Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Easy-E said:
True...

I may have messed one up, though...:sad:

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/help-brehs-dad-tryna-hook-me-up-with-friends.137432/

And to think, I was just :troll:'n for views

But, now I feel I should've called her


Yea', and end up addicted to the ghost of past...relations. It's the same thing, breh. Men keep tryna make this cultural case, IMO, based on a double standard.

Don't use the master key/broken lock metaphor, either.
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So call now then, rejection is better than regret.

Men can have meaningless sex though, however there are sexual soul ties each gender must deal with.
 
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Brehs need your help:

Girl went to the club last night with her friend she calls me on her way to her friends house saying she just wanted to hear my voice before she went out. We chop it up for a bit then I tell her to text me when she get there and when she gets home she says cool. We say our love you'd and hang up.

I stayed up cleaning and watching movies because my dumbass had my pre workout too late because of a late workout so I had hella energy.

Anyway it's 3:30am I text her like thanks for texting me
She responds with I'm still at the club babe.
I respond with the club closes at 3am :childplease:
(Mind you let out is 2:30am)
After I sent her that I haven't heard from her since.

I'm pissed I feel disrespected or am I just over exaggerating? I think it's just common courtesy when someone says text me when you get home you do so.

We were suppose to hang out today honestly I feel like telling her fukk that.
 
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Christopher browns said:
Brehs need your help:

Girl went to the club last night with her friend she calls me on her way to her friends house saying she just wanted to hear my voice before she went out. We chop it up for a bit then I tell her to text me when she get there and when she gets home she says cool. We say our love you'd and hang up.

I stayed up cleaning and watching movies because my dumbass had my pre workout too late because of a late workout so I had hella energy.

Anyway it's 3:30am I text her like thanks for texting me
She responds with I'm still at the club babe.
I respond with the club closes at 3am :childplease:
(Mind you let out is 2:30am)
After I sent her that I haven't heard from her since.

I'm pissed I feel disrespected or am I just over exaggerating? I think it's just common courtesy when someone says text me when you get home you do so.

We were suppose to hang out today honestly I feel like telling her fukk that.
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:snoop: your in a committed relationship and you allow your girl to go to a club?

from the mouth of @kevm3

Man cats really need to start having standards out here and standing by it. If you're in a relationship and your woman is still going to the club, you better turn that Teddy Pendergrass on and listen to them words, "I think I better let it go... It looks like another loveeeee TKO."

Cats really got to stop making exceptions for these women. There IS NOTHING in a club for a woman in a relationship but trouble. If you dealing with a woman and she keeps making excuses and stories up to do the wrong thing, let her butt go. You need a woman who is constantly rationalizing about doing the right thing and acting on that instead of engaging in out of pocket behavior and trying to justify it to the inner sucker in a man.
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Exactly. Cats that don't know better and end up believing ho stories and end up with a sob story.

if these women were really about 'hanging with the girls and dancing,' they'd be at one of the homegirls' houses and playing some music. Ain't no way they'd be wearing skimpy dresses, drinking liquor, just 'dancing with the homegirls.' They are going out for attention. If they don't see a guy that they are digging that will approach them, they will have 'just danced with the girls', but if they do, they will take that dude's number or get it popping somewhere in the club and after, and she'll have another ho story to tell when she gets exposed... "I'm SO sorry, I was drunk and didn't know what I was doing."

And on another point, it validates what a lot of cats here are saying. If you want to know about what your girl is doing, look at her social media, especially the ones she doesn't think you know about. You will often times get a whole new picture of what she was really doing compared to what she told you.
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so i just registered onto POF yesterday, sent a message out to this one chick and within 24 hrs we have exchanged atleast 10 or so messages, before she logged off tonight she told me that if I wanted to see her to text or call her and then gave me her number w/o me asking. Normally when I get a number I call on first contact, however the last 5 chicks ive done that with they havent answered and ended up texting me back, so with this chick im going to text her tomorrow and see if we can get together on Monday evening night, because if not I wont be able to hook up with her until next sunday
 
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Mr210 said:
so i just registered onto POF yesterday, sent a message out to this one chick and within 24 hrs we have exchanged atleast 10 or so messages, before she logged off tonight she told me that if I wanted to see her to text or call her and then gave me her number w/o me asking. Normally when I get a number I call on first contact, however the last 5 chicks ive done that with they havent answered and ended up texting me back, so with this chick im going to text her tomorrow and see if we can get together on Monday evening night, because if not I wont be able to hook up with her until next sunday
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I always go by the rule. 1 call no voicemail. Call her and if she doesnt respond within 48 to 72 hours. *bushes* Your window is short with women especially POF women,because there are literally 100 other dudes who she probably told same thing to :kanye:
 
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Bruh nothing good happens after midnght.She could have at least called. Now be on the lookout for the old excuse "my battery died" etc.... Dont believe that,cause she could have used her homegirl's phone if she TRULY cared. Whats strange is once women start having "Girls nights out" and start going to clubs thats when relationships have problems.
 
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Bruh nothing good happens after midnght.She could have at least called. Now be on the lookout for the old excuse "my battery died" etc.... Dont believe that,cause she could have used her homegirl's phone if she TRULY cared. Whats strange is once women start having "Girls nights out" and start going to clubs thats when relationships have problems.
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Damn so should I chill with her today at all or just shyt on her?
Or I could just tell her we not going out unless she pays for everything :mjpls:
 
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C.Holla said:
I always go by the rule. 1 call no voicemail. Call her and if she doesnt respond within 48 to 72 hours. *bushes* Your window is short with women especially POF women,because there are literally 100 other dudes who she probably told same thing to :kanye:
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you are nice than me, I give a woman 24 hrs to respond either by text or return phone call when I call, but seeing as this chick said either text or call, im just going to hit her up tomorrow by text
 
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