, p. 191

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robert_Briffault

So much male butthurt could be avoided if they understood this law.

This was the realest piece of advice i've ever heard when i first learned about it like 5 years ago

 

[kevm3]

In regards to JB's question, I can't say that there is any particular place to 'find a good woman' as much as places you want to avoid if you are looking for one... steady club goers are generally to be avoided. Now, you can come across decent women at school, church, at work, etc., but the key is to continually filter any woman you deal with wherever you happen to meet her. You could meet her anywhere so be prepared.